I want someone else's husband!

To suffer or sin?

Let's look at the part of such a relationship and try to understand - happiness, sin and adultery, what is it? The story of their relationship, I'll tell you after the meeting.

Imagine that you have several years of living in a marriage in which you have, like, everything is there, the house is designed, the children delight husband respects ... - live, but rejoice.

That's only one problem - you tormented for six months due to the fact that are attracted to another man, who also - a foreign husband.

You worked with him in the same building, so Think almost every day. The attraction to it exhausts you at times so that you and the place itself is not it. And sometimes you wake up in the middle of the night from the lovely feeling that just experienced with him in a dream.

But in reality, you say to yourself: "It is a sin!" - Hide your feelings and fight with them. Only in moments of despair pleaded, "Lord Sweda we ever accidentally or take him away from me forever! Do have anything, but hurry!"

Such an expression or a similar situation arose, probably many, no? Once in a lifetime !? Maybe not such a moment was not very clear, staying somewhere in the subconscious. It may, on the contrary, you are all aware, but were afraid to admit "weakness" even to herself ?!

Nothing to hide - attraction between a man and a woman - one of the sensitive issues. Especially if both or one of them - are not free from the bonds of marriage.

In our society, "Sin" and morality - still has not been canceled! It is considered that to give in to this inclination - just promiscuity. For centuries, it condemned such behavior, one of the biblical commandment reads: "Do not commit adultery!"

Furthermore, the Bible says that even mentally covet another man's wife is adultery, and have to say - about someone else's husband! Meanwhile, people greshili always - before and now.

Nowadays, people are becoming more liberal about sex, but by having someone from the closeness of the spouses on the side, as a rule, is condemned. Especially if it is - his wife. For society has always treated women more severely than men, recognizing supposedly genetically mortgaged "polygamous" men.

So, to stay the moral, the answer is one - suffer. And there is no choice. For we have all agreed. Not us. This, in my opinion, terrible harm all the rules, no matter how well-intentioned they may be dictated. The moral - not a dogma.

There is always a choice! And to do it must be every man and woman do, considering all the "pros" and "cons" that are known - only two of them, and can not be provided and taken into account by anyone else. Any broad generalization loses its specific meaning and may not be true in every case.

Therefore, instead of general phrases, I'd share with you a story. Her characters were in just such a situation. Let's look at the part of such a relationship and try to understand - happiness, sin and adultery, what is it? The story of their relationship, I'll tell you after the meeting.

It would be wrong to imagine everything as if he saw the first time, Irina and Sergei immediately felt attracted to each other. Not at all. Irina has just started working in a new place as a manager of a large company. In the same building on the same floor it was firm, where he worked as an engineer for a long time, Igor.

Their first impressions of each other were approximately - Igor was surprised: "Wow! Blonde and look smart!" And Irina thought, "Nice guy, but probably" henpecked ", the latter came to the wedding ring, which she observed , no sane man was not wearing a ...

They met just Igor in a neighbor went in their company to clarify something on drawing up a contract, and Irina helped him. When Irina suddenly something went wrong with the computer, she turned to Igor. So they began to talk at work.

Then, noticing each other in the cafeteria began with dinner, fun conversation. Then they discovered common interests and tastes. They often discussed over coffee favorite movies, books, transmission, shared disks.

Gradually Irina and Igor formed friendships. They talked not only necessary, but also simply because it was nice to chat. And at some point, both felt that love each other as man and woman. The attraction came against their will, and without being subject to reason, becomes irresistible.

But both moral principles did not allow them to get closer. Such communication both considered sinful. Between them there was innuendo and simplicity of the relationship disappeared. Forced to hide their desires, both suffered, tormented, but tried to communicate with ease.

Ended August burned down last summer heat. Many already was done on their holidays, but the mood was still inoperative. Therefore it is not surprising that on the Day of the city on the floor of spontaneously formed youth party ...

Because of all this pre-holiday bustle Irina and Igor had not seen until the evening. Both were in anticipation of something extraordinary. This uncertainty tease the imagination and inspires the imagination.

Shortly after the start of the holiday, the youth of a company that has cut fast music, and the disco. At first, Irina and Igor fun watching from the outside, sometimes discreetly glancing at each other. But then, having given the mood of the youth, they are danced in the general circle, in his student years - incendiary, reckless, fooling around and pulling at "full steam" to modern rhythms. ...

Slow music sounded, turned off the lights. Men and women were divided into pairs. In the dim light of the corridor there was an atmosphere of flirtation, intrigue, mystery. Heart, not the music - were hammered even more and more, Igor quickly went to Irina and her strongly held out his hand: - Yes, you invite? - Yes - do not hesitate and surprise some reason whispered Irina.

As soon as they touched each other in the dance, desire has spread throughout the body and both intoxicated. Possession of which each of them dreamed, it seemed possible. And all around, as if the disappeared, ceased to be significant.

8 male mysteries. Part 3

If you know them - do you know about men are!

And what is interesting, write about almost everything a try to lift the feeling of possible "zastuka" so exciting, that the couple begins a second honeymoon,

which lasts for 2-3 years. I already think that in our difficult financial time, young plants of the second child only after such an adventure in the elevator. About entrances there is nothing good can not be added. This is a place for the homeless and slightly frostbitten young people, because they both squirm at the same time in the same cigarette butts and spitting.

You can not call a romantic place and street shops, basements and attics. It is much nicer to just run around in the bushes, but this what sort of fantasy - our ancestors thousands of years ago came up with this method. So what on earth there are not many places for this activity, here are the people and goes into the water.

This is a classic description of a love of adventure have some river buoy I have read hundreds of times. I actually doubt that this can be done at great depths, she must constantly crawl on the displacer, and all the time he has to crawl after it. Children of this method usually does not start. It is much more convenient to do it at a depth "on the neck."

It just is, and it floats. That is why we must, and often call them fish. Although at this point, they are more like big frogs, which, slightly breathless, and croak something somehow very similar. I think that of the fairy princess with Ivan Tsarevich Frog had premarital sex right on the marsh.

MEN'S SECRET-7

Zhenatiki

... Let's try to understand how and why married men walking. For nearly eight years, I watch as married men write their ads in "Courier" and covered women of letters. About fifty years ago in the Russian vernacular emerged is the exact definition of married men, who have not lost interest in married all other women.

It - zhenatiki and it's a good teaser. Today there are almost no single women who are biased against romance with a married man. It is an old misconception that it is thus possible to break up the family. It is a lonely woman's dignity in a vacuum, because if you will not "break" his family, he will "break" her with another woman.

That's the ugly man's essence, which can fight only one way - to tear it all up by the roots. But with the affairs of men divorced no longer needed even the wife - that's why so few tear. It is necessary to understand at once the most important thing. After all, when a single man gets a permanent mistress, he thereby starts a potential wife.

But when a married man there is a constant lover, he gradually begins to treat her as a second wife. This dual status is living every third man. The inequality of the two women, of course, is obvious. The first is a large part of the male wage, while the second goes to the most delicate part of the male attention.

It legalized bigamy, we have only the fact that every third man - impotent vodka, and every second - an impotent wages. This deficit of sexual and normally provided by men alone reforming Russian family in which every year more and more tolerant of her husband's infidelity and mistresses themselves so accustomed that they no longer feel the inferiority of their precarious situation.

Today's second wife has a very strong hold on to their husbands coming and more safely give birth to children by them. And if the impoverishment of Russians will continue to go well, then we'll live to see another troezhenstva institutionalized state, when the number of wives in a normal Russian will be determined not only sexual desire, but the opportunity to feed two or three families. Let's talk with you about the constant lover (second wives), but the really ugly behavior of some married men.

These restaurants and saunskie explore almost mandatory gonorrhea - for home, family. I do not understand the joy of individual sheep married men who barely Bay vodka eyes were removed on the street young girls. But a drunk and unfamiliar muzzle normal girl will not go anywhere, so spree have to sleep with just anyone. Not to mention the supposedly pure sex companies, of which the girl passed through thousands of unwashed men.

Yes, after the fifth day of this dubious beauty is not a bleach do not wash. It is no longer a girl, but a living rubber woman from a sex shop. That's it from this unrestrained debauchery really suffering family, and if you do a married man and a kiss to the desktop machine or some very young worker, then this will not harm anyone. And the only benefit - even the dust from the machine obotrut.

How through the newspaper married men get acquainted with their future lovers. This is a very difficult act about the same scheme. First married novice wrote in the newspaper first - the most disgusting ads that wants once with two or more kind of stuff. Well, he, of course, no one will answer. Then he wrote the second - a more modest ads, but horny details.

On it he answers something perverse, he meets the woman, frightened, runs away and wrote his third announcement, which was already writing short "for intimate meetings, with or without a place, with a slender or not ...". It was then, he gradually begins to take with women if he tall, no older than 50 years, under 30, and no less than 175.

Only occasionally in the newspaper ads come from bright and gambling lovers that rarely list their manhood, just write some easy liberty - these women simply adore. I always remember the record for most who came to his announcement female letters. And this guy is almost nothing written, only that sits slightly unshaven, slightly rumpled, slightly sad - but without the problems.

He wanted to dispel the sadness more than two hundred women. And how often married men are moving away from their wives and marry his mistress? Judging by your love affairs, very rare. After all, as a rule, a man goes from his first wife, not for another woman, but only for its own sake.

Men in general are doing everything to yourself. Still want to say about age preferences of married men. If up to 25 years zhenatiki walk only with the 16-18-year-old girls, it does not give more than one, then from 26 to 30 years, they have manage to seduce and his contemporaries.

Only after 30 years of married man begins to live with all ages of women, and the peak of sexual adventures accounts for 40 years.