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"How do you about it at night dreaming, all gave him only ..."
Yes, exactly what happened: you gave him the soul, the heart (hand he did not ask), and in addition a large sum of money. And he disappeared in English ... It is impossible to put into words the shock, sometimes victims of "mercenary love" are in psychiatric hospitals.
In any case, the wound inflicted marriage scams, never delayed until the end.
WHERE AND WHEN it can be found?
The practice of law enforcement agencies indicates that this category of crooks significantly activated in the autumn and summer and "dies" with the onset of cold weather.
What, you ask, do winter marriage scam hibernate? Not at all. But, my dear, is recognized when the soul craves love most - in the chilly February day or during the heyday of nature? Where we willingly go on contact - on snow or stop at an outdoor cafe under the blossoming acacias? That's just it.
Although the reality of the fateful meeting, you are not safe anywhere, ever. Hunt for trusting Juliet goes round. And you can get to know them from public transport and a children's playground and ending ... but at least the cemetery.
There are cases where the widow of the late businessman has decided to link their lives with a man, become sad at the nearby graves. One broken heart reached out to another, as a result of the disconsolate "widower" comforted, robbing the lady to the skin.
Who potential victims?
Strictly speaking, the case does not necessarily reach the stamp in the passport. Grabs and civil marriage. It is usually this kind of "figures" are focusing on objects wealthy.
And this is usually not the first young lady, who on the personal front "did not work" and Mendelssohn's march for them is not as relevant as the mere presence of a man in the house. And because unmarried and divorced usually devote themselves to business or career, their efforts to bring tangible fruits of maturity, that and strive to take advantage of "gentlemen of fortune".
Next come the rich heiress, widows and other holders of well-furnished apartments, jewels and bank accounts. But at least naive to believe that if your finances are singing love songs, then you are automatically eliminated from the number of potential victims.
There are true artists in their field, which does not cost anything to disrupt the big jackpot, where, by and large, profit-and I have nothing. They have their own, specific know-how, which, alas, are trouble-free. And the next story is a case in point.
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Nadina apartment in the greatest value was perhaps that wedding ring left on the memory of the failed marriage. But Vlad was such a nice, friendly, caring ...
After a few months the newly-born civil idyll husband took the initiative:
- You know, my dear, you and I have enough to fend for salaries. Let's venture - arrange a small family business. Prepares you perfectly, open some cafe tables for five or six. All organizational matters, I accept.
And developed a storm of activity: the firm is registered, placed under the cafes found on rents agreed ... It was only for a start-up capital.
- We'll have to take out a bank loan, secured apartments will necessarily.
- Terribly somehow, and suddenly not right?
- I will definitely be back! What are we, the worst of all, lost what? But then how to begin to live! - Vlad burned enthusiasm.
Nadia gave up. Needless to say that the attempt to start a new life was the impact? "Enthusiast" evaporated with 40 thousand dollars, and the apartment became the property of the bank ...
WHAT guise he wears?
"An honest man '
This guy seemed to come down from the poster "Glory to Labor! "He just itching to build communism in a single cell of society. Before meeting with you, he somehow interrupted, but would not allow such a woman with him was interrupted. You deserve more! That will result in his noble impulse - see. Above.
Sleek, respectable, with exquisite manners and generous nature, he perfectly plays the role of a prince charming. It's not simply saying, and yells of an excellent education, a successful career, the habit of VIP-service and foreign trips. In conversations on the mobile numbers it operates, which have caused mild shock.
He does not leave you a chance for questioning. No, he (and very colorful) tells about himself and his "legend" always looks truly, because a lot of it, and the real facts, which are always confirmed.
However, the "grand strategist" is not worse zapravskoy gypsy in no time to find out all your ins and outs. And for dinner at a Japanese restaurant and you can not think of what your banquet paid the previous victims, and you still have to pay for the "good life."
"Real Colonel"
"Romance" profession: pilots, military doctors, captains - swindlers in vogue: a form of the female sex is always "uneven breathing." This type of "severe and honest." Yes, he was married, but failed. He was an altruist, and all property given to ex-spouses (children, elderly mothers, orphans, etc.).
And all tearjerker the "colonel" is not just a car, but the whole trains and ocean liners. And anyway, the money for this wonderful man - not a goal but a means to decorate and change your life with him. And he really change it. In general, the scenario in which the act of marriage swindlers, Mass.
They could be anyone, not who they say they are. It would seem that it is necessary to ask, but is there a company (military unit, agency, office - an arbitrary list), which employs your newly groom?
And if there is, whether the number of the citizen out there? And not just worth it. The idea is the same it is necessary. However, we firmly learned that men do not like intrusive persons, and prefer to take things as they are.
Why he was pecking?
He knows how to win instantly, and not just caring and downright attacks intended victim, leaving her no time for doubt or possibility of soberly assess the situation. Before there when so dizzy from compliments, romantic confessions and a nice gesture!
Often objects "processing" are not only women but also their children, parents, friends. Marriage swindler fuss as gambler: the more distracting effects and wider audience, the easier it is to divert attention from the obvious facts.
If your parents are fascinated by them, and the child is enthusiastically waiting for the next visit "good uncle", and even more so you will not be able to suspect "uncle" of evil intentions. Moreover, some specimens have a hypnotic and even psychic abilities and use them in full, ohmurit object.
And even if the relatives and friends suspected that something was wrong, treated the victim will remain blind and deaf to all arguments and advice. Breast rise to defend his elect, by living according to his orders. What he actually wanted. But what are we all about him but about him? If you think about it, the ladies are to blame for the fact that the show is a success.
After all, we are so afraid to miss the happiness that cling with both hands for any semblance of sense. When it seems that our train is about to give a farewell beep hurry to jump into the last car, long arguing about where we can bring. Over the years, become sentimental reaction is dulled, escapes a healthy youthful cynicism ...
Simply put, "we lose the scent." But the most amazing thing is that there are so many who, aware of questionable past, "favorite", however, sincerely hope that they will be able to re-type this, instruct on the right path and make it an exemplary family man. However, anyone that's ever been able to ...
How not to become his victims?
Unfortunately, universal recipe, it does not get into the network to marriage scams, no. Tests to accurately calculate it among honest men also exists. For this cohort villains it operates the most beautiful and defenseless state of mind - love.
This distinguishes them from speculators and manipulators in general and make it more dangerous.
We only hope that our discussion will be an occasion to reflect and take a closer look to those whom we allow into your life.
To understand how important it is, even in love to be able to defend their territory and to respect their interests first and foremost. It sounds strange, but it is unlikely to interfere with real feelings.
Author: Natalia Ovsyannikov
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