Women and divorce do not regret what was not to guess what will happen, upgrade there!

What is a divorce for a woman? I thought about it on the eve of his own divorce ... the fourth.

How to describe the excruciating torment that happen in my soul? Feeling new, unfamiliar ... and everything in this world is relative, and the old man Einstein was always right?

I want a divorce

I dig deeper into his memory ... and found:

My divorce is likely similar to the plastic surgery.

I know that I need it ... not just a need, and I'm really looking forward to it even, and I want more than that, I have to pay for it. But I'm scared. I do not know what will happen to me after this procedure.

I can not imagine how my life has changed after the divorce. And ready to brand yourself on what light is behind such a decision.

Well, why do not I need these protruding ears or straight nose? Yes, I have already got used to the spare parts, I know them. I know where they hide, if that. And is not that big nose, even very much like it.

Inside the mind knocking: and what you'll be beautiful ... free!

30 minutes before the operation, 20 minutes, 10 rolls ... heart. And you've already invited into the operating room, where all the horrible cold and smells ... but not what it does not smell! The continuous vacuum. Because already without anesthesia legs give way.

Lay on the table ... and that's before the eyes of the whole life flashes. The meetings, the first embrace, the first kiss and the words of the registry office employee: "Is your desire to marry free ..."

What freedom was discussed then? What do I hope for? .. At that time already a good anesthesiologist doing his thing ... that aired immerses you in a dream ... thoughts are slowed down and spread out. And then wee-wee ... wait for the answer.

The operation ended. You bring in a comfortable room. Consciousness returns. The past is over, begins a bright future. After collecting all the power you whispered (loudly does not work) ask the mirror.

You want to see the object of his anguish and torment. Yes, they may even try to dissuade? You went through so much! You have that right!

And it brings, and there ... on the other side of the glass ... Ah-ah-ah-ah oh, horror! Yet all that hurts and aches, and in the mirror instead of the princess ... a monstrous swollen mummy. Blow it ... and then only tears, fatigue and back to sleep.

Where is the promised limitless freedom? And why is it necessary that creature on the other side of glass? ..

I do not regret that was not to guess what will happen, upgrade there!

It will take 7 days Swelling and bruising will disappear almost, a little makeup and even the uninitiated will not guess what you went through. 50% of your time you will be spending in the mirror and admire their new "sights".

You are fun, free, you're new!

Walking through the streets, sitting behind the wheel of your favorite car or walking down the subway you will catch the eyes of passers-by. Change posture, gait (it will be something royal).

YOU ARE A WOMAN! You are wonderful!

I do not regret that was not to guess what will happen, that there is improved!

Author Anna

How to get rid of depression, especially in winter

How to get rid of depression, winter depression

The article proposes another way to survive the end of winter and beginning of spring, not fall into winter depression and how to get rid of depression alone.

The end of winter, ends vitamins in our body. Outside the gray, dull and overcast. Before the summer is still so far away. The sun had not seen. Synthetic Vitaminka from the pharmacy is not uplifting.

And fruits and vegetables from the supermarket are useful only to those that cause us aesthetic pleasure, but no more. Melancholy, sadness. What to do? How to survive the end of winter and beginning of spring, and fall into winter depression and how to get rid of depression. As they say, who wants to, he is looking for opportunities, and who does not want to, he is looking for reasons.

We will look for opportunities how to cheer up and not get depressed in the winter-spring period. Let us look for an inexpensive and effective means. You can go to an appointment with a therapist. But I think all the same state we are not as running, and will try to do so far without the help of doctors.

You can go shopping, making purchases. It is proved that for women it is a hundred percent cure for all misfortunes. It improves mood and helps get rid of depression. Only this tool does not suit us, because it's too expensive.

And if you take a small amount of money, you can fall into an even greater depression of the inability to buy your favorite thing. And besides, the tool disposable. To cheer the mood the next time you need more and more money.

The ancient sages said: "The best medicine is growing under our feet, and you just do not be lazy and bend over to break it." We proceed on the advice of the wise, and will look around.

You can go on holiday to the tourist base, where you will be offered a ride in a sleigh, skiing, skating. Again, this tool is not cheap. Each week does not get to travel with the whole family on a vacation.

Why go somewhere, why seek drugs away from home. Look, there is a very good and free means of lifting the mood and prevent, treat depression and helps to get rid of a bad mood on their own. This cold treatment. Yes, do not be surprised.

Think of yourself as a child. Have we been in a bad mood and depression, especially in winter. And why? And because we have spent much time outdoors, that is, on the street. We walked a lot, sculptured snowmen, surveyed ice castles, ride with for exercising skiing.

Think about your feelings after slides or skis. You come home, his face flushed. The mood is upbeat, so much emotion. Surely in your yard is filled with a free skating rink. And you can even ride it every night.

Better yet, it is available to everyone, this hour and a half progulochku outdoors foot step.

Try go outside. Decide for yourself route. Go on, think positive, think of birds. Take a look at the snow, look at the people. Do not rush to flee. Deliver, at least at this time his head from bad thoughts, distracting, feel at one with nature.

After some time you will feel that the head is no longer ache, drowsiness passes, the body charged with new energy.

It's a great feeling when you go out for a walk with a broken head, a bunch of unfinished cases and nedodumali thoughts and come back reborn person with a great desire to live and work.

The head clear, beautiful thoughts. There is a sensation of flight. It seems that now we can move mountains. And all just because you breathe the fresh frosty air.

This air enriched with oxygen your lungs. Oxygen was fogged in the head. The cool air helps produce the hormone of happiness.

Try, take a walk in the fresh air. And felt once, this great burst of energy, you will want again and again to experience that feeling.

Find love

We want to find love - start with yourself

Again on the subject of self-love.

The other day I heard from a friend: "Well, is not it, Prince, where do I get it? I am looking to meet, and it's not that all or busy, or "mine", not "the Prince." Well, what are the reasons? "

In such cases usually I ask: "Are you ready itself to meet her Prince? "

The question, interviewees often putting a dead end: many, it turns out, did not even think. If we take a broader view, we are always able to recognize that this is - "mine"? In general, as far as mature enough to let into your life - I Love Him, the One?

Here is the opinion of Natalia Pravdina, a renowned expert in the field of positive psychology.

"He lives, for example, young (or not so young) girl who dreams that will be a beautiful prince will take her to him and that's when she will be all right. That is, it builds a model: Now I feel bad, but will love - and I will be good.

This harmful in all respects and supports the installation of a fairy tale. Think of "Cinderella" and "Sleeping Beauty." Just kiss the prince animates girls. Like real life is postponed for later, when it's long-awaited beloved. "

But in fact, it turns out that we often live expectations. A sort of dreams of a bright future. Bearing in mind that the future of the not yet, and that it was waiting for us there, depends on what we do, what, and most importantly - how - we live today, now.

But as far as we thus are able to be happy, self-sufficient? It was at this point? After all, with the advent into our lives His not being able to enjoy life itself, without being willing to let your heart with love, we will gain automatically Happiness?

A little more Pravdinoy. "Learn to enjoy their life, regardless of whether you have now the favorite or not! Start with yourself. See how today you can make your life more pleasant, beautiful, happy.

Change the bedding to pink satin. Get your beautiful lingerie shop in the best and go to it at night, enjoy good spirits.

Start like myself!

Pamper yourself, let yourself cute antics, and you will be much more free and liberated when your life will be a long-awaited favorite. "

"What are you willing to give to another person, when he will be in your life? "- Always ask this question to those who approach it with similar problems.

And ... people often get lost, do not know what to say. Some are beginning to babble about the apartment, the car, the other about some of their own career success, someone else financial situation boasts ...

Stop. So you need someone? Maintenance worker, the driver, a man that promotes waste of your money?

No, not usually, usually still want to love ... But where to find it?

Prompt: in his soul, in his heart. We come into this world to love, to create, to live simply! By the very fact of our birth was exactly love, because love - that's life.

Not casually in astrology and vitality, and love are the responsibility of the same, namely the Fifth House. And it is through the manifestation of his energy describes things and events that pass through the heart, which come from the heart.

The fifth house and its natural ruler, the Sun - that they, first of all, we can be called sources, indicators and our lives, but also love. The love that is given to us initially.

In each person the love, the ability to give and take it, laid by birth. That is often only then that life goes on, and there is no love here.

Quote NM Pravdinoy: "When a man is lonely, he begins to play a game called" love "to get rid of the boredom and fear of loneliness at the same time. What we see as a result? Dissatisfaction, fatigue, boredom, jealousy, and other set of "joy" of family life. "

"Love your neighbor as yourself." Here, finally, we come to the original thought: 'Love yourself, love yourself.

"What for? "- Ask someone. "After all, I'm looking for the love of another person, and I love you for yourself" - is too often hear. And is offered in response to speculate on exactly given biblical phrase.

Yes, we are looking for the love of another person, in this case we are ready to give him their love. But, as you know, can only give what we have, we can freely give, than we can share. That is, to give my love to someone else, you need to have it we had (otherwise it will give something?).

And here is just to help us come "as thyself." Casket, it turns out, very simply opened: it should start with ourselves, with, to love yourself.

What prevents us? Why are so many common people for whom it is the ability to love yourself is something alien?

As mentioned above, we come into this world, carrying his love, and being willing to accept it, but we give her too.

Look at little children, every child - it's a miracle that he is happy everything is drawn to the new, he knows this world and he is - like, he simply breathes of love, bathed in it, but he himself, so much joy and love their loved ones presents.

As long as people quite a pipsqueak, we have nothing of it not require, but then ... the requirements (often excessive, as an adult it is so convenient), trying to cut under his comb ("I am a music lover, then my child is sure to be music to learn"), Merimee own standards ("neighbor Bob at this age ...") - and so on.