The sea, beach, sun and sex: Love on the beach

Sex and Sun

Boils pituitary excited:

ready for sex, but only protected!

Scientists have unraveled the mystery of origin of passionate but fleeting holiday romance.

We are not to blame, it's the adrenal glands!

Sexologist always wondered why it is sensible, cautious, and even fastidious in ordinary life of man and woman on vacation suddenly go crazy and throw to the winds.

Really only the abundance of beach nudity, relaxed atmosphere and flavor of novelty then forced to mumble in his office venereologist: "I do not know how it happened, just lost his head (a) ..."

Now scientists at the University of Oslo (Norway) found that, it turns out you need to ask questions not sexology and endocrinology. They are for five years studied the effects of ultraviolet rays on the spectrum of the human body (and they are not interested in sex, and the formation of vitamin D, as required northerners).

And then at the same time it opened an interesting detail: the UV rays affect the endocrine glands and stimulate the production of sexual hormones. More precisely, it causes hormonal explosion!

FACT

After 20 minutes of being under the southern sun:

The adrenal glands start to throw large amounts of sex hormones - androgens, which are responsible for sexual arousal in both men and women. And because the female body is initially less androgen, even a slight increase in their sexual desire causes a rush.

The pituitary gland (the gland located in the brain) is a surge of the hormone oxytocin, which sets us on a romantic way and causes a rush of tenderness. And, of course, it increases blood levels of adrenaline (also produced adrenal glands), which pushes us to exploits by reducing the threshold of caution.

Love on the beach; and it would be desirable and it is pricked ...

But how often it happens, our body contradicts himself. After making love on the beach, though nice, but health is not very useful. There are several reasons:

Blood vessels. As a cardiologist told us Tamara OGIEVA, the heat reduces the amount of oxygen in the air, in the blood increases the number of red blood cells (red blood cells), it becomes thicker and increases its coagulation.

Possible risk: at sharp movements intensifies the load on the heart, and in a fit of passion might even break the clot and block the blood vessel. If this vessel will be the pulmonary artery, is not excluded death.

Pressure. During intercourse, the pressure of a healthy person can jump to 10 - 15 mm Hg. Art.

Possible risk: the heat pressure can skaknut up and 20 - 25 mm Hg. Art. And you still need a hypertensive crisis right in passionate embrace? So you want happiness in his personal life - in Tenek crawl.

Sand and water - for sex trouble?

According to the doctor, an infectious disease specialist Sergei GARUSOVA in the sand (even on a nice beach at the hotels) inhabits the mass of microscopic living creatures that can enter the body through the delicate shell.

Possible risk: for example, hookworm - parasitic worms, abundant on the beaches of South America, Africa (including Egypt and Tunisia) and Asian countries. Settle in the human body, they can cause neurological disorders and inflammation. Bring them very difficult.

Yes, and very non-exotic itch mite take a lot of hassle. But just pure sand, hitting the mucous membrane, can arrange long-playing inflammation. Love Joy in the sea water in terms of germs safer - it has a disinfecting effect.

But a woman can not experience the most pleasant sensations: a natural lubricant is washed away, and there is dryness. However, it is a matter of personal preference - someone loves sex in the water. Possible dangers: but the spasms - the issue public. If the muscles will bring in the most crucial moment, will all laugh - and doctors "soon", and those who cause them after your screams.

By the way, not uncommon, so do not be alone with his girlfriend at a great depth, and before you start to caress a little swim to disappear temperature contrast.

BTW

If a condom as something not thought

Mikhail Vasiliev, venereal diseases, Professor:

- You will do very well, if the first two or three hours after unprotected sex using an antiseptic solution - miramistina or chlorhexidine. They are sold in all pharmacies in a convenient package.

Everyone has heard that venbolezni treated with antibiotics and antibacterial drugs, but what exactly may be required in your case - it's just a specialist.

Self will only lead to the fact that the picture of the disease will be lubricated: the problems for you and your doctor more work.

And another thing: folk remedies (herbs, broths, and so on. D.) Venereal diseases are not treated at all.

If you have had a holiday suspicious sexual contact, I advise you not to wait for the arrival of a visit to the doctor.

Before writing down the medication, the doctor will prescribe the study:

If you suspect syphilis and viral STDs (HIV, hepatitis B), the first thing you need to do a detailed analysis of the blood.

For the detection of the pathogen venbolezney need:

- Smear (bacterioscopy);

- Sowing (bacteriological examination);

- In severe cases - PCR (polymerase chain reaction).

However, the use of PCR for the actual allocation of chlamydia and trichomoniasis, gonorrhea, syphilis, especially the analysis of any useful information does not.

33 reasons why the novel was not held

33 reasons why the novel was not held

He called you and appointed date. You spent a wonderful evening at the restaurant. A nice conversation and did not stint compliments. He clearly hinted to you on the continuation of the relationship. You waited. He did not call. Not the next day or in a week, never more ...

Probably every woman in the bank, there is at least one such frustrated romance. And, perhaps, each of us has ever wondered why?

Maybe for one of these reasons.

1. Just relax ...

There is a category of men, for which a date with a woman - a pleasant pastime and a way only. In a serious relationship, they do not expect, and do not expect anything but uncomplicated and easy conversation flirting. If this happens the bed - well, but if not, are not hurt.

These people know very well what they are going, and that can get in the future, and are invited to a meeting to simply relax in your community. Offended by such a person should not be - he gave you everything was going. And the fact that not once said that will not continue, so imagine for a moment, how would it look stupid if I said?

2. Various speed.

Your grandmother inspired - first date should end with a kiss hands, the second - a slight touch of lips to her cheek, and the third is necessary to get acquainted with my mother, and sex is possible only after the wedding ... But he thinks differently! And if after dinner a man busily asks "to you or me," and you jump out of the car on the move, is nothing surprising in the fact that this was the end - no. Let sanctimonious morality.

In a world full of stable and loving couples whose first date ended up in bed. And no it does not have accused each other of immorality. On the other hand, if they do not match your do not need to cross through. But if "fast or slow" for you does not matter, it would be a good man - in control.

Passion captured you whole? Spit on the rules! But if he is indecisive, if his eyes were questioned - whether it is possible, I do not make the first step itself, or Beat all so that he thought that the initiative comes from him.

3. He was scared ... scared ... Just

Men are afraid of much. Strong sense of responsibility, commitment and their absence, your beauty competition for you, you inconsistency, his sexual failure, forgive you, as a super-woman in his life! "It's too much for me! "With these words, many men erase from the memory of your mobile phone really liked them women. If this is the wording suits you, then you can deduct it all their failed romance.

4. You behaved tactlessly ...

He asked where would you like to go, and you called too expensive restaurant. You asked what his car, and he came by taxi. I asked why he divorced his wife, and it was painful to think about it. It expresses an impartial opinion about your mutual friends. He laughed when he could not cope with the chopsticks in the sushi bar.

Behave tactlessly can any of us. Hurt a stranger in short, it is a hundred times easier than a friend. Therefore be alert, control yourself and say nothing better than to climb to the man in the soul, and to impose their views. For a first date only suitable neutral topics.

5. You have talked too much about yourself.

And dorasskazyvalas ... Well, what, please tell me, was he to know that as a child you are ill with mumps, madly afraid of the dentist, your grandmother four times married, your boss a jerk, a friend's affair with a black man, and a cat Muska is about Is interesting to give birth ... poor guy, what do you think about the problem of AIDS and that your first love left you in the middle of the prom? Do you even remember what he told you? Well, except for the fact that the restaurant is closed after five minutes and you have to leave?

6. You are silent, as partisans.

Here he sits in front of you, charming, sexy, subtle jokes, gentle looks, many promises ... and you're lost, embarrassed and do not know what to say. It happens ... If this happened to you once, forgive yourself. If this is your normal behavior on the first date - the trainings of self-confidence and believe, finally, that if a man wants to spend an evening with you it means "a hundred points," you already have!

7. You met "testers".

In principle, such a word in the Russian language there. But, personally, I call a man who comes out on a date, only to test his latest acquaintance on the subject of "why did not you approach."

In principle, all of us tend to test their new friends, but only the type of men will ask you questions: "what color the wallpaper you prefer in the bedroom - black, red or green," and "you vynesesh from home to first during a fire ". Do not look for the right answers. They are not here! The tests he needed to once again make sure - no woman is worthy of such a treasure, as he did.

8. You're too expected to continue.

Man is by nature a hunter, not the prey. Therefore, seeing the traps apart, he prefers to retire earlier than would be entangled, bound and ringed. However, not only prudent hunter can give their intentions on the first date. If you really like this person, and even more so, you had some experience of unsuccessful meetings, then it may very well be the fear of failure is simply written on your face. Try to keep yourself in the hands and apply to the first date philosophically. It is impossible - turn to a psychologist.

9. You violated its border.

For most men, the question of its own borders is one of the priorities in relation to the woman. It would seem meaningless phrase: "You spend so much time at a sporting event? !! "Can light a red light in front of a very promising novel. Breaking the boundaries of possible and non-verbally.

For example, sit too close, whispering something in his ear enveloping moist warm breath, grab his way without asking lighter or start rummaging without the permission of his CDs in the car. The little things that will not be seen, and even pleasant on closer acquaintance, at first can strain and scare. So before you do anything, ask yourself the question - I would like that he's done this to me, with my things ...?

10. You were not interested in him, and he felt it.

Not everyone is able to open up on the first date. And it so happens that cute and clever man hissed through clenched teeth boring, unimportant phrases worried jokes out of place or watch the story delves into the prospects of its business. And you sit and yawn openly. He and so embarrassed that he did not know how to apply, and you still do not aspire to hide it. How long do you think the chances that he will want to repeat it?

11. You spooked him his profession.

What profession male age group of 30 to 40 are considered the most undesirable for their loved ones? According to one of the online survey are: dentists, athletic trainer, head of a large company, and leading police on this list ... psychologist. Note all professions somehow undermine the fragile ego risk of a strong half of mankind. So if you're one of the "undesirable" try not to let out on the first date.