Career success depends on the etiquette of communication

Everyday we communicate with many people at home, at work, in the store or on the street. And it is unlikely most of us think about how they do it. And how we behave, talking, gesticulating, the success of our communications, and self-serve attitude surrounding.

And if at home, surrounded by loved ones, friends or colleagues, good old all very easy and simple, we do not need to impress, in other situations, our behavior can become a turning point.

Observance of etiquette in communication - the key to success in the presentation of your personality.

So if you are in unfamiliar company, at a dinner party or a business meeting, please, remember all these rules.

Better one time to learn "how to" and then feel confident in any situation.

Good practice in any company and any official meeting is considered to be of strangers to each other.

However, if it is for some reason it did not happen, and the house owners or organizers of the event are not your guests, then you have to act - do not walk the whole evening, "Biryukov."

Introduction: how can you imagine?

1. Firstly, it is best to ask someone from the audience to imagine you than to ask "what's your name? "Or" the way, my name is ... "

2. Younger age or position represented "senior", ie The first is called your name.

3. A woman under any circumstances, is not the first man. Otherwise, you would consider it a frivolous lady with certain intentions. The only exception is if he suddenly - President or if the meeting is a no-nonsense character and the woman is from the host country (eg, receiving official delegations).

4. Introducing her husband, it is impolite to say "Mr. So-and-so." Suffice it to say my husband and call his name. If your companion - a friend, a friend or relative, be sure to mention this. When the situation requires it, you can call his family occupation.

5. If you find yourself to strangers at the same table, then do not sit in the subway, and not rush to go for food. Decent will first get to know your neighbors.

6. The main objective of participation in community activities - to establish useful and pleasant acquaintance. Therefore, do not be surly! Once you submit, smile, be sure to see a new friend in the eye, tell you a very pleasant and drag to welcome hand.

Handshake

1. Generally handshake - it's an art. Shaking hands, try to express the sincerity and warmth, look at the person to whom welcome. Well, if on your face at the same time be easy smile, even if it is purely a business meeting. The positive atmosphere conducive to any communication.

2. Remember, any gesture in the language of non-verbal communication means no less than the spoken phrase. It felt and your intentions, and emotions, and attitude to the interlocutor. Therefore, shaking hands, be careful. Make sure that your hand was stretched vertically, edge down - which means open the greeting of "equal" and implies a positive attitude and a good chat.

This is perfect for the first meeting and official meetings. When you apply the hand, slightly tilting her palm up, it shows your willingness to trust and very close communication and indicates that you are willing to be a little bit "to obey" the other party to follow his will.

Such a gesture, many may find either subservience or to impose speedy friendship and familiarity. If you stretch your hand, palm down, then put yourself above others consider yourself stronger and more intelligent. The interviewer may take it for coldness and arrogance.

3. And one more thing: women have an important advantage - a handshake they do not need to remove gloves.

Speak correctly

The first and most important rule of conversation in polite society - it is right to put the emphasis in the words.

God forbid you say something wrong - your image and reputation will be ruined in an instant. Why bother at leisure to remember which words cause you difficulty, and look in the dictionary.

And if you do not know how to put the accent, but want to talk about this phenomenon, either deny yourself the pleasure and do not raise this issue or try to replace the "problem" word synonymous.

10 reasons why you should not work

Work gives only experience of this work, and "experience" you get doing something, so there is no real advantage. Sit around doing nothing, a couple of years and you can call yourself an experienced meditator, philosopher and politician.

The problem with access to the experience on the job is that you usually just repeat the limited experience again and again. You learn a lot of new, first, and then stop. This ensures that you are missing some other experience that may be more valuable. And if your limited skill set becomes unnecessary, is it worth your experiences squatting?

In fact, ask yourself what the experience gained now will be valuable in 20-30 years? Will your job even exist then? Think it over.

What experience do you prefer to receive? Knowing exactly how to do a particular job well - the only thing you can monetize by trading your time - or the knowledge of how to enjoy financial independence most of his life without having to work again?

The latter seems to be more useful in the real world, what do you say?

3. Lifelong domestication

Getting a job - it's like writing a program on human domestication. You learn to be a good pet. Look around. Take a good look. What do you see? Are the people living around freely? Or do you live in a cage with unconscious animals?

(*** Have you fallen in love with the color beige? ***)

How's your obedience training? Whether you are the owner of awards for good behavior? Penalize you if you disobey the team owner? If there is in you a spark of free thought? Or your limitations make you a pet? Users are not intended to living cells. Poor you ...

4. Too many mouths to feed

Income is the most taxable employee. In the US, you can expect that about half of the salary will go to taxes. The tax system is designed to mask the reality turns out, as some taxes are paid by your employer, and some are deducted directly from your check.

But you can bet that in terms of your employer all these taxes are a part of your salary, as well as other compensation you receive such as bonuses. Even the rental of office space, you can refer to this account, so you have to create a lot more value to cover it.

You can feel like a corporate environment supports you, but keep in mind that you're the one who pays it. Another portion of your income leaves owners and investors. That's what the "many mouths to feed." It is easy to understand why most of the employers pay on their income. After all, who has more control over the tax system?

Business owners with investors or employees? You get only a fraction of actual revenue you are creating. Your real salary may be more than three times higher than what you get, but most of the money you'll never see. It goes straight into the pockets of others. What a generous person you are!

5. Too risky path

Many employees believe getting a job is the most secure and protected way to self-sufficiency. Nerds. Social promotion is amazing! It is so good that people believe the exact opposite of the truth.

Is the room itself in a position where someone else can turn off your income just by saying two words ("You're fired") sound like a safe and protected situation? Is access to only one source of income to be honest looks more secure than access to the 10?

The idea that work is protected Hired by income simply stupid. You can not have security if you do not have control, and employees have the slightest control of all. If you are an employee, then your current position is called a "punter".

6. The presence of the evil bull host

When you enter into the entrepreneurial world is stupid, you can look back and go the other way. When you enter into a zany corporate world, you have to look back and say, "Sorry, boss." Did you know that the word "boss" is derived from the Danish words "baas", which historically means "master"?

Another meaning of the word - "a cow or bull." A large number of video games, the boss is an evil guy, you have to kill at the end of the level.

So if your boss really angry bull owner, it gives you?

So if your boss is really your evil bovine master, then what does that make you?

Nothing but the cakes after cow herd.

So who's your daddy?

7. begging money

When you want to increase your income, whether you are on your knees asking the owner to give more money? How well do you feel when you occasionally throw a few extra Sakharkov?

Or, you're free to decide how to get it without having to negotiate with someone other than yourself?

If you have a business and your customer says "no", then you simply say "next."

8. degenerating social life

Many people see work as the main point of social activity. They hang out with the same people on the same field. Such incestuous relations are social dead ends.

An exciting day includes chatter about switching companies with Sparkletts to Arrowhead, the delay of the last operating system from Microsoft, as well as unexpected supply additional pens Bic. It is believed that it is better than to go outside and talk to strangers. Uuuuuuu ... scary!

It is better to stay inside, safe. If one of your co-slaves sold to another owner, you lose a friend? If you are working in the field, where there is a man, does this mean that you never spoke to the woman whose rank is higher than the scorer?

Why not decide for themselves with whom to socialize rather than allow it to solve a host for you? Believe it or not, there are places on this planet where free people congregate. Just be careful with these unemployed kids - they are a bunch of crazy!

9. Loss of freedom

A lot of work has to invest in order to tame the person to be an employee. The first thing to do - to break a person's desire to be independent. A good way to do it - give it a hefty set of rules, filled with absurd rules and regulations.

This will ensure that the new employee to become more obedient, for fear of being penalized in any minute for something incomprehensible. So that the worker is best to conclude that the safest thing is to obey the commands of the master without question. Add some office politics for better digestibility and get a fresh mind slave.