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What prevents us to have a lot of money?
Interview with a psychologist Irina Shkolnik.
- Let's say a person understand their true intentions, determined that he really needed the money, and "contract" with your subconscious mind. His success is guaranteed?
- No. Not only get the money - you must learn to hold them.
There are three aspects of social competence, which is useful in itself to develop to be able to borrow money for the embedded energy.
These are: the ability to dissociate themselves from unnecessary (the ability to firmly say "no");
the ability to request so as not to suffer from a failure (I am free to apply - you are free to refuse or consent);
ability to confrontation (the ability to clarify complex issues, the situation openly express their feelings and opinions).
And if a person does not develop these social skills, you have a lot of money it is dangerous: he'll take them either, or he would give them himself. But in any case he did not keep.
- And if someone does not sell its energy and gives, without having a lot of money?
- In each specific case it is necessary to deal separately. A person can donate money out of guilt or shame ("All are poor, and I'm rich"). It is harmful donation, which the Bible says, "is lined with good intentions road to hell." After all, if you look ahead, such an act is usually caused by pity and humiliation associated with.
To determine the motivation of the "Give", quite honestly answer the question: "Why am I doing this?" The ability to give money is also important because of their receipt and return occur at the same "channel". And how, why and what we give money affects our ability to have them.
- What about charity?
- Money is useful to give with joy and ease. As it is written in the Bible, in the beneficent deeds allocate 10% of revenue. In addition, his beneficence is not necessary to advertise, otherwise this sponsorship, which is already rewarded kind of advertising your virtue.
To a man, had the art to give money and to do it whole-heartedly, without humiliating anyone, and without waiting for this award, his energy returns multiplied, and usually from other sources.
- And if forced beneficence? What to do if you are using?
- If the card is, in your opinion, does not correspond to the energy expended - say, the work - it is better to either abandon such work, or really take it in charity. But in any case not to cultivate a negative feeling and not weighed down by the thought of "use" itself.
"Feminine" and "masculine" MONEY
- Who is more common to have money: men or women? (The question, of course, discriminatory, but in our mind quite firmly entrenched image of the male breadwinner.)
- I think those who want, who thirst for money and activity (not in terms of lust and greed, avarice, but in terms of passion). Besides, if we take into account the psychological differences between men and women, strong sex is peculiar to earn money. In this case, a man satisfied and happy, in this way they assert themselves.
A woman can be pretty, just get the money - for example, a husband, a gift, by inheritance (this in no way precludes it earning money). And if she is able to understand that her energy and caring for the man, the house, the child is expensive, then it would be quite comfortable when she will earn.
- It turns out that the care and love have the cash equivalent?
- You see, money is very energy associated with sexual energy, and the energy of love. And when you start seeing this relationship, we can draw parallels. But to theorize on this issue is impossible, because each case is important to consider individually.
To understand this relationship, a person must feel it. And if you still try to summarize, the power of women - in emotion, it is the inner workings. For men it is more common to reflect their feelings in outside activities: bring a mammoth cave or to provide well-being. If the problem men - to change the world, women - to encourage it to do so.
- It turns out that lack of love leads to a lack of money?
- Maybe. Any interaction - it is the energy exchange. And the woman affects the financial position of the man more than he thinks. This makes it important, lucky, happy.
Is it possible to buy health?
As is known, the possibilities are wide enough medicine - limited capacity of the patient. And if the health money can not buy, the medical care and medications can provide. So it depends on whether the health (and this adequate nutrition and vitamins, and disease prevention, and proper rest) of the material well-being?
- I think that health is largely dependent on a person's identity, its degree of maturity, education, self-respect. After all, uneducated people with big money much rather destroy their health. Can you imagine what are the opportunities for the excesses that have capital ?! In addition, we forget about the psychological health: the big money is fraught with serious psychological stress, and therefore more dangerous.
By the way, money can be a threat primarily to those who came to the capital, in the subconscious remained poor. Such people enslave money that we have seen in many "new" Ukrainians who surround themselves with a numerous guard, live in constant fear, and hence the neuroses, psychoses, and other "charms". But for the sake of truth it should be said that the impact on health and money, and their absence.
Instead of an epilogue
- Is it possible to be healthy and happy without money? - I ask a naive question.
- People manage. But I think that in a big city - not. Especially if there are children who do not always look at their requirements for parents.
If a man was rich, and then became a monk, I believe that it is in this and found myself happy without money. But if he strikes a pose originally ascetic altruist and reformatory, it is unlikely that tells the truth. The Bible says: "God dearer repentant sinner than the eternal righteous."
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