Little things that are ruining your career

You know that many of the nuances of seeming trifles, in fact play a very important role in your advancement or promotion? Gives the impression of a successful, hard-working, creative, in a word, perfect employee - so be it!

Simple but effective rules help you to communicate with colleagues, business partners and customers. By following them, you maintain your health, save time and nerves and achieve in his career all that conceived!

Terms of everything new workplace

In the new work always want to make a good impression. On you will certainly draw conclusions on how you begin to adjust your work area.

1. If you are in a place where a lot of shelves and cabinets with the documentation, review the deposits and dispose of all obsolete and unnecessary. Just be sure to check with the colleagues. Usually enough trash everywhere, so you will only be grateful for the initiative.

2. In addition, cluttered closets and shelves behind the new employee - not a good background in the eyes of the authorities. This is perceived as a failure to perceive the new and obviously limits your professional growth.

3. In order to bright sunlight or, conversely, its absence does not interfere with work, resolve the issue with the blinds or more lamp, avoiding direct superiors. Usually, those who are obliged to deal with such trifles shopping, do not like this. Therefore, to solve the problem better attract colleagues, emphasizing that prevents all.

4. But all the other missing parts (beautiful calendar, a pot of cactus, a family photo), you must install seamlessly on the desktop without distracting colleagues from work.

Terms of business wardrobe

By their looks met and evaluated. Remember that choosing a wardrobe to leave for work.

1. If you want to make a good impression on colleagues, embarked on a new type of activity, try as little as possible to stand out. Externally, no different from all the other employees.

2. It is better to overdo it with conservatism in clothes for the first time. A perfect suit - jacket with a skirt of blue, purple or dark gray. It is better not to choose brown, as it is considered a bad color for the business person.

3. A few months later, when you get used to the new workplace and show yourself, you can add to your outfit more personality. Experiment with colors and accessories, but stick to the style of clothing, which has been adopted in your company.

4. With regard to footwear, it is preferable to wear shoes with heels of 3-4 cm. It is believed that the shoes without a heel intended for sports and recreation, and studs - for an evening out.

All these rules can easily break the artists who look bright and allowed to express their individuality in clothing, accessories, hairstyle. Yet within reason and do not forget that work is work.

Rules of business conversation

Follow them to achieve a full understanding with the person and place him in.

1. Do not talk about yourself.

2. Do not change the subject.

3. I do not advise, do not put diagnoses, do not have criticism, encouragement, reassurances.

4. Do not think ahead, you say.

5. Do not ignore or deny the feelings of others.

6. Do not pretend to understand the feelings of the interlocutor, if it is not.

7. Ask about his needs, anxieties, challenges. Ask questions that encourage greater sincerity, for example: "How do you look at it?"

8. Show that you understand the interlocutor. Tell in your own words what you perceive as the most important in his words: "Do I understand you, what you want ..."

10 reasons why you should not work

As part of the training of obedience, workers are often taught how to dress, talk, walk and everything else. We could not have employees to think for themselves, can now? It destroys everything.

God, it is forbidden to put the pots on the desktop, it is against the rules of the company. Oh no, it's the end of the world! Cindy pot on the table! Call bouncer! Send Cindy back for another training for sterilization!

A free man, of course, thinks that such rules and regulations are silly.

The only rule is that it is necessary, it is - "Be smart. Be nice. Do what you love. Have fun."

10. Becoming a coward

Have you noticed that working people have a virtually unlimited ability to complain about the problems in their companies? But they do not really need a solution - they just want to go out and justified, they say, it's a mistake for someone else.

It's getting a job somehow sucked from them and turned into a free-spineless cowards. If you can not call your boss a jerk without the risk of being fired, you are no longer free. You become the owner of your property.

When you are working among the cowards all day, do not you think that it will spread to you? Certainly it will spread. It's only a matter of time, when you bring a sacrifice of the noblest parts of your humanity on the altar of fear: first courage ... then honesty ... Follow honor and honesty ... and finally free will.

You sell your humanity only an illusion. And now your greatest horror is to know the truth about who you become. I do not care how you broke. Never too late to show courage. Never!

Still want the job?

If you are now a well-crafted and well-mannered worker, your reaction to the above should be protective. It is part of the processing. But you will agree that if you are above the spotted grain of truth, you will not react to it emotionally too.

This is just a reminder of what you already know. You can deny your cage as you want, but it's still there. Maybe it happened so gradually that you do not notice until now ... like a lobster enjoying a nice warm bath.

If something of this has made you mad, you stepped in the right direction. Anger - a higher level of consciousness than apathy, so it's much better than being numb all the time. Every emotion - even surprising - better than indifference.

If you work through feelings rather than suppressing them, you will soon be on the doorstep and your courage. And when that happens, you want to do something with the situation and begin to live a full life, instead of life tame a pet that you have trained before.

Happily Unemployed

What is the alternative to getting the job? The alternative is to remain happily unemployed and receive income in other ways.

Imagine that you earn income by providing value - not time - so find a way to provide your best value to others and ask for a fair price for it.

One of the easiest and affordable way - start your own business. Doing what you would do while at work, find a way to deliver the same value directly to those who can benefit most from it.

It takes a little longer to get started, but the freedom to easily compensates for the initial investment of time and energy. Then you will be able to buy their own sugar bones.

And of course, everything that you have learned along the way you can distribute to others, to produce even more value. So even your mistakes can become money. One of the greatest fears with which you encounter, is the fear that you have no real value to others.

Maybe being an employee and get money for the hours - the best thing you can do. Maybe you just are not worth so much. This is the line of thinking of all-only one part of your treatment. This is absolute nonsense.

If you start to pour such treatment, it is very soon find that you are able to create tremendous value for other people, who will gladly pay you for it. The only thing that does not allow you to see the truth - fear.

All you really need is the courage to be yourself. Your real value in who you are and not in what you are doing. The only thing you actually need to do is to change your attitude to the real world.

You have been told all kinds of lies as to why you can not do that. But you will never know true happiness and completeness until you have the guts to do it anyway.

The next time someone tells you: "Get a job", I recommend to respond as Curley: "No, please ... not that! Anything, but not this!"

And then look him straight in the eye.

Now you know deeply that getting a job is not what you want. Well, then do not let others tell you otherwise.

Learn to trust your inner wisdom, even if the whole world says that you are wrong and stupid to do so.

Years later you look back and realize that this was one of the best decisions you ever made.

Success to you!

Steve Pavlina