Respect and Appreciate your marriage, how to strengthen relations

Are you married? Married? What brings you to family life - happiness, or a serious problem? Do not you moved away with his wife (her husband) from each other? It does not become your family life is difficult and joyless?

If so, you seem to be sad at the feelings that once you combined. In addition, you want your marriage to bring glory to you. Therefore, the situation in the family can bother you and deliver heartache. However, it is not necessary to lower hands.

In life, some couples there was a period when they have become almost strangers to each other. Yet they were able to strengthen their relationship. Family life can bring more happiness to you. Whereby?

Moving closer to your partner

Family relationships become stronger, if the husband and wife come near to each other. This can be explained by the following example. Imagine a high mountain with a sharp peak and a wide bottom. A man stands at the foot of the northern side of the mountain, and his wife - on the south. And they begin to rise. First, they are separated by a great distance. But they rise higher, the smaller becomes the distance therebetween.

Do not despise marriage their language and behavior

A woman once said: "I beg God to give me the strength to endure it." What bothered her? She shared: "The man I was very offended. I have bruises, but his constant remarks, such as" Where did you come on my head, "and" you, no matter that they can not "give me pain." This story points to a very serious problem that exists in many families. Unfortunately, touchy words that cause deep emotional wounds, sometimes heard in families.

This suggests that family members do not belong to his marriage with respect. What in your family? Ask politely from his wife, or you do not give her a pain in their own words. If so, you have to change.

Never forget that the way you talk to household affects you and to them. Do not kid yourself: family relations can not legkomyslennichat.

Heartache deliver not only verbal insults. For example, if you spend with someone too many times, especially with the opposite sex, you can expose your marriage in danger. Think about whether or not the cause of tension in your family. Ask yourself or a loved one I devote so much time and attention as he needs it?

Unfortunately, some married tread on dangerous ground. Paying too much attention to persons of the opposite sex, they develop romantic feelings for him. As a result, an emotional attachment pushes them to do things that are even more despised her marriage.

Let the marriage bed is not defiled by anything

Those who engage in sexual intercourse with someone other than his wife or the husband violate the laws of morality. Today, the widespread belief that adultery is completely normal. But what about the people think adultery should not influence our views. In order not to step on a path that leads to adultery, you must keep watch to not to look at the opposite sex.

How to strengthen family relationships

In addition, it is impossible to avoid actions that despise marriage should restore the dignity of their husband or wife. How to do it? Try to imagine a good home. Tasteful embellishments create it beauty and comfort. If these embellishments one by one pick, the house becomes sullen and unfriendly. And now imagine that the house - a family. A embellishments that adorn it - it's nice words and expressions attention. When feelings grow cold, married life is gradually becoming a gloomy and cheerless as bleak house.

If your house lacks the warmth and comfort, the desire to carry out the order relate to marriage with respect, should motivate you to action. Admit it, a valuable thing worthy to her restored. Renew the comfort in your home.

Family life - a new life

Modern families are often created by people very young and therefore inexperienced. But, despite his young age, they are well aware that life in the family - it's not wholly a continuation of the romance, which was earlier, and serious adult new life.

They realize that passionate love, favors, flowers, candy - all of this will gradually decline. Now be added to the daily joys and worries many. And very often the fate of young family depends on the ratio couples to these new concerns.

Two sides of family life

If you look at the difficulties sad and pessimistic, only see the dark side of life and uncomfortable together, while living together very soon become burdensome, uninteresting and become a notorious prose of everyday life. Sighs pointedly look at love and kisses response, justifiable in a period of courtship, in family life has become irrelevant. They gradually oskudnyayut completely decomposed and family relationships, make them silly.

As a result, a lazy do-nothing there family and domestic problems, inactivity and lack of initiative being soon begins to pall. Some people, of course, enough of this. But only in the case when it comes to passing fancy, a simple courtship, and not about love when life is unthinkable without the other. That should see the light, joyful facet of family life in order not to sink into the dark whirlpool of sadness.

However, to create comfort in the house, which had long dreamed to build the relationships, to grow together and solve the problem of life - this is not the prose of life, as they say tired of the problems couples. It is a joy and happiness. This is the same bright side, and it is much more fun and interesting.

After all, when a loved one close by, there are so many opportunities to prove his love not only loving glances, sweet words, but everyday care of him. You just need to understand that these concerns - not humdrum obligation that arose with the stamp in the passport should not be without sacrifice. We must see this happy opportunity to be helpful to your loved one, decorate his life may even be something in it to change, to do better.

We must learn how to accept help and reciprocal attention. The house is clean, cozy, order - for this we must say thank you to his beloved wife, "perpetual motion" home conversions. After all, she is busy at work no less than her husband, and a woman working hard to find the time and plan it so that the time to do homework and more.

In anticipation of the couple to work her husband took care of dinner - and this must thank the mother of a loved one. Men's psychology - homework should fulfill his wife - are staggered and could not resist the desire to please his wife. And if her husband shared the work with his wife, it does not mean that it is something not dopoluchil in terms of personal happiness, soon acquired another batch of loving and appreciative words.

So couples live in a happy family. Here, the question of whose turn it is to go to the store, does not turn into a fight. It is often and sincerely utter simple words "thank you."

Family life - a new life

Modern families are often created by people very young and therefore inexperienced. But, despite his young age, they are well aware that life in the family - it's not wholly a continuation of the romance, which was earlier, and serious adult new life.

They realize that passionate love, favors, flowers, candy - all of this will gradually decline. Now be added to the daily joys and worries many. And very often the fate of young family depends on the ratio couples to these new concerns.

Two sides of family life

If you look at the difficulties sad and pessimistic, only see the dark side of life and uncomfortable together, while living together very soon become burdensome, uninteresting and become a notorious prose of everyday life. Sighs pointedly look at love and kisses response, justifiable in a period of courtship, in family life has become irrelevant. They gradually oskudnyayut completely decomposed and family relationships, make them silly.

As a result, a lazy do-nothing there family and domestic problems, inactivity and lack of initiative being soon begins to pall. Some people, of course, enough of this. But only in the case when it comes to passing fancy, a simple courtship, and not about love when life is unthinkable without the other. That should see the light, joyful facet of family life in order not to sink into the dark whirlpool of sadness.

However, to create comfort in the house, which had long dreamed to build the relationships, to grow together and solve the problem of life - this is not the prose of life, as they say tired of the problems couples. It is a joy and happiness. This is the same bright side, and it is much more fun and interesting.

After all, when a loved one close by, there are so many opportunities to prove his love not only loving glances, sweet words, but everyday care of him. You just need to understand that these concerns - not humdrum obligation that arose with the stamp in the passport should not be without sacrifice. We must see this happy opportunity to be helpful to your loved one, decorate his life may even be something in it to change, to do better.

We must learn how to accept help and reciprocal attention. The house is clean, cozy, order - for this we must say thank you to his beloved wife, "perpetual motion" home conversions. After all, she is busy at work no less than her husband, and a woman working hard to find the time and plan it so that the time to do homework and more.

In anticipation of the couple to work her husband took care of dinner - and this must thank the mother of a loved one. Men's psychology - homework should fulfill his wife - are staggered and could not resist the desire to please his wife. And if her husband shared the work with his wife, it does not mean that it is something not dopoluchil in terms of personal happiness, soon acquired another batch of loving and appreciative words.

So couples live in a happy family. Here, the question of whose turn it is to go to the store, does not turn into a fight. It is often and sincerely utter simple words "thank you."