Life is Beautiful and amazing

Have you ever said to yourself - "here will finish repair, and then it will begin to live" or "Now I will write a diploma, all of me will be restrained, then so will the real life"? In light of these beliefs is happening "here and now"

perceived only as a preparation for real life.

Tomorrow, tomorrow, not today

They say the "right" millionaire (not nouveau riche any) must go to the mangy jeans. Allegedly, he had no time to buy new, because the projects on which he works, is much more important things such as the lowland update wardrobe.

About millionaires is not known, but some people do just that are simple everyday pleasures: they take the time during which it would be possible to have time to do something useful. In the rank of useful optional elevated earning money. It may be the performance of any commitments.

Are you this will not happen? And you never said to yourself - "here will finish repair, and then it will begin to live" or "Now I will write a diploma, all of me will be restrained, then so will the real life"?

In light of these beliefs is happening "here and now" is perceived only as a preparation for real life.

Those who currently brings real life with money, more or less clear. They are driven not so much by love of money, how much fear of being left without them. Such a person feels calm, but when he sees that his fortune has been steadily growing.

Any unnecessary waste of time and money caused his sense of loss. First, gatherings with friends, then traveling abroad - so far to poverty! Similarly outlook m often differ those who grew up in a poor family. They quietly tolerate all sorts of hardships and have a tremendous capacity for work.

And therefore believe that the pleasure and not needed at all. In order to somehow justify for themselves the waste of time and money on such trifles as the travel, so people should accept them as a regular contributor to their business. For example, rest on the sea, gives new strength for further work, and a tan color and make the appearance more attractive.

All the best - to children!

Another common reason for postponing life "for later" - the reluctance to pass selfish.   They are good parents can go to the theater, leaving the child with an elderly grandmother? Is it permissible to enjoy a tropical cocktail while your neighbors dinner buckwheat?

Those who argues in this way is generally tends to please your loved ones. Such people may overwhelm the gifts of children following their boundless imagination, but rarely dare to afford at least a tenth of the others arranged for the holiday.

This type of behavior is also associated with the lessons from childhood stereotypes of parental behavior. If the girl watched while universal feast mother torn between the kitchen and the living room, only sitting down for a moment on the corner of the table, dropping wearily onto the apron hands stained with flour, it will be like to imagine the holidays.

If you are familiar with these feelings, try to look at the situation from the perspective of their loved ones. Is not it nice to see a child happy mother and her husband - well-groomed wife? And your austerity makes them feel uneasy and worry about you.

Feast in Time of Plague

Some people prefer to postpone their enjoyment of life on the high moral, religious and patriotic convictions. You can not enjoy anything when GDP doubled in Vladivostok power outages, and in Zimbabwe are starving children.

Such a person takes to heart the place in the world political and economic events, not noticing that his life is almost nothing interesting. This peculiar way of avoiding the real problems.

It is much easier to worry about the others, sitting in front of the TV than to understand their own lives. Often, such a mindset promoting people of mature age, accustomed to live under a once-popular Soviet slogan: "Public higher personal."

To get rid of excessive sensitivity, it is necessary to resort to elementary logic.

Firstly, if you ever come good and easy times when there will be no problems, you most likely will not find them already, but in old age you will be nothing to remember.

Second, children in Zimbabwe, food will not increase if you give up going to the bowling club.

And finally, taking another vacation, you upset another sostradaltsa who hears the news that according to statistics, thousands of working people do not use their vacation location.

Live - health harm

If you abide by all the canons of a healthy lifestyle, the simple human pleasures simply did not find a place. After all, almost everything, which is nice, is harmful to health.

Midnight gatherings with friends are knocked out of their regime and deprive a person needs 8 hours of sleep. Travel around the world threaten the problems of acclimatization. And, for example, beautiful shoes with heels impedes venous outflow.

So wind the man following in the park in spacious sandals with arch supports, nagulivaya appetite before dinner, consisting of spinach and yogurt. Blush is, but there is no happiness.

Carried away by the care of health is sometimes remember the famous aphorism: "Life - it is a disease with one hundred percent fatal."

Or at least to complement its philosophy the idea that the majority of serious diseases develop on the background of depressed emotional state.

And in general, the failure of the natural needs - a huge stress to the body.

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How to become a female bitch

I have a long-standing friend of Light. Several years ago, she was sitting at home with a baby in her husband doted. Among our friends, they were considered the perfect couple. My husband Svetochka - positive person in every way: does not drink, does not smoke, bring the money home and madly in love with his wife and daughter.

For a time in the family was quiet, smooth surface and grace. The child was three years old and it was time to go to work Svetochka. That's where our story began - she fell in love. The object of her love was the chief doctor of the hospital where she worked as a diagnostician.

He made a couple of compliments, invited to dinner, and that was enough to cause Svetochka tumultuous feelings. Several months she spoke only of him, dressed and painted for him. "I work on the novel," - she whispered into the phone that her husband had not heard.

From the side of the head physician it was an easy affair. It has long been firmly was married and had three children. What it counted Light, hard to understand, but this love she ducked as a pool. So much so, that scared the hapless suitor.

Frightened that the proposed transfer during their intimate meetings to the evening, after work, somewhere in a neutral place. He was taken aback: why go somewhere, if anything can be done quickly and in the workplace. And the wife at home waiting for the evening ...

After that conversation, he did not show up in her office. And then with Sveta became hysterical: it is almost two months, could not have lost ten kilos, constantly crying, and sat down on tranquilizers.

Svetsik husband did not understand, but she explained your stress overload at work. But as you know, time heals. Light gradually climbed out of the doldrums. Realized, finally, that a man of forty-five years, with the outlined abdomen, lisping speech and three children is not worth the experience.

She was disappointed. However, such a shake-up of the gift is not passed. Without another office romance Light of Life itself is not represented. Svetlana embraced some evil passion. She needed someone to fall in love with a, but not just fall in love and win a landslide victory to prove to herself that she was worth something.

My husband had nothing to prove he loved her, and so she moved on to colleagues. One handsome young doctor she was able to catch on pretty quick hook and almost divorce his wife.

Interrupted only by his untimely vacation, during which time he changed his mind and away from sin left the hospital. It is very annoyed, but she had to stop but could not.

By this time the relationship with her husband fell into disrepair. He felt her indifference and vaguely guessed that he grow large branched antlers.

Last time we met Sveta summer cafe. Once we have not seen half a year, the changes in her appearance seemed to me striking. She was dressed in style - during his escapades Svetlana changed the whole wardrobe and dyed hair in a light color.

For half a year of buoyant plump-flirtatious Light turned into a mother's skinny bitch who will not stop until until you destroy someone's family.

Maybe it's not the best way become a bitch . but if you still want it, you become the most important thing to act. Do not be lazy to work on themselves, "and the day and night, day and night ..." including natural femininity and charm.

Experimenting and every day to be different, a little capricious. And then the man pulled a magnet, and the women begin to hiss through clenched teeth: "Well, what he found in it ?! ". You just smile mysteriously and condescending - and so, and others. After all, you - dominant.

You idolize no one more than himself. For you make fights (even the local) and rip stars from the sky.

And only you can find the most worthy compliment for your train will be pulled, "Whew, sssterva! "

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