Our love of fantasy

That's how people that he held a dream. And our dreams are not always associated with the beautiful blouse or handbag, traveling on a comfortable liner. Very often, we dream of the simple life and about sex. Our dreams know no borders, especially since the money for the dream of charge. Most people hide the true thoughts and keep them in their

pantry - in the head and heart.

Sexual fantasies - a normal part of our lives. In his fantastic performances we do not terrible, we are not afraid of anything, and all of the difficulties seem to us a trifling matter, which we overcome without any problems and difficulties. Our fantasies of power over everything.

So what is our dream of beautiful ladies?

We invade their secrets and reveal all the secrets. Even the most timid girls dream for some time to become sexy and have a lot of fans. They all pose in his soul, and do not know how to shock men. And as the saying goes: "Dreaming is not bad - not bad dream."

And our timid girl dreams of a bright and beautiful. She is secretly in love with his neighbor, or a fellow student. It is in a panic because they do not know how to make a young man's look at ourselves. Council to ask the mother or girlfriend because of his shyness, she can not, and therefore can only dream of. The timid girl dreams is itself a sort of "slag" is able to carry along and to win a man's heart.

Sex - is a physiological need, it's fun, and notorious girl also wants to realize his dream and be happy. Who it will ban at least in my dreams to get their portion of happiness? She lived this dream and hope that come the hour when her dream to become a reality.

Carried away by dreams and ideas about love, demure in a dream world can not live a year or two. There is a category of women who dream of having sex with two or three men. Next to a woman in her dreams in bed can be two or more representatives of a strong half of mankind. Sometimes it is that meets and makes love in a week with several men.

This developed into a dream scenario, it is itself a sort of sex idol, which men simply "trudge". She wants to be sexually desired, loved. It is, he pressed a pillow to his chest and his eyes closed as provided men admire her talent sovratitelnitsy.

A woman can imagine how I got into the forest and encountered a group of men. After an hour of going on dating sex, which the woman brings spiritual joy.

According to a survey conducted in Europe about group sex dreams of more than 60% of women aged 18 to 45 years. Participants scenes: a woman, the heroine of the play, and the two men. The group sex can be used in various toys: vibrators and falloimetatory.

There is a certain percentage of women romantic - nature lovers. They have sex in his fantasies is engaged on a haystack with a sort of "cowboy", then near the river, in the woods, clinging to a huge tree trunk. For them, the main thing - romance. Their dream - "wild sex." I do not stay aside and fantasy with a friend or a beautiful woman.

Women are also not averse to such love. British psychologist Brett Kahr found that the weak half of humanity is bisexual fantasies more often than men, as the elementary experience sexual curiosity. Modest secret dream to be tied or put handcuffs on his hands.

As such, they are willing to indulge in unbridled passion. Further more common female fantasy - sex with a stranger; Here everything must be beautiful - beautiful linens, handsome stranger, nice words and kisses, twilight, candle.

And according to the survey conducted in Hamburg, 28% of women dream that her husband brought home his friend, and the three of them made love. Some of the women would like to play in the theater in the nude, someone acting in erotic films with the mandatory use of the whip, chains, shackles.

Applicable to a fantasy concept of loyalty? According to the conducted study, only 4% of respondents in their dreams were true partner. Sex with your partner, according to the majority, can not bring the desired sensation.

-Lezha In bed with my husband, I always know how to make love with a strong, tall, manly man. A man who brings me into ecstasy. What a pity that I have this dream. If I would have met in the life of a man who "painted" in their dreams, then plunged into a passion to the head. It is a pity that life is, and dreams remained dreams - said 39-year-old Briton.

Every fourth woman presents itself as a well-known singer and actress. This phenomenon psychologist Brett Kar called "social fantasies." By the way, David Beckham frequently appears in the fantasies of men (51%) than in women's dreams (49%). Far more women do not mind to spend the night with gay Elton John.

For some people, a fantasy - it is an endless source of pleasure, for others - a constant reminder of life's missed opportunities.

If the love boat has crashed against sex

How to explain why the marriage broke up? Often the couple, a couple of years ago, quite happy and contented with each other, and do not understand the true cause. Gen. seized? Love is gone? Did not get along?

However, sexologists believe that the main reason for divorce - sexual incompatibility. What kind of animal is useful to know each couple.

Husband and wife have different attitudes toward sex

It's all about education: if a girl from childhood heard that "all the peasants should be one," it will grow this plant. And if a woman from a young age taught that sex is dirty and shame, this folly firmly settled in her head.

It was thought the same once, in the days of Queen Victoria that English lady does not have to have an orgasm - it is shameful and unworthy! Today thence lady laugh at the suffering of their grandparents, but complexes and prejudices, and lacking in our times.

According to statistics, at least 20 percent of the women flatly refuse from oral sex, but because of those who are still engaged in them third in the heart consider it muck. Needless to say that men are to this occupation quite differently?

Spouses do not fit together physically

Everything is clear: if the wife is too narrow the vagina or the nature of her husband gave impressive penis, sex may be a problem, they say, of a technical nature. However, this type of sexual incompatibility - a rarity: Still nature tried to physically men and women to each other approaches.

Sexologists, for example, insist that penis size does not play a special role in sex - to give to the woman pleasure enough, and 10 centimeters. If they have, of course, skillfully use ...

According to various estimates, because of sexual incompatibility occurs more than 40 percent of divorces. The famous American sexologist Alfred Kinsey believed that the most common cause of divorce (75 percent of cases) - sexual incompatibility.

They are not the same temperament

It is difficult to expect harmony in sex, if the husband wants it five times a week, and that his wife every day, the headache. It is to his wife this way and that, and she dodges and annoying. And it is not even that one of the spouses is suffering from impotence or cold. Both of them can be quite healthy and tenderly into each other in love - just in people of different temperament.

There are other situations. For example, when too demanding sexually wife is "guilty" of the failures of her husband: it happens that doctors call neurosis expectations - all just "fall off" because of fear of men do not handle or look pale during sex. The wife while thinking that she got impotent.

In such traps fall into those pairs that were unfamiliar to the wedding or were not able to verify what the sexual appetites of each other. Even if sex before marriage was the case, it is usually rare and both were welcome. Less often such incompatibility faced wife to march Mendelssohn lived one house at least for a while.

By the way. It is interesting that more women are turning to literature, to solve the sex issues. According to statistics, a book about sex is at 1 in 4 married women and only 15 percent of men. Thus husbands often read them for fun and wife for a practical purpose - they are looking for in their specific problem-solving.

What to do?

It is impossible to perceive the sexual incompatibility of the cross, saying that will be endured - slyubitsya, and if not, such a fate! Chronic dissatisfaction with the (physical or emotional) can result in disease - neurosis, depression in men everything else prostatitis and impotence.

Therefore, discuss the problem with your partner, and the incompatibility may be over.