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Whoever you are - a talented lawyer or a teacher of Japanese language - fame and good reputation is not hurt. Do not believe those who say that fame and finds on the stove. It's a lie! Telling people about who you are and what you do. Do it nicely, at the right time and right place.
Constantly working on its reputation. You will see that the results did not take long to wait ...
Keep in mind
"Be a star - not an easy task that requires a lot of time", - he said in an interview with Greta Garbo. And there was absolutely right, because creating and maintaining a stellar image requires considerable effort. First of all, you need to lead an active life and do not be lazy to go out.
For example, if you are an aspiring writer, and you need to learn about you critics attend all the activities in which they may appear: readings, seminars, shooting TV ... Even if you never do not reach the nerve to come to anyone of them and say, "I - a talent!", then you are sure to remember your face, and sooner or later begin to be perceived as their own. In the future, it can do a good service to you.
"... And side bow"
We need something to stand out from the crowd. Well, if you are a prominent woman in luxurious dress. In this case, the attention surrounding you provided. If the external data is far from the standard model, it is necessary to engage the views of others some detail. If the meeting caught you off guard, and you do not have time to prepare, just smile! Smile - not the worst way to draw attention to themselves.
What should I say?
This is very important. No need for long and tedious to tell people about his biography and creative way. Moreover, in most cases, a large-scale self-presentation time nobody will give you. Therefore, we must learn how to talk about yourself briefly and clearly and, most importantly, so that your story is remembered. It should contain only the most important information: who you are, what you do and why you are better than others.
To make such a statement would have to work a little. Take a sheet of paper and write on it all, what you can do. You should not confuse the profession and hobbies. For example, if you are of HR-specialists, while a fitness trainer, you need two separate lists. It should focus bunch of information with a single key message. Only then it will reach the goal.
Locate the "raisins"
Once you make a list of their competencies, start ruthlessly expunge from it all superfluous. What is relevant is not indirectly or at all; that know how many or all; what you do not feel professional; what is written in different words, but in fact is a repetition of what has been said. When finished with this, start to look for "Cheese", or as they say in marketing, USP (unique selling proposition).
I think that all of the above items in the list you do best, or the best. Ideally, if you know something, why can not anybody. If the result was a few points, look at them very carefully and try to combine them into one short sentence.
Examples of successful statements:
· I work as a lawyer. I specialize in complex cases, can solve the most intricate legal problems.
· I am a recruiter. I know how and where to find the most rare specialist.
· I am a sales manager. Selling anything and anyone.
· I work as a consultant in style. I can teach any man to dress and be irresistible.
Black PR Honor - above all!
Never leave your enemies attack your reputation unanswered. In most cases, people are willing to believe the rumors. So we are organized. You just need to be aware of this and be prepared to defend itself. In the case of sabotage by the enemies act quickly, without delay. Do not wait until the details are gossips "obmusoleny." To prove his innocence. Do it calmly and confidently to avoid the impression that you're making excuses.
Operate the facts, cite the evidence and cry to common sense. If the enemy is self-confident and do not expect you to response, one of the best ways to protect will attack. Stun sudden onslaught of the enemy, point to his mistakes and failures. But do not stoop to the mutual attacks. Be above it. Suffice it once to "show their teeth" for everyone to understand that you can stand up for themselves. It also happens that all of you have told, to put it mildly, "is not entirely true."
But in this case should not remain silent. Do not be fooled and do not dodge - will only get worse. Confessed to the crime themselves and if possible immediately. And then explain why it happened. Try to find the positive aspects of what happened and to convince the "jury" that this experience will help you not to make similar mistakes in the future. Stay with dignity, do not overplay, showing repentance, be calm and constructive. It will appreciate and, most likely, "mercy."
Light always!
Maintaining the image - not only large, but also a permanent job. Do not think that once loudly announcing himself glorify you for ever. Though it happens sometimes. In most cases, the reputation requires tireless support and attention. Otherwise, for you very quickly forget. A holy place is never empty. Do not miss a chance to show off its advantages, no matter where you are. Use every opportunity to do even if you do not believe that people want something for you to learn.
Develop professional and tell about their achievements to friends, acquaintances, colleagues, relatives. In general, anyone who can bear the glory of you further, outside of your circle. If you did something remarkable or achieved something truly significant, and may even grandiose, do not let it go unnoticed. Throw a party, mark their success.
It will be remembered and will make people talk about you to others. Create your own page on the Internet! Even if what you're doing, it seems unimportant to you and not the public interest, in the network there are certainly those to whom it is not indifferent.
Post on its website, "coin", imagine yourself in the best, attractive light. Be sure to include your email address or to set up a guestbook. And do not forget a good photo. Constantly update your page, adding new and removing outdated information.
Make it so that if desired, you could easily be contacted. Be open to new contacts and proposals. Finally - advertise themselves can and should be! Each of us is unique and must, indeed the obligation, to show itself with the best hand. Just this should be done skillfully and tastefully!
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