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The world is becoming more aggressive. The world is becoming cynical. Today the girl to marry well, you have to sell yourself. In the course are any marketing gimmicks ... Some practical, sound advice for girls.
21 century. All bought and sold. Today the choice of a life partner is not much different from going to the store. If you want a good marriage?
You say that this is absurd? Not at all. Remember how long and hard we learn a thing (handbag, shoes, perfume bottle). We try to find flaws, to try on its merits, weigh the "pros" and "cons", and only then make a decision about the purchase.
If the issue price is high, we ask ourselves: "That I really need?" Subconsciously the person decides whether he should be abandoned in favor of this thing by something else. One golden cartridge with expensive lipstick or poor-quality cosmetics, but a lot?
Another thing sample collection and sales. At such events is always very crowded.
Here we parse it, for I never pay full price or not pay at all.
Our nature is that we are looking in all the benefits. It does not matter whether it's a new car or life partner.
Like a good marriage
Imagine that it bid- marriage. Why do some men beg his companions to marry them, and others are quite satisfied with a civil marriage or a guest?
The point is not that all men-cloven-hoofed animals. The point value of the woman. Men just do not want to buy at high prices that are cheap, or what they are already actively popolzovavshis. A woman can not be bought, if not for the stronger sex is of no value, except household. Prepare and wash it may be mom or girlfriend.
If the woman wants to meet the right one, and the beautiful, a good marriage, it is not necessary to fill his worth, and know it, and constantly improve. Make it very simple.
Not cheap
Overly candid image creates a kind of sale, which attracts fans of "freebies". Remember that the package (in this case, clothes) - 50% of a successful sale. It must attract, intrigue, hint at something more, that is hidden.
At the beginning of his career, the actress Sophia Loren barely beat out for themselves bit parts in movies.
Directed by saying that she had a big nose, big hips and overly plump lips on screen it will look even worse than in real life. But the young Lauren did not stop. She began to work actively on their way, and soon those who had once rejected her, begged celebrity to star in their picture.
Sophie herself said about it:
-Hard To be irresistible, if you're lazy.
Beauty - a trick
So do not be lazy, picking up the way for the next publication. Of course, the hair takes a long time, but it always wins against the backdrop of loose disheveled hair or ponytail. Heels, and more so the studs, you get tired quickly, but no one talks about 10 cm. A small heel for everyday, a high for the celebrations.
Jeans also not appropriate everywhere. They perfectly replace a properly fitted trousers and skirts are not too short. Bust in make-up, as well as its absence creates a comic image. If you come during the day to work (studies) in the evening make-up, it looks as if you made a mistake and hit the door a little there.
Remember that beauty - a trick.
Ask yourself the question: "So what do I want?"
Believe me, in the world of sex is large enough. Constantly thinking about finding a partner, the relationship with him, marriage and so on. stupid. Take what he likes! Victory it will be good to raise your self-esteem and to give strength to new beginnings.
The artist, perfumer, climber, fashion designer, actress. Can you characterize yourself with one to two words? Moreover, the occupation favorite thing gives us familiarity with like-minded people. And with them you will definitely be something to talk about!
Take responsibility for
Excessive dependence on men gives them the right to look at women with high. Itself fix the computer, she earned the money, she decided to their problems. The main thing is not to overdo it and do not be Marfoy- Governor's Wife. And let them know that you are an independent figure and not be gone without them.
Do the impossible!
Do what you afraid! Do something new! Every week. Breaking a frame and walls, you get a bright interesting personality. Set yourself diction, go make-up courses, join a fitness center or a section of karate, read and understand Jung. If you are shy people be where a lot of them, communicate with them.
If you still think that's a bad idea, think of Kylie Minogue. The very babe Kylie, who was able to defeat the deadly disease of breast cancer and return to the stage in the guise of Aphrodite. She made the impossible, frail woman was not overawed by the death. And just because she was used to do the impossible: the first came on the scene, the first time appeared in the film, became a superstar, beat cancer and now helps millions of other women in the fight against this terrible disease.
We all need to make a victory!
That in a difficult situation we have enough faith in themselves and overcome it.
If there is something you feel very heavy, make it mandatory. And soon you will join the ranks of those people who previously only admired.
Demonstrate your strengths
No need to hide from people their dignity. Portray fool, neumёhu or her boyfriend. On the contrary, if possible baubles wit, extraordinary intelligence, beauty, culinary skills, but baubles. Then some of your surroundings will think, "pull" Whether they have or they will have to find a more convenient option.
And finally! Understand yourself, define their principles
Do not be afraid to show character. If you do something like / dislike, do not hide it. In the worst case, your environment will not be people who do not like the real you and you do not who will trim the wings. At best, you pass for a man who can be relied on and who all have an opinion.
The result is a good marriage
Now it's your cost of increased several times, the environment has changed, it changed view of things, and with it you are. Now, before you opened up thousands of possibilities, you will have found their wings and become a person. Now, do not you, and you will choose her husband, like flowers in a store.
Because it is our natural female privilege ... to choose!
Author Tatiana Mosunova
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