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At all times, a girl is considered particularly dreamy and sentimental. No matter how hard modern fair sex destroy this image, no matter how they tried to look reasonably-cold and calculating at times even in the soul of each of them is a dreamer.
They dream of, in general, about the same - about a meeting with the sole.
In today's society there is a perception that these men, at least in our country, there is not, it is no more than a fantasy naive girls, well-read women's novels. They say that men are feminized and have turned to the weaker sex. They say that they have forgotten about the valor and honor, of chivalry and courtesy. What does this mean?
Are these men can be found only in the novels? Are the princes are only in fairy tales? Before answering these questions, think about what qualities should have a real man. "Beautiful, intelligent, kind, strong, secure" - it comes to you in the head?
Apparently, something similar. After all, the answer to the question so the girls and women of all ages and professions. If you just imagine this man, we hasten to disappoint you - you are unlikely to meet this. Ideally, as is known, does not exist. We are surrounded by many men. Someone draws. Someone, on the contrary, pushes.
Frankly, most repellent. For example, every morning we have seen in the transport of the same depressing picture. Half of the seats are occupied by men. The bulk of the passengers are women.
Another surprise - sit far older men. Sit young strong guys. And it is quite surprising that they continue to sit, even if there is a woman of middle age or older already. Do not bother them, and that in the hands of a woman heavy bags. Interestingly, for a seat rush headlong also not women and men.
No less curious to observe how and what men wear. And pulls ask whether they look in the mirror before going out and looking at all if they are ever in the mirror. And that is Iron know? How to use deodorant? And they taught the Russian language?
About good manners to ask useless - the word "etiquette" and remains foreign to them in every sense. However, it's nice to know that there are other men, those who are, in fact, the subject of this article.
How nice to know that real men - not a figment of our imagination and rich female that any of us can meet on the way one of them. "But how? "- You exclaim. Easier than it seems at first glance.
Importantly, do not pass by.
And for this you need to remember a few simple truths. This man - an ordinary man, with all the usual people disabilities. Therefore, as would be ridiculous as it sounds, getting acquainted with a man, pay attention to its shortcomings. Sometimes they can tell about a person more than dignity.
The advantages are too abstract. For example, what do you mean when you say that a real man must necessarily be beautiful? What is, in your opinion, the beauty? What kind of beauty in question - on the outside or inside? Or perhaps the beauty of actions and thoughts? Each person has their own concept of beauty. And only children forgivable divide people into outwardly beautiful and ugly.
But we, intelligent, well-read women and girls, there is no doubt that the inner beauty is always reflected in the beauty of the face. This is well said Fowles's novel "The Magus": "Sometimes beauty - it is external. How to wrap a gift. But it is not the gift itself. "
No less an abstract concept is mind. For one woman clever man - a man with a great life experience. For other clever man - a man versed in what it does not understand - in physics and mathematics, computers and technology. For the third - is the one who can support a philosophical conversation, the one who is ready to talk on the theme of life and death, good and evil, love and hate.
Also, many women and girls in a series of manhood allocate financial solvency. But Is it worth? Firstly, if your man has money, that does not mean that they are you. You do not think that all rich men generous. And as a man willing to spend on a woman is not determined by the thickness of his wallet, and the breadth of his soul and the power of his love for her.
Secondly, even if the man does not spare you money, we must not forget that today, things are going well at it, and everything can change tomorrow, today it buys expensive gifts to you, and tomorrow they will buy another.
So do not try to find the second of Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, a philosopher or a tycoon. Look for a soul mate, a man with whom you will feel like a woman, with whom you will be warm and safe, who will protect you and care about you, who will "speak the same language."
Remember that men "create" women. In the formation of the individual man a woman plays a major role. At first my mother, then my girlfriend, and finally, his wife. All they are trying to make of his son, the groom, a man a real man. It is not always possible. It is possible only in exceptional cases.
That's because to raise a man to influence him on his behavior, his habits, his style, to some extent a man can only change a real woman. And whether you are alone?
Whether you are inherent qualities that make a woman a true woman - wisdom, tact, insight, patience, grace?
Finally, we come to the most important.
You can trust in princes. Can they do not believe.
You can wait for this man. Can not wait.
You can search for it. You do not have to look.
But if you educate ourselves every day, if you are cultivating, if you develop the best feminine qualities, the real man once he finds you.
After the princes always find his princess.
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