How to treat the money to become a rich man.
Happiness is not in money but in their numbers, says the proverb.
Who does not dream of the day when a thousand, a million, a billion (underline) outstanding USD fell from the sky and get rid of worries about their daily bread? "That's when I'll be kinder and happier," - says the inhabitant -... and is trapped.
PERFECT MONEY CHARACTER
Money is not able by themselves to improve the lives, says a member of the International Academy of Informatization at the United Nations, business consultant, psychotherapist, author of "Keep the money," "Why are you still a beggar," Igor O. vagina.
They do not make anyone better - only reveal the essence of their owner. The best proof of this - the fact that all the money of the rich are the same, and people - different.
How do you feel about money, this depends very much. And how to deal with money, to become a rich man.
* If the money or treated contemptuously indifferent, they say, "what is - okay," then you have a lot of money will never happen.
* Do you think that money is being taken away from spirituality? Supporting examples you will find, but the money did not see.
* Dreaming of a specific amount (eg, 5 thousand dollars)? So, in reality, you will earn much less. It's kind of a barrier: you are afraid of wanting more money and feel it.
* If you think about money carelessly - you crumple them to stuff his pockets, then you do not respect them and do not perceive the way they deserve. Such a man is always the loser. He is sure to offer low-paying job, a spouse will fall fixated on money, and instead of a trip to Hawaii, he will be forced to spend their vacation at the cottage at Tiffany's.
* Envious of the rich or despise those who have less money? You mess up not only the character, but also life.
* If you do not really know how to handle your money, you simply lose, instead of getting mental anguish.
* You philanthropist, and all the while giving a loan? There is a chance that, sooner or later you will lose your friends. People are rarely grateful to those who favored them more than once.
Yet we must admit that the lack of money corrupts more than their presence in a large scale.
Without money, people deprived of freedom of choice to live, eat, rest and treatment, where he wants. Money divides people into social circle and qualitative aspects of life.
As long as there is money, there is a desire, the incentive to achieve in life more, to benefit the family, children and society.
Money gives confidence in their own demand. After all, we are still working somewhere. And if at the same time we have no money, so our job is not necessary to society, and hence we do not need society. And what could be worse than the feeling of aimlessness of their existence?
Without money, it is difficult to be developed personality: a constant struggle for survival, the economy, work in 2-3 places at once transforms man into biorobot. It is among the poor the most evil and unhappy, dissatisfied and envious.
The rich also cry
This is known to all. And it is part of the rich crying on the size of their capital. The man who got rich quickly - the most frequent client of a therapist. Big money are sometimes unbearable burden, which takes peace and sometimes brings to mental illness.
The main thing that poisons life - fear of losing money. Nouveaux riches are constantly fear that the money will take away the state (exorbitant taxes, default, devaluation, the failure of the bank) that they burn through on any deal or will drive the bandits: Pathological fear arises, as a rule, where there is no experience, skills, the ability to consciously taking risks.
Successful entrepreneurs who made his fortune for yourself and not on the first try, is not afraid to lose, because they know how to get lost. And they do not run the risk of more than 5-10%. Reasonable businessman never satisfied the likelihood of luck 50 to 50.
And among such reasonable business much less psychopathic, depression and other mental disorders than among the others. After all, in business as in professional sport, there is no place the weak. Every day requires a clear head, endurance, practicality and the ability to think and make unconventional decisions.
Wealth or poverty? Count your money!
To finally weigh the pros and cons of wealth, it is necessary to clarify what you mean by it. Expensive car, well furnished apartment, an opportunity to rest abroad - this is not wealth. But the real estate, securities, stocks and bonds, income - is already something.
Very often, people are considered rich, in fact, consists entirely of his suit, as he said Gogol.
There are two ways to calculate, rich or not.
The first way. Rate property minus debts. It is a way subjective, because it all depends on how much is raised plank wealth. If you have an apartment, car and savings, which can live - you fixed up nice. But colleagues and the car can be better and more capital. It is also well settled, but better than you. Just you in different niches.
The second way is more objective. Determine the expected level of value of the property. Multiply your age by the total annual income, taking into account all sources, in addition to inheritance, before taxes. Now divide by 10. That's how much should it cost your property.
If you really have 2 times more, then you belong to the group of TNB (a talented drive of wealth). If 2 times less - PNB (bad storage of wealth), well, consistent with the proposed actually means that you NSS (average drive of wealth). Draw conclusions.
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