Attention Girls: I have dealt with marriage!

Ah, gone are the golden days, when the statistics of ten girls had nine children.

Now one man is necessary as many as five or six "female souls"! Moreover, considerable demand for divorced men: they are "equipped with" experience - and life, and family.

It would seem, catch "breeder" as a husband and forget about the problems! If only it were that simple ...

Do not expect flat roads

Home commandment: Do not have any illusions that allegedly yearned for hot lunches and home comfort, a survivor of divorce "subject" that will lead to the registry office, which will provide him a weasel-care arranged by the life and uninterrupted power supply.

Of course, he was happy to absorb samolepnye dumplings and sleep on clean sheets, but would do so "disinterested", ie, not in exchange for personal freedom! There is only one way to get what you want, that is a man, who had already visited the legal status of husband and somewhat disappointed in the institution of marriage.

To turn the "one-off" or periodic contact with other hearts in a serious relationship, you need to prepare for "Lost in Translation" - from the "free as the wind" in a "free-for-sense" man. Let's start with a definition of types of "breeders". Ladies who know say: as a rule, these comrades are found in the following roles.

Sufferer

He recently divorced and still is in a sad meditations on "Why my marriage collapsed? "Error analysis he prefers not to deal with the company specialist medical diploma and puts this" honorary "role on special, which is next at the moment. And here you have a step by step lays out on the shelves of his past life and times.

The situation is clouded by the fact that he could easily call you in the night and re-start the dull monologue about irretrievably bygone happy days, he says, "where, where have you gone? "And it must be a great man, that in such moments do not interrupt the flow of suffering sharp advice - where to go with the caller bored moaning ...

Tactics and strategy: On the one hand, direct talks in the key: "Only you know me now as a bad" - mean that a man trusts you and appreciates friendship. But the situation is insidious in that it is possible to overdo it with the role of "friend-vests for tears," and he will no longer see you as a woman.

To sort happened, in time to put a stop to his "moment of weakness." How? For example, by saying: "Yes, you are very dear to me, and I want to help you. But every time I hate to hear how you loved his ex-wife - for the simple reason that you have for a serious sense. "

If the complainant is really nurtures sympathy to you, then leave "overboard" minor conversations. If your person is considered only as a nurse, "call to order" can be offended and leave in search of a new nanny. There he and the road: you are going to live their own lives and in the present tense, and not someone else in the past.

Kicker

This guy chose a different path: he cries, killed by treacherous former and defy it was worth. On account of mournful ex-spouse massive damage dishes, spreading through the house toilet articles, improper upbringing of the child and the poisoning of life in general.

He readily recalls the place and not all her sins, relishes disadvantages and actively invites to take part in the "stigma" of the former.

Tactics and strategy: Immediately discard the thought that, well, if he scolds her rival in every way, the victory will be easy. He drove her out of his life, but, judging by the feverish criticism, not from the heart, and the flow of charges - not that other, as the ill-concealed longing for the offender.

Rage and anger indicate that your partner still feels for her feelings, even negative, but tests. Refuse to participate in rumor-mongering miserable, move the conversation to another topic, indicating the chosen one that the accusatory process you trouble.

Hint that like waving fists after the fight and calling curses on the head of the poor thing does not characterize his good side. A parallel to try to play on the contrast: to find out what character traits and actions of rivals irritated your man, do not repeat them now your love story.

Cautious

Not a man, and the solid darkness: dating invites, takes care and attention, but your relationship is not a carefree joy, just cold and wary of him. But in the eyes of the "stone guest" you read something quite different: interest, tenderness, warmth.

His past - a mystery: it is known only that the "personal archive" has a divorce, but attempts to identify the causes of separation and about the person your ex-wife of the gentleman politely but firmly rejected. You are well feel that his lips quivering ready to break recognition, but "Mr. Iceberg" again and again suppresses amorous impulses.

Tactics and strategy: Be patient and watch partner. Most likely, the divorce became his severe injury, especially if the initiator was the second half. And now he was desperately afraid of open - suddenly again a failure? Surrounded him with love and affection, too many questions aside, he should feel safe.

When the "Snow King's" thaw, he will tell all that gnaws at him - if it deems it necessary. However, do not repeat the mistakes that often make young ladies wanting to fall in love with the former "zhenatika" not fawn and curry favor with him, this behavior is futile. Caring concern, but self-esteem should not leave you.

How to win a man?

Several nuances - and it's yours.

Listen to what is interesting to your man! The weak half of humanity - so called us women. These really so weak, or the ability to disarm the strongest man, make him vulnerable to women's weaknesses?

For information on how each of us uses them keep silent - for your own good. But for those who still have not got the location to him of his beloved, and those who want to remain forever one and only, will prompt a few tips regarding features of communication with the "aliens."

1. Learn to listen to a man - and you'll learn a lot about himself, his desires and habits. For men, as well as for women, it is important to understand, to be heard. Women also often annoying his talkativeness. Do not forget that everyone loves to talk about themselves and discuss what interested him. Listen to what your man interested.

2. When you ask a man about anything, please note that it can only do one thing at a given time, either read the newspaper or listen to. We often get offended, why a man can not hear us when watching a TV program, and so on. D. This is due to the fact that the configuration of the male brain (in contrast to the female, where there are more neural connections, as well as the presence of the female hormone estrogen,

and which promotes the formation of larger amounts of these compounds) did not allow him to perform several things at once, due to the small number of nerve connections between the left and right hemispheres. So do not distract a man (not to enter into disfavor), if it is busy. Can you just politely say that you need it, when available, without going into details.

3. Do not be offended by laconic men. After scanning of the brain, scientists have come to the unanimous conclusion that the brain, as it were divided into specific sections. Each site is responsible for a certain activity or function. In the absence of a special brain region associated with a certain kind of activity, people usually are not naturally inclined to it, I do not feel the pleasure of corresponding classes.

The fact that a woman has two management speech - the left and right hemisphere, which allows it to perfectly master a word, fast, easy to talk to. Men do not have a special department of speech, speech manages the left side of the brain. The only case where a man talkative, it is pretty drunk alcohol. However, I do not recommend this method to abuse. Do not regard sniff men as insufficient attention to you, accusing him that he does not listen.

4. Accept the fact that when a man's problem, he withdraws into himself, unlike us, women who need to talk. Do not bother with questions. You have to understand that silence does not mean a man of his dissatisfaction with anything, but only what he quietly talking to himself, pondering a way out of the situation. Just find the answer, he speaks or quicken.

5. To the man listened to you, tell him the subject beforehand. To convince or persuade a man, talk to him and just gave only one thought on which he should think. For female voice counterpoint men can not keep up, so try to use the masculine structure: clearly express the essence and draw conclusions, otherwise man will regard a conversation with the position that you do not know what you're talking about.

But in eloquence and interweaving of characters and motifs come off in explanations of women. Otherwise, if a woman has a few lines of conversation, the man loses the thread of conversation and interest in it. Do not interrupt a man during a conversation. It may either speak or listen.

6. Do not blame the man in the lack of feeling just because apparently he does not like to show their emotions. A man listens like a statue, while the average woman can use the six facial expressions. In fact, a man feels as strong emotions as a woman. The mask of fearlessness, worn man, he feels like owning the situation, but does not indicate that it has no emotions.

7. Men take the words literally believe every word and react accordingly. Therefore, deciding to embellish or exaggerate for the sake of "witty", think what it can "pour". A man in a dispute insist on the exact wording, a woman tries to push emotionally. If you want to gain the upper hand in a dispute with a man, it is necessary to argue logically, expressing only one idea.

8. Do not give advice to the man when he you does not ask. For him, it is important to deal with the problem itself, not to feel like a failure or inept.

9. The most important thing, perhaps: a woman, not a "sawing" Men! It just so happened that they were and want to be the first strong, always on top and can not tolerate criticism. Criticizing you expose men questioned in their importance to you that contradicts their biological substance. Deserved praise and approval to the men will bring you to the desired goal.

10. Of course, I can not ignore the well-known advice: the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. I offer you a recipe muffins stuffed, having tried that, the man simply can not stand in front of you.

"Baskets stuffed"

Require: Dough 2.5 cups flour; 0.5 packs of margarine; 2 eggs; 2 tbsp. Spoon sour cream; 0.5 tsp. Baking soda; 0.5 tsp. Salt; 4 tsp. Sugar; for filling 3 boiled eggs; 100 g of crab sticks; 100 g of cheese; 0.5 mayonnaise packet. Preparation: In a bowl pour the flour, rub on a grater beet margarine. Thoroughly grind all hands until smooth. Add eggs, sour cream, salt, sugar, hydrated kefir (boiled water or vinegar) soda.

All Mix with your hands until the dough is almost not keep up with the arms, hands in the process of kneading can be sprinkled with flour. The dough is applied in small tins of cakes, pre-lubricated with sunflower oil - equivalent to one dessert spoon; warming up in terms of form. Inside put cooked stuffing: finely chopped eggs, crab sticks, grated on a cheese grater beet, mixed with mayonnaise. Baskets Bake in preheated oven for 10 minutes -15 to yellowish.

To you, dear man, I wish to know and understand the diversity and romantic female nature, to find harmony and beauty of the relationship, because you, like us, women want to love and be loved.

Mutual handed and bowls filled with love to all!