How to become an attractive and sexy woman

For those who still want to spring and winter, summer and fall, to be attractive, in other words, sexy, we will discuss the question - what is, in fact, sex appeal, and how to achieve it? Does the sex appeal of the appearance, in particular, on the figure?

In English the sex-appeal means "sex appeal."

That is the sex appeal - it's what attracts the opposite sex.   That's all - not only the appearance but also the gait, gestures, posture, voice, smell and gleam in his eyes.

Moreover, the sex appeal - it is, if you will, a state of mind.   And it may be that a woman is not wearing trendy and not the most perfect figure, will attract crowds of fans, and the other, and whose slender body and bright "packaging", and there will be alone.

Because of the emergence of the "sex appeal" depends largely on what you saw in this or that man, that it excited him ...

Of course, appearance plays an important role here: the only question is, WHAT appearance? Man is not far from its "smaller brothers" when it comes to the mechanism of choice of sexual partner.

Of course, not looking at the person, you can not say he draws us in terms of sex or not. However, a glance, a person estimates the prospective partners are not legs or clothes, and choose their own under the guidance of the unconscious.

And the unconscious requires one: to prospective sexual partner to ensure maximum safety of the genetic characteristics of the person who chooses. It is based on these conditions, the appearance of our fellowship, "like - not like it."

For this reason, some prefer only people with blue or brown eyes, someone - only blondes or brunettes, and someone is trying to choose a plump lady and low ...

And the original criteria of sex appeal for each person on your own.   However, even people and animals, but it's still a social animal. And so he often (except in the most primitive animals) there is no possibility and the desire to engage in sexual intercourse with the selected object at once, as soon as there was the attraction.

People ranging from dating to bed, as a rule, communicate, and it also determines the choice of communication. Therefore, today's people, in addition to the preservation of their own genes, guided by another unconscious selection criterion: whether a given individual qualities necessary for his future partner?

Thus, the "scent smell" each other in the crowd of a sadist and a masochist, domineering man and eager to obey, loving care, and require care ... In the process of dialogue with interested us human, we appreciate not only its appearance but also personality traits, characteristics behavior.

And if all of this is also in line with our undertows settings "what is necessary to choose", then there will be "at a glance" sexual desire is growing and intensifying. And at that time we did not take the question of how long the object has legs. Remember the classic: "And what he found in this ugly ?!"

Of course, this coordinated system works only if people deliberately do not interfere in it, just following what is called intuition. Once the choice of not starting to lead the deep motives of the individual, and its acquisition of various complexes - the system select the desired partner fails.

For example, a man, zatyukali own mother, begins to actively seek women are weak, in need of protection, to prove to himself that he still remains strong!

And in fact, unconsciously (under the pressure imposed by his mother complex "what you availest without me"), he chooses a completely different partner - one that could replace his mother: such imperious hen that will take him under the wing, and will hide it from the outside world.

And the poor young man to gray hair sticks to the harsh ladies-grenadersham falls to them under the heel and all the wonders why he is so unhappy? However, the determining factor in the final choice of an intimate partner in people is called on to review the behavioral level.

That is, those mikrosignaly exchanged between the two men, as if to convince each other that their choice is not ignored. And the two of them start to unconsciously attracted to each other, reinforcing this certain postures, words and attitudes, which even they themselves sometimes completely invisible.

As the writer says, "have arisen between them secret fluids slipped electric spark" and the like ... And to you choose, your behavior should not alienate a review. In other words, a man chooses the woman who accepts his views, attitudes and other mikrosignaly selection positively, not negatively.

And one that every gesture of courtship sees ridicule and mockery, is not likely to be in demand for a long time. Because all her reactions, her smallest gestures and movements, the tone of the conversation, facial expressions, her body as if to say, "Oh, come on, who I need ..." And the woman herself may not even suspect what she mikrosignaly She sends the men around her.

Why do many of the fair sex so strange to respond to signs of attention? Very simple. They initially believe that a completely unattractive and no one ever need, because they have, you see, is not compliant chest, face or figure.

But for such qualities as sex appeal, completely indifferent to the shape of the face and clothing size. This is a subjective, inner feeling, absolutely independent of the parameters of the exterior. And fashion looks - the enemy of sexuality.

Sex appeal - it is primarily personality And fashion, as we know, all the calls to get a haircut with the same brush. In particular, today it seems that in our society, the world is ruled by high thin ladies. They are the most charming, attractive and sexy.

Though not all men are attracted to sexually fashionable female figure now. And no man, choosing fashionable women or women rushing to the fashionable appearance, they can not understand one thing: fashionable and sexy woman - completely different things!

"How many times told the world," and especially the beautiful half of what female beauty and sex appeal - this is not necessarily 90-60-90.

How to become an attractive and sexy woman

A love relationship for adults, middle-aged woman

You know, how old is called Balzac? A friend of mine defined it this way: this is the age when married late and die early. In the days of Balzac was all clear: it was the woman's age from 25 to 30 years.

Today, on this definition can only laugh. In Germany, for example, up to now, the money paid for children up to 27 years, they were called "children's money."

Who is the woman in fifty has not lost his sex appeal.

She looks young and wants to be loved, as well as thirty years ago. What happened in such a short time? What has changed in a woman? Sometimes it is worth before you a woman, and you're just guessing - how old she is. She looks young, sexy, and next child turns and calls a woman "grandmother."

Today, a woman of fifty, and does not want to give up their positions. She wants love and affection, wants that could not get before. Many manage to solve this problem easily. The main thing, said most of the women who need as little as possible to look into the passport and to believe that forty-five and fifty-life is just beginning.

We need to take from life what you give fate, and did not put off for a week or a month. Today 45-50-year-old woman has a job, she made a career, children are adults. It is surrounded by such as she, divorced women or widows.

But, unfortunately, next to no man, men trembled at the sight of which would be the heart, which could give a woman fantastic night on which she missed. No…

Today, she does not want adventure, it wants stability in love. But where to find the other half, which is intended to you? It's not a thing in the store can not buy it. One was shown on German television as a group of middle-aged women to go to Africa. I was struck by the fact that many have returned are not alone.

Their companions began the African man many years younger. Women were satisfied men. We praise them, and said that now their lives are filled with completely different colors, and that for women age does not play little or no role, the main thing that was a young soul.

Young women may seem ridiculous by the fact that 50 or 60 year old woman looking for a life partner. And many women in Russia believe that in this age of life is over, that their sacred duty - to help children raise grandchildren.

Unfortunately, very few films about the middle-aged ladies. The main heroine of today's TV shows or novels - beautiful, sexy, young woman. But the authors and the writers have forgotten that youth passes very quickly, and there comes a woman, this is the age of Balzac, whose border is very difficult to define.

Yes, and on the covers of magazines, we see only young and beautiful face. This is advertising ... and advertising, as we know, the motor trade. Naturally, not every fifty women Centerfolds figure and breasts. But it has other positive qualities - experience.

Who can say that Sophia Loren, Catherine Deneuve and Elizabeth Taylor - the old woman?

Age does not affect women. There are lots of young, very well-groomed women, and there are young women who have the soul of an old woman.

In the sixties of the last century, women began to fight for their dreams. They tried to prove that a woman forty years - this is not an old woman, she too can look your best. And they have achieved this.

Women fought for their love, love rock and wore miniskirts. They could prove men that are the same as they are. They began to overwhelm the market labor and to shoulder that previously seemed to him not under force. Today, fifty years rarely seen a woman who would have the form of Matrona with crochet hook in hand.

Now no one is surprised by the fact that more mature women want to see next to a young man. A man who has turned to her head. And it does not matter how many years she will be happy with him.

The most important thing is happiness knocked on her door. And where is the guarantee that the boring, balding man of the same age do not throw it and not go to a neighbor downstairs?

And no need to be committed Alla Pugacheva, Larisa Dolina, Demi Moore and Madonna, to the young men were beside you. Girls and young women may be more rugged and hot, but the middle-aged experienced woman has a spark that could catch fire hot flame.

Irina Khakamada in an interview with "Novaya Gazeta" on the issue of women over the age of complexes replied: - I do not familiar with, because I was always in uniform and looked much younger.

This is connected with genetics, and the fact that I worked a lot. But in general, in order not to grow old, it is necessary, first of all, not hysteria, not to make a man to the fact that he is indebted to you. Once a woman says: "I give you all my life. You ruined my whole life," all - an end to it.

Then we need to look in the mirror every morning and say to myself: "I'm the best." We must take care of yourself, create your style, exercise, creativity. At any age, you can start all over again.

The main thing that was a source of energy. There is no age energetic woman. Because she had all the energy in the eyes. A woman, medium and tortured men, and 18 years already looks like an old woman. And then, you know, in the men's psychology, there is such a thing - they fall in love in the image.

And then over the years, if he continues to love a woman, this image remains in his mind. And it has nothing to do with what's going on with your favorite then. Unless a woman, of course, is not dissolved. That is, extra wrinkles on the face of the man she loved would not notice. But if you have an extra 15 kilograms - certainly.

That is, if a woman, she created the image, in the future though somehow supported, it will not get nowhere man. But if the bloom will be walking in a dirty robe and every day say to yourself, "I'm an old woman," then the husband will run away for sure. We create our own reality.