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Beautiful woman draws.
Admiring glances from men and envious glances evaluate or women.
It attracts success, money, and the best of men.
In any case, the beauty does not leave anyone indifferent.
And though we many times have heard that the attractive appearance is not the key to happiness, and that beauty has the same set of complexes and problems and the chances of failure that "ordinary" woman, but still sometimes it seems that they are more lucky in love , work, creativity, and life in general. And, of course, every woman wants to be attractive.
Throughout the history of humankind, scientists, artists and writers trying to find a formula for beauty and feminine allure. And finds pleasing and surprising us with the results of surveys, studies and mathematical calculations. But we can only take their work rezltate note to use it or ignore, relying on nature and intuition.
In the age group 26-35 years, only 9% of women consider themselves beautiful. And in Russia, and even less.
Most consider themselves pretty, attractive, charming and simply fascinating. Moreover, it often depends on the mood, time of day, time of year, lunar cycles, solar activity and professional success at the moment.
There are days when I spent half an hour on his unruly hair styling, as a result of a hat and pull down over one's eyes start to the day irritated and dissatisfied with themselves, their hair, their neighbors and the unstable political situation in the world. But even a simple-minded colleagues compliment or accidental fellow traveler returns a good mood and brings with him today "failed."
And though there are many women who are satisfied with their appearance and always, yet we are not indifferent to the opinions of others about us. Polls have shown that we look into the mirror, on average 17 times a day, spending at least 44 minutes daily. And the reflection of our evaluation often depends on what we are looking for it.
If we consider ourselves to detect wrinkles, bags under the eyes and bruises and gray hair, we find them and, of course, angry, try these "disadvantages" to hide. We believe that the natural signs of aging make us ugly and unattractive to men.
But, again, according to a poll of the male population, men notice women wrinkles and gray hair only when it is right to point out, seeing and appreciating female beauty as a whole set of external qualities, manners, temperament and character. 70% of women use cosmetics every day, spending it to 12% of their income.
Every morning I go to the mirror and say to myself: "What a beautiful! What is beautiful in my soul! "
And what I see in the reflection - a nightmare, horror, and show it in kind to people with unstable mentality can not be! And I open my makeup bag the size of a grandmother's trunk, and start a daily rite, defined by some as guidance beauty.
Probably, it is still flirting with my hand, because I know that most people (both men and women) thinks I'm beautiful, but I do not believe them! I, like many women, I'm sure that there is no limit to perfection and there is always that it is possible to "improve". No, of course, there are these heroic 30% of women who do not use makeup, preferring to gloss shine lipstick mad and they have husbands and fans who probably through his glasses with diopters of strongest spotted them beautiful soul.
These ladies firmly believe in the triumph of reason over the female vanity and purse contemptuously nose at the sight of the bright lipstick and eyelashes dyed. But I prefer not to wait for favors from nature and men, and to take advantage of the latest achievements of the cosmetic industry. Statistics, and his own observations show that the decorative cosmetics are more willing and more women in the younger age than those in the middle or older.
On the one hand, it is paradoxical, because what the woman is over, so, like, more "deficiencies" it should have, but, nevertheless, with age, women are much more tolerant and calmer manifestations of fading beauty. Men often simply "stunned" by the amount of makeup on the mirror of a woman or a beautician.
They just try to calculate how much was spent resources, time and energy for the purchase of this mountain concealers. And, of course, often feel cheated. "Oh, so that's where those luscious lips, those eyes and deer bashful blush! "No, they really do not like it when a woman has a lot of makeup on the face or on the dressing table. They want to enjoy the natural beauty, unspoiled "uluchshatelstvom." Yes, but where does it take?
Natural, natural beauty - a rarity today. It is primarily health. Good complexion, clean skin, long shiny hair, healthy teeth and a figure proportional to speak about the good functioning of the body and good heredity. In the modern metropolis with a poor environment, constant stress, unnatural food, drenched in pesticides and synthetic materials everywhere, it is difficult to be healthy, and we understand that.
But the ancient instincts are still strong in us, and we are subconsciously looking for a partner, in response to signals of the body. For a long time scientists have found a link between smell and psychophysical appeal rights. Female and male body produces a special volatile substances called pheromones - that's a kind of communicators between individuals who are, in fact, the factor that makes us feel love.
Everyone has their own individual flavor, which can involve much more than the most exquisite perfume. Also it proved that the people leading an active lifestyle, involved in sports, positive-minded, produce more "attractive" smell. But an individual can smell the same and signal problems.
Poor performance of the stomach, liver, kidneys, the smell of tobacco, as well as the nervous state of fear and anxiety make our invisible aura of pheromones unattractive. But the man has learned to cheat nature.
Women use cosmetics, correcting flaws appearance, medicine, plastic surgery again. They inserted silicone, porcelain teeth and colored lenses.
Dye their hair, use perfumes, deceiving men with respect to the "true" state of their health and their genes. Smell "says" a lot! Research, again, proved that in choosing a partner, he plays a very important role!
A modern women do not leave their homes without pouring themselves from head to toe spirits batters natural smell. They wear clothes cleverly hides figure flaws and linen, visually increases the "dignity", causing tanning and liposuction.
But increasingly artificial beauty, even created by skillful hands of professional cosmetologists, barbers and surgeons, does not appeal, and indifferent to, or even repellent.
Of course, in addition to the odor and appearance of great importance for both men and women have a culture, temperament, character and common interests. You can not explain everything instincts and laws of civilization.
What the scientists have spoken, and we do not want to love was just a biochemical process.
Many things in the relationship between people is still inexplicable and so attractive. We call it destiny, miraculously, God's gift, and often outweighs the belief in miracles reasonable arguments. It is still the secret of beauty and love no one could fully unravel. And maybe it's for the better?
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