Select a husband almost science

The researchers found that in Russia are found four types of men. But only two of them are suitable for a normal family life.

Arrange the stronger sex have allowed the study of Discovery Networks, held in a large sociological project «Species: modern man from A to Z".

In the view of scientists were tens of thousands of inhabitants of Europe, including Russia, aged 25 to 39 years. Those surveyed, was not interested in skin color, height, thickness of hair, physical strength, the size of genitals and other visible external differences.

The objective was to understand how today's men look to life. Including a family. Does it fit, with certain ideas about themselves, loved ones, and about the world.

According to the results, we - and the males were divided into four main types. There were, of course, and subspecies, as in any other mammals. But they are few - like rare gerbils and ground squirrels.

Seven strokes to the portrait

Men, of course, vary. But there are also commonalities - "zeitgeist" blew. Women are not bad to know about them in order to better understand who they are now dealing with.

The average man marries not before 30 years. By the age of 35 he begins to think about the children. And often leads them to 40 or even later. It is longer than in the old days, living with their parents, it depends on them. And in no hurry to settle down. Respects dinner prepared mother, her postirushki and other care.

The average man would be happy to have children early. But consider this step lightly. Because sure: we must first firmly back on its feet. And to achieve a decent and well-being if it turns out that, as a rule, not before the age of 40.

On average - again male - understanding, the stronger sex can raise children better than the weak. And to be involved in their lives, to care more actively than did fathers ancestors.

The average man spends more time and money on their appearance. Here and training in gyms and SPA-procedures, and expensive hairdressing and facial creams. Sharks capitalism is realized without public opinion polls - the supply of services of this kind are growing day by day. A sale of all male cosmetics boom.

Concerns own image generates a depression in the average man. When it is not possible - the image - to improve, in spite of the heroic efforts. Dissatisfied with their body are very experienced. Women, by the way, can take advantage of it, to invent anything. Or at least recognize the source of sorrow, not to caustic remarks like: "Here you shake your muscles all day long, and fat as a hog."

The average man takes Viagra (yes, it's between the ages of 25 to 39 years, to say nothing of the older generation is not covered by the survey). Means to strengthen erections attach confidence in intimate relationships. And compensates for defects - the influence of alcohol, cigarettes and night discos that before, when there was no "magic" pills, significantly weakened potency.

A lack of confidence is not zakompleksovannosti sex. It also gives rise to the fact that women have become more demanding in bed - do not hesitate to ask for more, complain and even criticize. The tablet, according to the men, eliminating the non-constructive criticism.

Here is the answer to a question that sounded before a small voice in the song from his childhood: "Of what, what does set up our boys ?! "

Great family man and not very

Men are found everywhere. But the chance to stumble on some particular their appearance in different areas are different.

"Modern and a step ahead" (classification Discovery Networks) - the most numerous group. Such males on average in Europe, 34 per cent. In Russia - 36. In France - 42, and in Sweden - as much as 57 percent.

Among them are a subspecies found "the best in all respects" - that is the dream man. They are about one-third of the "modern".

These men strive to keep up everywhere. What drives them is not to stress. On the contrary, it brings sincere satisfaction. "Best" are trying to cope with a variety of cases at work and at home. For them are equally important, and family and friends, and hobbies. But the time is almost gone.

"Egocentric" in second place in density. In Russia, they are the same as the European average - 26 percent. In the Netherlands, of 43, while in Germany - 48 percent. That is more important than the men themselves, and not with other people. They do not tend to family life.

Subspecies, approximately the sixth part - "the status of running." These extremely ambitious, trying to attract attention. In the first place they work, good pay and physical form - what works on the image. Among these almost no one else wanted to marry.

How to quickly get married, detailed instruction for women

In this article we will talk about marriage in general and marriage after 30 years in particular. After reading the article, you'll learn what you can and should be done to a woman to marry in the near future, and how to remove the luck in marriage, celibacy crown yourself. All you need is to follow the instructions carefully!

Before the question of should or should not marry, was not discussed. It is time for parents betrothed - and more! Otherwise, it could not be, because before women for the most part kept the home, while men earn their daily bread.

Now everything has changed, "the weaker sex" fought, struggled and achieved equality. Now, ladies and jackhammers as men managed, and fly into space, and the country is run. What could be their family hearths to store! About marriage for the trouble to think about the career, too busy. According to statistics in the world now about 47% of single women. In Moscow alone as much as 36% of them.

Those ladies who have already reached certain heights in his career, has achieved recognition and so on, to arrange his personal life too easy. Firstly, it has somehow survived. Is your favorite slippers, your favorite, and most importantly, loyal dog, a cat, a familiar comfort of home, where to let someone outside who will ever throw socks at home and forget to tighten a tube of toothpaste is no longer desirable.

And why? Boyfriend fact there! This is not all cleaned their hands and turned into an ordinary Cinderella queen, arranges a romantic candlelight dinner, giving flowers. Go, and then wait for this from her husband! And the trouble with boyfriend less. Cooking it is not necessary, Iron-on transfer arrows on trousers too. A cease to please, easily turnut his knee in the ass and find a new one. One might as well continue to live happily ever after, only whispering behind his colleagues already got pitying looks and disapproving neighbors brought.

There is another category of single women. These people think about a career with little or no thought. Their loneliness is due largely to the fact that they are in some way not satisfied with men, for example, in the exterior.

The third category - a loser. With the appearance they all seem to be fine, the career is not particularly chase, but no luck. Dating a man, meet, and as a matter comes before the wedding, for some reason he chooses another. Here come to mind thought of only one thing - the crown of celibacy. He cursed, and no one else to blame.

Whatever it was, career prevented find personal happiness and to get married, or something else, you need not despair. And you should not think that at the age of thirty-plus can not arrange their own destiny. Of course, the older a woman is, the scope of its potential candidates for a husband already. But still, there are so many men that each will suffice.

So you dosidela to thirty-plus, nothing is hatched and were determined to change that. What should be done to a woman to marry, where to start?

As strange as it sounds, with itself. Try not to make skeptical grins, and strictly follow the instructions. The first - take a clean sheet of paper and try to frankly answer the questions:

1.In what do you see the ideal of your dreams? Appearance here does not play a big role, most important, write it desirable qualities. Too picky and choosy do not need to be, because the ideal is known to live only in a well-invented tales.

2. How have the environment? Here we have in mind, if your best friend is also unmarried, then you have special developments on this front is unlikely to occur. We need to change friends, leave unhappy and lonely and acquire a cheerful and happy married.

If they do not get the best of friends, we must at least make their friend, often visiting them at home or to attend a variety of activities together, find common interests. Attention! On fighting off another man in this paragraph it is not carried out! But how to complete this step, will change your life for the better, you are incredibly surprised.

3.Naskolko much you depend on your parents? If it so happened that mamulechka or papulechka still show you what can be done and what can not, on the dramatic changes in his personal life can be forgotten. Of course, if you live with parents, it is not necessary to collect the suitcase and move out of housing. And if you live alone and so does not need to change the phone number to Mamusia not call and do not give advice, but to take his stance and consistently follow it all the same need.

4.Napishite honestly, what are you afraid of in life. This refers to everything. Maybe the fear of loneliness, fear of poverty, fear of the dark, fear of heights, fear of nice little harmless mice living in the closet. Various phobias much. Try to formulate them for themselves in advance and clearly understand that to fight them on their own will, the future husband to this draw is not necessary. He was about these fears it is better not to know, and then suddenly he has a phobia of fear on his future soulmate!

5.Mnogo Do you mean for your career? This is a very easy question for some and very difficult for others. If the answer is positive, it is better at this point to stay until the next time, so far from being alone would be absolutely unbearable. If the answer is no, you need to answer a small podvoprosik - if you can sacrifice career for the sake of happiness?

6. What are the means for you to catch a husband acceptable? Here it is necessary to clearly define the term "husband", because if instead the notion of "lover", the means of capture will be quite different. Although ... lovers often do not need to catch and no hooks and no networks themselves are caught. 7. How soon after meeting you go to an intimate relationship? There is no strict rules, and the fact that there are, there are many exceptions. However, experience shows that neither too hasty with this case, nor excessive tightening is not necessary. That is, the principle of "first in the registry office, and then to bed" can finally frighten all the remaining candidates. But ... can you hit it has become today rarity type guy who hopes to find a middle-aged virgin.

8.Naskolko outwardly you yourself like that? Of course, not only to get married, "Miss Universe" and "Miss etogogoroda", but still, if you do pofigistski about his appearance, and, hence, to his beloved, how will treat you man?