How to eliminate a rival and keep the beloved

 How to remove a competitor

Serious question, rooted deep into the history, the time of God's creation of man or release of the first people out of the monkeys, depending on which theory of matter you practice. Anyway, the problem of eliminating rivals to varying degrees at some point affect the interests of the life of every woman.

How can I eliminate the rival

In this article we will discuss the most effective ways to help eliminate a rival, will talk about the typical mistake made by women in the fight for her man. How to keep the man she loved, and whether or not to fight? Immediately make a reservation, that the options with the physical elimination of rivals like podsypaniya poison blow from the corner of the bag and so on, the article will not be considered as not to be considered methods of corruption, evil eye, curses and other elements of black magic. It is not humane, not sports and, more importantly, are not always effective.

Thus, it should be understood that women can come to the problem at any time, and thus have different starting conditions to correct the problem.

The most common situation:

1. You - a wife, a rival - a mistress,

2. You - a lover, rival - his wife.

3. Equal conditions - neither you nor the opponent does not take place from a favorite (it is a "favorite" homosexual options will not be considered because the psychology of men is different from the psychology of women, and we can not consider this factor) in a relationship, or maximum, a member of a stable, intimate relationships.

So, how to eliminate the opponent and get his interest  

In all situations, it is important to understand that your job is to beat rival. How to do it? First of all, you have to be informed. In all the wars of information plays a determining role in the path to victory. The main question, what information you should be interested in?

Name, surname, other data lineage and so on are not important, what matters is what's opponent is stronger than you, what is more advantageous variant, both real and potential (better in bed, better prepared, looks, talks, dresses, best applies to your chosen one, the options can be a lot).

Your task is to figure out ways to find out may be different, the worse the situation, if you are the wife, as the right to ask the husband does not work, it does not get "extort" and leading questions. If you are a lover, simpler random questions about his wife can find out the necessary information.

In equal conditions, as well as in other situations, a key role can play the information received from the general to the opponent or with beloved friends; information obtained directly from the beloved is not you and a friend / friend, another mutual friend, preferably one that is on your side. You can, if you know a competitor, to register with the social networking sites are not under his own name, "make friends" with it and still get the information you need.

If you're desperate and dispose of material capabilities, you can hire a private investigator to find out all the details of communication with your favorite competitor, or ask someone from friends (preferably such that your partner does not know) follow. But there is likely to be noticed is higher, and the likelihood of getting the information you need lower as the man most likely not a professional, but, nevertheless, something you will already know.

How to keep the beloved

What you need to have information about the rival? After receiving the necessary information: what attracts or may involve your vote in the opponent, you must start punctually change surpass her rival is what it is strong: to cook, to lose weight, to diversify sex life with your loved ones, maybe, to become more affectionate, or on the contrary, more severe, depending on the situation and the individual characteristics of the beloved.

Therefore, it is important that the object of adoration did not know about your tricks, because the man must see the result of the work of a woman, and not the process. Process men usually annoying.

You have to understand that men do not necessarily go to someone. They can go on and someone, in other words, not necessarily opponent is better than you, but some individual small things or little things you do not like it (no longer hold) your man. And every man, like all living things on the planet, looking for a place where he was comfortable.

Therefore, if you have a real rival, it is not necessarily a man - "male" (although it happens), but something may be wrong with you, and that means that even if you eliminate this rival may appear different. Accordingly, it is necessary to analyze yourself that you may not like your chosen one, to him, and neither you nor blurred and no common understanding of someone third, as the taste and color, as we know ... and start to change.

To summarize, the main your task to become a better competitor in the nuances, for which he drew the most attention.

What needs to be done

1. Do not try to bind a man child, it's pointless. The man begins to love a child from birth, the mother, and in the process of getting used to, so you have to leave with the child to the man were not working. And then with the child in her arms, try to find another lover! It is much more difficult.

2. Do not try to tame a man threatened his own suicide (imaginary or, God forbid, Real). Garant long-term relationship - mutual love. And with your suicidal at best, you invoke pity, and in the worst case, and ultimately - hatred.

3. Do not threaten an opponent, it will only help her, as in the case of your threats, or attempts to implement them, the man will instinctively on the side of unprotected women, not women - the aggressor.

4. Do not make the action for which you may be held accountable in accordance with the Criminal Code, the prison a man you most likely will not wait.

5. Do not engage in black magic to eliminate a rival - all negative, sooner or later will come back to you just have to pay the bills.

And most importantly, remember that you need to fight for the wavering man, if he had already decided, all your actions will be meaningless to hold him. Do not drive men to decision-making is not in your favor; feel, but be smarter.

Author Vyacheslav Karelin

especially for nicelady.ru

When you're around, how to establish a relationship with her husband

 Relationships in the family

In this article you will learn about the rules of a good relationship with her husband in the family, as well as is possible and necessary to establish a relationship with her husband.

Often, the first 10 years of adult married life are influenced by the environment of the parent company and formed the "right" ideals. Through such unconscious settings might be in a situation when looking back on life in marriage, the woman notices that idealized their partner.

Instead of the "Prince Charming" or "brutal macho," appeared next to an ordinary person, with their weaknesses and problems. Gone feelings and joy of intimacy. It is not heart trembles in anticipation of the meeting. Joint life turns into bickering over nothing, even the little things are annoying.

His first thought: "Divorce! ". This decision is a great desire for freedom, a new life and a new ideal. However, you can not run from yourself. You can change one man to another, but you remain the same. And that means that the problem will be reborn.

When you're around family relationships

Relationships in the family - a complex set of conditions, actions, emotions, feelings and subconscious mental aspirations. To recall the way in which you fell in love with many years ago. What were you and what was it? As you both gave each other good moments? The man did not disappear!

Your relationship as a great plant, grow and develop. If the gardener threw everything in the lurch, that weeds quickly strangle this beautiful sprout. Think of what kind of relationship the most successful, longest and strong? As a rule, they are based on common values ​​and interests. When the last time you sincerely interested in his ideas, desires, aspirations, passions? When you see it is not the source of troubles and hassle, and the man who is changing, growing, and live their lives?

Think, for what you have together?

As the world changes, when it is your couple? Start talking to each other, gradually figuring out what your values ​​are enclosed couples. For example, it is important for order, discipline and loyalty to the word; but for you - respect, freedom and self-realization. You may find that faithful to his word - a sign of respect to the partner, and discipline - a prerequisite for self-realization and freedom.

How to mend relations with her husband

When you are together, then who else is benefiting from this, the joy? Who is good? Your loved ones, children, parents, friends and acquaintances, neighbors, colleagues at work. Who else? What is new, unique only together can you create? Have a baby, inspire colleagues to a new project, to paint a picture, to publish a book, create a warm and welcoming home.

Working on such a list of common values ​​and results, learning is not just to listen but to hear a partner. What was his dream? What it does not share with you? What causes its irritation? Develop a conscious listening, paying attention not only on the "what," says partner, but "how". Hold the instantaneous reaction. Count to five and only then respond.

Focus on the result of the conversation, rather than revenge. So you can get rid of excessive touchiness and clearly indicate their desires. On the basis of common values ​​create a tradition. Look for interests that unite you. Imagine how beautiful, when there is not only a loved one, but also a true friend! Perhaps, after a while, you will be able to say to him:

When you're around - the fear of losing color,

Regaining power of the soul views.

No past and the pain either.

Hope to see in a moment, when you're around ...

(Kessler Oksana).





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