Erotic dreams
You want to understand what the problems are hidden behind your erotic dreams?
Not all erotic dreams carefree and sweet. In the dream, you can experience a strong sense of shame, seeing himself naked among the crowds. And in your clothes sometimes missing only one or two items, but you do not care very uncomfortable, although the people who surround you, do not see your nakedness.
Why dream of such erotic dreams?
Again, according to psychologists disagree. Freudians would say that because of your expressed exhibitionistic tendencies. They are inherent in almost every child, but as they grow older morality imposes a ban on them, and they hide in the subconscious, breaking out in the dreams of nakedness.
However, there are simpler interpretation: Dreams are talking about self-doubt and fear of the subconscious life. Well, maybe, like a dream make you reconsider their attitude to the world and to others.
Another unpleasant story of erotic dreams - scenes of sexual violence
They may indicate serious internal problems: for example, that in real life, someone to love you very pressing and trying to control.
The brutal violence during sleep is often a consequence of trauma received in childhood sexual offenses.
It may be caused by improper sexual education: ignorance or intimidation. In any case, you can try in a dream at will interrupt an unpleasant story or turn it to the other side (yes, it is possible!).
For example, after seeing erotic dreams in the back of the room a dark figure, from which the danger comes, tell yourself, "I'm out of here, on the street light and safe, no one will touch me." Now scroll through the scenario in my head - and a dream can stand up for themselves. So you give your subconscious mind to install a happy ending.
However, if in a dream someone forces you to have sex, but you like it - relax and enjoy!
By the way, in the creation of erotic dreams is involved not only the mind but also the physiology.
It is noticed that the dreams of pregnant women often wear erotic nature. And the reason for it is not sexual fantasies, and hormonal changes in the body.
For this reason, most of the exciting dreams you see before ovulation, when the amount of estrogen in the blood reaches its peak.
But during menstruation, if you sleep and dream of rude, then surely with a share of aggression: at this time you unconsciously perceive men as sex enemies. And speaking of the time of year, the most erotic dreams dreams, of course, in the spring.
... The room fills the morning sun, your night a fan is removed into the depths of the subconscious mind (as he was good!), You open your eyes - and you see him next. His lover.
You so want to share with them the magic erotic dream!
Do not rush. Men take everything very literally and often jealous of her friends to the heroes of dreams. Then it will be a week to exhaust yourself thinking why in a dream you prefer another?
In fact, if in dreams you never make love with his sweet, a good sign. Just you have any relationship or sex is no problem! But man it's hard to explain.
Therefore, if it really wants to share the adventure of a dream, tell all, without naming names. Or call one name - it. And even better - tell me what you smiling so happily because flying in a dream. How could he know that Freud's flight - the most that neither is an erotic dream!
Pick up the key to him.
You want to understand what the problems are hidden behind your erotic dreams? Waking up rather grab handle.
1. Describe your dream exhaustively - to the smallest detail, including the color and shape of the surrounding objects, their feelings about each action, and so on. D. Ask yourself how you were pleasantly shocked if something in a dream, who was your Partner?
2. Now try to understand what lies behind every way and every detail. Story associative series, examines the links recent past, and the events of yesterday, and with literary images.
3. Pay special attention to the senseless and strange, at first glance, the episode - usually hidden innermost desires and deepest trauma. Your goal - to reach the chain to a problem that is bothering you. All the guesses are recorded.
4. If you are not able to understand what gave rise to the dream and what lies behind it, forget for a while about their records. Return to him after another erotic dream, and repeat the procedure. Sooner or later you'll find recurring motifs and make important conclusions for themselves.
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