33 reasons why the novel was not held

12. You did not like his mother.

He led you to her first day?

No comments. Comforted by the fact that you did not originally have a chance.

13. You are not approached him in status.

They say that in Moscow coterie "golden youth" was once a common game with very high stakes. It was called "hook up ..." and instead of dots was the name of a very famous ballerina. The meaning of the game is that the young men were arguing who will be able to charm this month, the steepest in the sense of status, the girl and meet with her for a while.

And if he met you on a rich party, a date, and it figured out what car you ride and who your daddy, then maybe you ran into a player in the same game in Riga. Everything is clear, or to continue to explain?

14. His scared your status.

And sometimes vice versa. Your watch, cell phone, a car and a gold credit card (if you had somewhere to get it) clearly state your companion, with whom he had to deal with. And it is not at all happy. Fearing such a discrepancy, it disappears, although the fact can not be timid. And nothing was pretty. Hence the conclusion - not splurge where it is not needed.

15. You would not let "dust in the eyes", but your inequality still evident.

There is more complicated. We really sometimes do not notice how in our every word and movement through the "application" to a certain lifestyle. And the most insulting, that fur coat mink can be a year three, vacation in the Seychelles paid your firm for ten years of excellent service, and expensive wines you know about, because in his youth worked as a bartender, but ... man, are not poor and not shy, It will provide all this "posture" and excessive demands.

Therefore, a fur coat thrown off his hands carefully, and there is no way, as if you have ten more in closets gathering dust, about the work of the bartender dropped accidentally (especially since it will be interesting to hear), and about Seychelles shut up a second date.

16. Your first meeting was held in the wrong place.

There were holidays. You went into the old Riga, the Italian restaurant was not crowded by noisy tourists in the theater did not have availability in the coffee shop, where you come to get warm, you knocked over a cup of coffee.

Most of the visits you or screaming at each other's ear, or to run somewhere. Ridiculous and absurd. He really did not have time to see you. In this case, you can try the most call him and offer to repeat the experiment in other settings.

17. ... or at the wrong time.

You suffered PMS, and just today he came from Canada, and spent the night in a chair close aircraft. You were angry and tired. Why did you have suffered on this meeting? It is not necessary to meet a man with a dream, if you have a suspicion that it was a poor day. Of course, he's waiting for you to smooth his unpleasant experience.

What if you can not? And then in his mind, and negative memories you will merge into one. Save your Consolazione role in the future. A first date should be born under a lucky star.

18. You're too clever.

Well, yes, a rare woman ready to hide your mind, especially if a man begins to spread about the things that she was "the dog ate." The choice is yours. Can you capture it with your mind, but you can and push.

19. You acknowledge that in a divorce and you have children ...

And he felt that for him it is too difficult. The debate about whether or not to bring down a man on information about children on the first date, conducted continuously. The author's opinion - necessary. The child is too important a part of your life to keep silent about it.

"Your" man it does not alienate, but you do not need random. If you have children, then, as not cool, you choose not only the satellite itself, but also the possible father. So - no shyness. However, it is not necessary to acquaint man with children on their first date. But you do not become?

20. Your outlook on life did not match.

He said the avid camper, and you admitted that the maximum that you can learn on vacation, so it's way from the hotel to the beach. He disliked the national question, and you're a lecture about it read. He loves the old Soviet comedy, and you are crazy about movies Kurasavy. That did not match. Maybe he should not impose their views and ask to bring you into his world?

21. You hinted at too many men in your life.

Men do not like competition. If you have not yet learned this principle, read it again, this phrase is not remembered. Therefore, do not throw out on a first date about a dozen of his friends and even more to offer him the services of his masseur, Automaster and financial adviser, if they are all men. You are guided by the best intentions, but he has imagined to represent you in the hands of the strong muscular masseur, and ... And he does not like it! He decided not to continue ...

22. Do you plan for the future.

"What, you have not been at this club, I not watched this movie, was not at the concert" ... "? Let's go this weekend! "It would seem meaningless phrase and only manifestation of politeness. For you. And he can see in it your desire to plan your time together for life ahead. Therefore, it is not worth to do on a first date.

33 reasons why the novel was not held

23. You killed his sense of humor.

No minutes without jokes. Your sharp tongue, surely your main advantage. It has got everything. Unhurried waiter overdressed girl at the next table, clumsy dog ​​that swam outside. He laughed till you drop. You could win the competition humorists, but the competition for it has lost. Simply, he was afraid that the next target for ridicule will he.

24. It was too curious.

And where do you work? By whom? who are your friends? Nice tie, from whom? What do you like to eat for breakfast? Where did you spend New Year? A barrage of questions! He felt like a hero of a talk show and a little tired to be the center of your attention. It may no longer call. Men do not talkative and even more do not like to dwell on the details.

25. dragged her friend out on a date.

The fact that you are scared, uncomfortable, do not know how to behave, do not justify the situation. Bring your girlfriends even meaningless goodbye - bad taste and thankless task. Even worse, if a friend, you decided to "help" will begin to praise your virtues. Worse - only to come to a meeting in torn pantyhose. Although pantyhose he'll forgive her friend - never.

26. Outstanding currently wrong information.

Trying to him like you - a quiet home girl lied about ten jumps and an expedition into Africa. Why do some say that you are sick of "Skonto". And adores to drive at breakneck speed at night. And he, first of all, know that you are not any parachutist, secondly, looking into your home is a quiet girl. And can not tolerate football.

27. It was too sexy.

You languidly ogle. Erotically stroking long stem glasses. I order dessert with cherries and send those cherries in his mouth imitating Kim Beysendzher of "9 1 \ 2 weeks." And in addition, I volunteered to dance striptease on the club scene. Well done! And now sit and wait until his friend did not need a girl from escort services. Then he may be, will remember you.

28. You're too critical of ourselves.

There are people who criticize myself every minute. "No, you just imagine, three times I went out and came back to the apartment, and yet forgotten cell phone ... Hold me, if the city has at least one pool, it certainly would be my ... Well, of course, I knew, if I want a dish from the menu, so it is sure to end ... "

You think it's very funny and it's really your friends is always fun. But in the eyes of the men with whom you just met, you look helpless and stupid. It is known that self-irony, and criticism is a form of psychological defense. People are usually baffled and embarrassing situation, because neither laugh nor pity you totally inappropriate. So timid souls prefer to simply disappear.

29. Your temperament is not the same.

Would you like to dance, and you keep it quiet conversation. You're ten times talked on the phone with friends, and he turned off the cell phone at the beginning of goodbye. Are you happy sweet as a little child, and he wrinkled his forehead, and counting calories. Or vice versa. One hell - you do not match each other. So maybe a good thing that he did not call?

30. You did not get in his way.

Every man is the image of the woman he loved, for which he was "trying" every potential girlfriend. This can be a female mother and a teenage girl, business woman and cruel bitch. Attention! If he is invited to a meeting just for you, so some coincidence with the way it is. But are you sure that he correctly guessed?

Remember, you are met at the negotiations, where are you - strict and inaccessible in buttoned white blouse and horn-rimmed glasses, icy voice pronouncing his boss about the inadmissibility of delay of at least one day of payment. So why would you put a date romantic lace skirt with a tiny top, put the lens, and now and then giggled stupidly?

31. You're not free.

Inviting you for a date, he did not know that you are married or have a steady boyfriend. Omit the reasons why you went to the meeting. But he would prefer to be the only one you have. What man does not always have an affair off without obligation common misconception. If the man refused to you for that reason, he is worthy of all respect. At least you can feel free to give his phone his unmarried girlfriend.

32. He is not free.

He relied on a flirtation, but seeing your serious eyes sparkling with happiness and hope not to disappoint you prefer. Or, I thought that you, in love and ready to do anything no end of problems. This is a very common reason that married men do not go beyond the first date. They are afraid of you, your feelings, your possible incontinence. Mistress - a difficult role, and not all of it fit. Say thank you, that it happened.

33. Just did not work out.

He lost your business card or a mobile phone was stolen ... The next day he was sent on a business trip, and he was stuck there for half a year ...

You went out for lunch with a colleague who jokingly put his arm around your waist, and at this time the same man drove by car ...

He called, but your phone grabbed mischievous younger sister and "jokingly" told that tomorrow you marry ...

If such stories did not happen very often, it would not be written in a million funny and sad stories and does not compete for hundreds of sitcoms. And it did not happen accidentally meet somewhere in between flights at the airport in Tokyo, Madrid: "You! ?? Where have you gone? So many years ... I was looking for, called, they told me ... Why? ".

When he did not call, we hope in the soul just such a finale. And more often just so happens.

After all, if a man asked you on a date, so light in his heart you still lit!