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Female friendship - the concept is very interesting and mythological. On the women's friendship all say, but in the context of the concept of friendship and fellowship among women that somehow does not occur. No, women talk to each other, maintain relationships, call up, go to hen parties and gatherings of women's communities, sometimes even comforting each other, holding a handkerchief, but all these relationships - that anything but the present interpretation of the word "friendship". Is there any real female friendship or enmity is hidden?
Why is not there a female friendship
Why, you ask? It all looks so believable and credible. The answer is simple. The woman, like a cat, she is walking through life itself. And in each, their own kind, Catwoman, she saw not one another, as a potential rival, a threat to her herself, her family and partner. And in this age-old rivalry, as in war, all means are good, even a noble thing as friendship.
Wise women understand that open rivalry or hostility, few things in life will achieve, you will assume all quarrelsome skandalistki and rating (especially in the eyes of men) will fall significantly. But the "friends" with his rival, to become her friend, get into it, lost vigilance and melted from our spiritual conversations, the soul, and then in the right moment strike her in the back - that's we, as a woman.
A caring friend
Women often become friends, not because of common interests. The main apple of discord female - a man. It is because of his girlfriend, signed a pact of non-aggression, can destroy the fragile peace and become hardened vraginyami. But this internal situation the question. Externally, things may look very decently - caring girlfriend asks you, how are you familiar with a common-man, whether he likes you that you are willing to take in the future.
A fatal mistake made by those of us who trustingly share their plans with their senses "friends." Here's how the interrogation, everything you said can be used against you. Your thoughts, secrets, words at the most inappropriate moment suddenly become public property. Where society has learned about your secret? Do not break your head. Remember the "best friend" and that what you are cute with her talking in a trusting atmosphere over a cup of cappuccino.
Your friend at work
In addition to men, women more interested and career. Your friend at work that you so trusting and naive to move up the career line, thinking that she will not forget about you, and say a word to his superiors, one day soon forget with whose help she took her seat and place.
In love, as well as at work, can not be friends. You should not share with anyone his plans, thoughts and feelings. So what do you think, will always be with you, but what you have said out loud - always play against you.
Successful girlfriend or gray mouse
Women rarely "make friends" with their peers on the status, external data and lifetime achievement. A friend can be better than you in all these criteria, successful or a failure, and so beautiful, but, in any case, do not stand on the life around you. Why is that? Successful girlfriend - an incentive to achieve the greater the chance the possibility of using it to achieve better performance and successful man.
Gray mouse in girlfriends - excellent "vest", because sometimes even steel lady cry, and against the background of her pale face and glasses, you will always look Angelica and Cleopatra in one person. And in the moments when you just get tired of life, and endless war, and ask yourself, what do you have? Your achievements in the unpromising background girlfriend will always look over and benefits from, and your eyes will again shine and the thirst for reckless victories in men, career steps, and just over their own kind, for personal affirmation.
Women do not forgive insults
Women never forgive offenses. Especially other women. Revenge is not always follow at the same moment, the payment can reach us after a while, when we lost vigilance, trustingly believed in a woman's generosity and forgiveness, relax. Women never forget nothing.
Some agree with written above, remembering their own life situations. Someone, foaming at the mouth will prove that women are not. Lucky, they have not yet grasped the girl's school life. Once I believed too trusting her friends, promote them through the ranks, and shared the last piece. So what? Is this less than me betray my friends? With the truth of life can disagree, we can not accept it, but that it will not change. The woman - a cat that walks through life itself. And the cats are rarely girlfriend ...
Author Olga Shevtsova
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