Attention Girls: I have dealt with marriage!

Ah, gone are the golden days, when the statistics of ten girls had nine children.

Now one man is necessary as many as five or six "female souls"! Moreover, considerable demand for divorced men: they are "equipped with" experience - and life, and family.

It would seem, catch "breeder" as a husband and forget about the problems! If only it were that simple ...

Do not expect flat roads

Home commandment: Do not have any illusions that allegedly yearned for hot lunches and home comfort, a survivor of divorce "subject" that will lead to the registry office, which will provide him a weasel-care arranged by the life and uninterrupted power supply.

Of course, he was happy to absorb samolepnye dumplings and sleep on clean sheets, but would do so "disinterested", ie, not in exchange for personal freedom! There is only one way to get what you want, that is a man, who had already visited the legal status of husband and somewhat disappointed in the institution of marriage.

To turn the "one-off" or periodic contact with other hearts in a serious relationship, you need to prepare for "Lost in Translation" - from the "free as the wind" in a "free-for-sense" man. Let's start with a definition of types of "breeders". Ladies who know say: as a rule, these comrades are found in the following roles.

Sufferer

He recently divorced and still is in a sad meditations on "Why my marriage collapsed? "Error analysis he prefers not to deal with the company specialist medical diploma and puts this" honorary "role on special, which is next at the moment. And here you have a step by step lays out on the shelves of his past life and times.

The situation is clouded by the fact that he could easily call you in the night and re-start the dull monologue about irretrievably bygone happy days, he says, "where, where have you gone? "And it must be a great man, that in such moments do not interrupt the flow of suffering sharp advice - where to go with the caller bored moaning ...

Tactics and strategy: On the one hand, direct talks in the key: "Only you know me now as a bad" - mean that a man trusts you and appreciates friendship. But the situation is insidious in that it is possible to overdo it with the role of "friend-vests for tears," and he will no longer see you as a woman.

To sort happened, in time to put a stop to his "moment of weakness." How? For example, by saying: "Yes, you are very dear to me, and I want to help you. But every time I hate to hear how you loved his ex-wife - for the simple reason that you have for a serious sense. "

If the complainant is really nurtures sympathy to you, then leave "overboard" minor conversations. If your person is considered only as a nurse, "call to order" can be offended and leave in search of a new nanny. There he and the road: you are going to live their own lives and in the present tense, and not someone else in the past.

Kicker

This guy chose a different path: he cries, killed by treacherous former and defy it was worth. On account of mournful ex-spouse massive damage dishes, spreading through the house toilet articles, improper upbringing of the child and the poisoning of life in general.

He readily recalls the place and not all her sins, relishes disadvantages and actively invites to take part in the "stigma" of the former.

Tactics and strategy: Immediately discard the thought that, well, if he scolds her rival in every way, the victory will be easy. He drove her out of his life, but, judging by the feverish criticism, not from the heart, and the flow of charges - not that other, as the ill-concealed longing for the offender.

Rage and anger indicate that your partner still feels for her feelings, even negative, but tests. Refuse to participate in rumor-mongering miserable, move the conversation to another topic, indicating the chosen one that the accusatory process you trouble.

Hint that like waving fists after the fight and calling curses on the head of the poor thing does not characterize his good side. A parallel to try to play on the contrast: to find out what character traits and actions of rivals irritated your man, do not repeat them now your love story.

Cautious

Not a man, and the solid darkness: dating invites, takes care and attention, but your relationship is not a carefree joy, just cold and wary of him. But in the eyes of the "stone guest" you read something quite different: interest, tenderness, warmth.

His past - a mystery: it is known only that the "personal archive" has a divorce, but attempts to identify the causes of separation and about the person your ex-wife of the gentleman politely but firmly rejected. You are well feel that his lips quivering ready to break recognition, but "Mr. Iceberg" again and again suppresses amorous impulses.

Tactics and strategy: Be patient and watch partner. Most likely, the divorce became his severe injury, especially if the initiator was the second half. And now he was desperately afraid of open - suddenly again a failure? Surrounded him with love and affection, too many questions aside, he should feel safe.

When the "Snow King's" thaw, he will tell all that gnaws at him - if it deems it necessary. However, do not repeat the mistakes that often make young ladies wanting to fall in love with the former "zhenatika" not fawn and curry favor with him, this behavior is futile. Caring concern, but self-esteem should not leave you.