Absolutely every girl thinks of what should be her favorite, the only perfect man in general. And hardly any woman imagines greedy, violent and jealous man. But no one is immune from mistakes. Let's look at concrete examples.
Most women want to meet not jealous, not drinking and not greedy. Such requests arise from negative experiences. Maybe the girl in the family was a man and more to her this is not necessary. Speaking only of these qualities, you do not think that the others may be much worse than the ones that you avoid.
And what do you mean, for example, the word "not jealous"? And suddenly this man would be completely insensitive towards you? And if he is not greedy, what is the guarantee that he is not a spender? It may he's not drinking because coded.
There is a theory that the universe gives you everything you want, with precision, but on the contrary.
The conclusion: the dreams and desires have to be positive.
What follows is the quality as independence. Yes, women want men who are able to make decisions for yourself. And these men are found. But they decide all domestic issues: where to spend the money, where to spend the holidays, etc. Do you need it?
This phenomenon is called the "double standards". Try as carefully as possible to choose the quality that might be inherent in your partner.
And then a miracle happened! You met the man who meets the stated requirements. You attract it, too. But it turns out that this is not your type.
What does "not my type"? And where do you find the necessary? What the girls think their character - it's a girl's dreams of movie heroes. All! Ie Type, which is currently far-fetched the girl has nothing to do with the way her man.
And how things are going, if a woman is lucky enough to meet your type?
And then it begins ... A woman is that the partner still has all its far-fetched character. But over time it has come up with excuses as Quality is missing. And the apogee - accusations that he was not like she actually afford nafantazirovala.
To sum up, if you were asked to describe the man you are looking for, do not neglect the following principles:
- Do not use the elimination method. Except for one thing, you doom yourself do not know what;
- More positive. Replace "not evil" to "good" and so on;
- Analyze the reverse side of all the qualities that you would like to see in your partner, and your willingness to take it that way.
In the end, there is a logical question: what right? How to find the very man?
The answer is quite simple: a man next to her, you feel happy. Next to it you will feel like a stone wall, you will trust him.
And for you an example, when the dreams and needs of little miss. Girls delighted with the active, charismatic men who conquered women at a glance. But with such a man a woman troubled lives.
She constantly worries about whether it is appropriate to such partner. And it is not experiencing the emotions and feelings that make her happy. Dream like, and in the hands, and happiness - not.
Where are you, where my beloved Prince
Absolutely every girl thinks of what should be her favorite, the only perfect man in general. And hardly any woman imagines greedy, violent and jealous man. But no one is immune from mistakes. Let's look at concrete examples.
Most women want to meet not jealous, not drinking and not greedy. Such requests arise from negative experiences. Maybe the girl in the family was a man and more to her this is not necessary. Speaking only of these qualities, you do not think that the others may be much worse than the ones that you avoid.
And what do you mean, for example, the word "not jealous"? And suddenly this man would be completely insensitive towards you? And if he is not greedy, what is the guarantee that he is not a spender? It may he's not drinking because coded.
There is a theory that the universe gives you everything you want, with precision, but on the contrary.
The conclusion: the dreams and desires have to be positive.
What follows is the quality as independence. Yes, women want men who are able to make decisions for yourself. And these men are found. But they decide all domestic issues: where to spend the money, where to spend the holidays, etc. Do you need it?
This phenomenon is called the "double standards". Try as carefully as possible to choose the quality that might be inherent in your partner.
And then a miracle happened! You met the man who meets the stated requirements. You attract it, too. But it turns out that this is not your type.
What does "not my type"? And where do you find the necessary? What the girls think their character - it's a girl's dreams of movie heroes. All! Ie Type, which is currently far-fetched the girl has nothing to do with the way her man.
And how things are going, if a woman is lucky enough to meet your type?
And then it begins ... A woman is that the partner still has all its far-fetched character. But over time it has come up with excuses as Quality is missing. And the apogee - accusations that he was not like she actually afford nafantazirovala.
To sum up, if you were asked to describe the man you are looking for, do not neglect the following principles:
- Do not use the elimination method. Except for one thing, you doom yourself do not know what;
- More positive. Replace "not evil" to "good" and so on;
- Analyze the reverse side of all the qualities that you would like to see in your partner, and your willingness to take it that way.
In the end, there is a logical question: what right? How to find the very man?
The answer is quite simple: a man next to her, you feel happy. Next to it you will feel like a stone wall, you will trust him.
And for you an example, when the dreams and needs of little miss. Girls delighted with the active, charismatic men who conquered women at a glance. But with such a man a woman troubled lives.
She constantly worries about whether it is appropriate to such partner. And it is not experiencing the emotions and feelings that make her happy. Dream like, and in the hands, and happiness - not.
What men like in women
Often what men like in women, has nothing to do with appearance, size of the breast and other standards. Despite the fact that the visual appeal - is the first thing that we all pay attention, then it is not playing a major role.
Believe it or not, but there are many things that men love in women, in addition to appearance. Not only beautiful eyes, magnificent figure and your tender lips forced the young man to his ears in love with you.
And every real man sure to love a woman who ...
1. Knows how to listen
Not only are women like to be listened to. Very often, men need it more. For them it is very hard to start talking about their experiences and problems.
At such times, you need not "cut" and indignant, but simply to listen and try to understand. Try to be patient and considerate, and the next time he will listen to you and talk about their problems more readily.
2. Spontaneity
Spontaneity in a good way. No one whose mood changes every 5 minutes, and that she did not know what he wants, but needs to know about her man. And one that is not too seriously concerns everything, who likes to fool around, which is "easy-going".
Men generally like to ease in the relationship. You just have to not be afraid to be yourself and show that you know how to enjoy life in all its manifestations.
3. Good drivers
Oddly enough, but despite the fact that very often men complain about women on the roads, they are confident that the modern young lady simply must drive. It's so "factory", where a woman can make the engine roar.
4. Self-sufficiency
Women who really enjoy what they are doing, are more attractive to men. No need to be an incredibly beautiful, have a high-paying job and an impressive resume. You have to be pleased with herself, confident that you will succeed, because otherwise simply can not be.
Learn to treat all positive and think of failure as a learning experience for your further improvement. There is an expression "trouble never comes alone." But the same thing can be said about luck.
5. Good willing and able to enjoy your meal
Every girl and a young girl are not often heard that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach." Now, of course, there are many other ways, but this is still not be ruled out. Men really love women who are able and, more importantly, love to cook.
Everything else, men appreciate when a woman and she is able to enjoy the food. Proper nutrition - it's good, but without fanaticism. Go to the restaurant or pizzeria. The fact that you're not obsessed with counting of color, show your man that you believe in yourself.
6. Able to compromise
Every man feels better in a relationship, if he knows that his lover is able to make an effort to find a solution acceptable to both sides. This will help make your relationship more than happy for two.
7. Fun
A sense of humor plays an important role for men. They want to be sure that you can with humor about life, despite the challenges and difficulties.
8. Do not fear smeared
Men often "rolled up" the neck when a woman dressed "to the nines". But then they themselves admit that these girls are good for fleeting romances.
But for the family life they choose a kind of "girl from next door" who likes to joke, to laugh, is not afraid to break a nail and does not shy away from the kind of bugs, spiders. These girls are good friends, and for successful relationships you really have to be friends.
Whatever it was, a woman's happiness is not built on visual appeal.
