The first year of life together and the difficulties associated with him

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If you decide to start with her lover to live together, it is not an easy step. Even if you're dating a long time, you can not know for sure, what encounter, began to live in the same apartment.


Typically, the first year of life together is called the year when people are lapped characters. Just remember this, that in the event of doubt you did not have negative thoughts about what you do not come, you'll just know that this transition period. And of course, someone it can be less, and others more, because all individually.

You must understand how your lover used to shape your morning, afternoon, evening, what his habits to adapt their vision of the day and life in general, to him and to make uniform the merger of your habits.

Respect the habits of your loved one, especially if they seem strange to you - most often it is they are features of the person, which can not be prejudiced.

Do not try to impose your schedule and decide for two, which is better and which is worse. And do not act like a woman, I swear. If you do not like something, do not be offended at once, shouting, or vice versa sulk and withdraw into themselves. You should always talk to explain everything to each other.

The opposite, but also very negative event can become one when one partner tries to completely change for the sake of another, but would not quarrel arose. He was uncomfortable, he starts to feel uncomfortable, he oversteps himself, and when it all adds up, you can get a huge quarrel, and from scratch.

More often all, almost everything begins with separation misunderstandings - when someone just does not explain, or when someone is afraid to say that there is something wrong, and saves offense in itself.

Constructive dialogue and openness to finding a solution to the problem, to find a compromise - that's the easy way out, but for some reason it is often forgotten about. Something seemed to prevent people close related with love, talk to each other.

Partners should have confidence in each other, and to know that they can always listen, and be perceived, and then will not have any more trouble, because both sides will always be open to dealing with each other.

If you have such feelings exist, and you know how to communicate with each other sincerely, then you can begin to live together. Otherwise, without the above-stated qualities in you as a couple, it is unlikely to get a long-term alliance.

Remember, if you have decided to live together, it means not only that you are next to each other. Living together provides care for each other. We must learn to live not only for himself but also takes care of its second half. People live together because it is easier, they always have a number as the assistance and care and support if they are protected, because they know - at home waiting for their loved one.

Take care of her husband, cook it, get rid of the harvest, that he will feel the woman's hand in the house and you will begin to appreciate even more to love. Everyone shares what he is good at it. Men often better to earn money, and the woman is farming.

Living together, you can further express their love for a man. But the only thing we can not forget - every individual should have their own space, and it means a lot for a man. Therefore, to understand the needs of their halves sometimes be alone, moreover, is a way to relax and be alone, "talk" to yourself, and do not bother each other.

The development of harmonious family relations

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Family relations are of great importance for each family member individually, or together. They are completely dependent on the weather in the house. In this article we will tell you about how to achieve harmony in the family.


Successful development of family relations depends on both spouses and their performance of their duties. The relationship will not develop by themselves. So to have everything you need to harmoniously its efforts on both sides.

• You must yield to each other, and always look for a compromise.

For example, if your husband does not like the fact that you spend much time with a book, read a book in his absence.

• Learn to relax.

After all, the preservation of harmony depends on your patience and tranquility.

• Take as much care in relation to each other.

Plant a tree near the house and take care of him together. This will teach you to exercise great care and patience towards others. For example, in the East it decided to grow bonsai.

It spent a lot of effort, patience and time. Therefore, in the house where growing bonsai, there is always a peace and tranquility. A person who is engaged in cultivation of plants less susceptible to stress and adverse effects of the external world.

• trust each other.

It is not necessary to follow every step of its second half. Give him as much freedom, and then he will cease from you something to hide and will treat you tenderly.

• Work out, with one species together.

This will help you strengthen your relationship. You can walk together in the skating rink, skiing, or sledding hill. It will take you a lot of pleasant emotions and make your life more colorful and diverse.

Even if you are not a fan of moving sports, this does not prevent you from becoming a fan. Go to a football or hockey and more for your favorite team. So you distract from problems and more united.

Also, after the game you will want to discuss it. So you will have more common interests, which means you can spend more time together.

• Give the man a new line of thought.

Pre-prepared, try to captivate its hiking, fishing or cycling. It's much better than just lying on the couch, buried in the TV.

• It is necessary to look for a partner as a person, not just as a husband / wife.

It is not necessary to impose their views. He may decide to do better than today.

• We need to help each other advice. It should be just advice, not a guide to action.

• At the time of the quarrel, do not try to hurt the partner of "live".
If you do it right, the row will be held and there will be insults at each other.

• Take all the important decisions together.

• Do not forget that the other half should be a surprise.
From time to time arrange each other surprises, giving small gifts and then your feelings will never cool down.

Never forget that we are building our family life, and we must try to make it harmonious.

The first year of life together and the difficulties associated with him

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If you decide to start with her lover to live together, it is not an easy step. Even if you're dating a long time, you can not know for sure, what encounter, began to live in the same apartment.


Typically, the first year of life together is called the year when people are lapped characters. Just remember this, that in the event of doubt you did not have negative thoughts about what you do not come, you'll just know that this transition period. And of course, someone it can be less, and others more, because all individually.

You must understand how your lover used to shape your morning, afternoon, evening, what his habits to adapt their vision of the day and life in general, to him and to make uniform the merger of your habits.

Respect the habits of your loved one, especially if they seem strange to you - most often it is they are features of the person, which can not be prejudiced.

Do not try to impose your schedule and decide for two, which is better and which is worse. And do not act like a woman, I swear. If you do not like something, do not be offended at once, shouting, or vice versa sulk and withdraw into themselves. You should always talk to explain everything to each other.

The opposite, but also very negative event can become one when one partner tries to completely change for the sake of another, but would not quarrel arose. He was uncomfortable, he starts to feel uncomfortable, he oversteps himself, and when it all adds up, you can get a huge quarrel, and from scratch.

More often all, almost everything begins with separation misunderstandings - when someone just does not explain, or when someone is afraid to say that there is something wrong, and saves offense in itself.

Constructive dialogue and openness to finding a solution to the problem, to find a compromise - that's the easy way out, but for some reason it is often forgotten about. Something seemed to prevent people close related with love, talk to each other.

Partners should have confidence in each other, and to know that they can always listen, and be perceived, and then will not have any more trouble, because both sides will always be open to dealing with each other.

If you have such feelings exist, and you know how to communicate with each other sincerely, then you can begin to live together. Otherwise, without the above-stated qualities in you as a couple, it is unlikely to get a long-term alliance.

Remember, if you have decided to live together, it means not only that you are next to each other. Living together provides care for each other. We must learn to live not only for himself but also takes care of its second half. People live together because it is easier, they always have a number as the assistance and care and support if they are protected, because they know - at home waiting for their loved one.

Take care of her husband, cook it, get rid of the harvest, that he will feel the woman's hand in the house and you will begin to appreciate even more to love. Everyone shares what he is good at it. Men often better to earn money, and the woman is farming.

Living together, you can further express their love for a man. But the only thing we can not forget - every individual should have their own space, and it means a lot for a man. Therefore, to understand the needs of their halves sometimes be alone, moreover, is a way to relax and be alone, "talk" to yourself, and do not bother each other.





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