Love or infatuation?

Unfortunately in today's society the divorce rate has increased relative to marriages by almost 25%, and it is only over the past 5 years. Statistics show that in the first six months of going through a stage of addiction and partners more patient with each other's shortcomings,

but after this period has literally for some six months, the family is on the verge of destruction. Blame the wrong interpretation of the feeling which prompted the conclusion of marriage.

How all the same to understand love it or hobby?

So here will be presented 12 key points, considering that you will be able to understand this delicate matter and to find the right answer. For this you need a piece of paper and pencil (pen).

As you read items, notes that the closer to you - a description of the item "hobby" or "love." Remember that you are responsible for yourself and no one checked right or wrong answers will not be!

Item №1. What attracts you most in a partner?

Hobbies: primarily attract external data - large eyes, long hair, beautiful silhouette shapes, etc. These qualities are, of course, very attractive, but appearances can be deceptive because! Imagine how your partner would look like 10 years from now, 20 ... the desire to be with that person left?

Love: for you primarily interested in the moral qualities of the elect, and external data only reinforce feelings.

Item №2. What would attract you in a partner?

Hobbies: most number of positive qualities rather small, but in turn, they can greatly affect you, so let's say you are doing emphasis on radiant smile or sports figure.

Love: like most of the qualities, in spite of the possibility of different opinions and attitudes towards certain situations. This is important, because in the future, soon after the marriage, will take delight in each other, and need to find compromises and common interests, to strengthen their alliance.

Item №3. How did the feelings?

Enthusiasm: a feeling emerged quickly as a flash. It is considered that there is love at first sight, in fact, at first glance, you can only make each other strong impression that will form the basis for future relations and deeper feelings.

Love: a slowly getting to know each other when we can see all the positive and negative aspects of the partner. Usually love arises a year later began a relationship.

Item №4. How much stronger your interest to the partner?

Hobbies: usually a feeling reminiscent of the flash - it is interesting, it is not. This is most likely with different interests and outlooks on life.

Love: a sense of constant and stronger every day.

Paragraph №5. How feelings affect you?

Hobbies: feeling makes you irresponsible and inactive, constantly dreaming of losing touch with reality, think that the main thing - love and do not pay attention to the shortcomings of the partner.

Love: Take the best quality, a desire to become an even better partner to you to be proud of.

Paragraph №6. What is your attitude towards others?

Hobbies: think of your partner - the focus of the entire universe and all the rest does not matter, ready for any actions would only please the "beloved."

Love beloved - one of the most important people in your life, but the relationship with relatives, family and friends remain important as ever, perhaps even improved.

Item №7: What do they say about your relationship the people around?

Hobbies: if your friends or relatives not flatteringly about your partner and you will eventually start to think about the severance of relations, it is likely that the beloved does not have to have any value.

Love: If parents see that you truly love each other, no problems will not be, but instead will receive a blessing for future relations.

Paragraph №8: As you move parting?

Hobbies: after two or three days after leaving you a feeling that you and the other cast of attractive people, located nearby, can quickly replace a loved one.

Love: distance sharpens your senses, you will miss the man, there is a desire to see him soon.

Point №9. How do the arguments on your relationship?

Hobbies: quarrels frequent and commonplace in your relationship, perhaps due to the fact that there are common topics of conversation, and the quarrel - a way to dilute the boredom in a relationship.

Love: quarrels are rare, and as a result strengthen the feelings and attitudes if they negotiate aloud and come to a compromise.

Paragraph №10. How do you feel about your relationship?

Hobbies: often use the pronoun in the speech of the "I", "me", "he", etc. Thinking of you not as one whole, as well as two separate halves.

Love: use the pronoun "we", "our", etc. You think of you as one whole.

Paragraph №11. What are you in a relationship?

Enthusiasm: interest in the other person usually selfish - he earns well, good-looking, and so on, that is, you do to him because it flatters you, raises your prestige, make friends envious.

Love: partner engages you in that it specifically, it represents, not because it helps you to get the approval of others.

Paragraph №12. What is the basis of your senses?

Passion: Are you looking for a man who fully dedicate their lives only to you and your wishes? Care primarily about themselves? Then you just care about what and how much can get from the relationship.

Love: do everything possible to loved was good and comfortable, so he was happy. First of all take care of partner, but not currently.

The first wedding night the newlyweds, the intimate relationship of man and woman

Pretty complex feelings experienced nearly all the newlyweds on the threshold of momentous change in his personal life. All that was before in my life is simple and clear, suddenly turns into a mass of questions. Now the bride and groom a new status as husband and wife, the first experience of intimacy, intimate relationship, men and women, it is important what will be the beginning of the sexual life of the girl for the future.

The new status of husband and wife

What happens next in the new life that begins today, so beautiful - the flowers, the music, congratulations, wedding rings radiance? Until that day, everything that happens in life was as generous gift. It's time to bestow himself: his wife - care, attention; husband - good warmth, femininity, generosity; future children - warm glow of motherhood.

Excessively responsible, even, perhaps, the most important for men and women - the decision to start a new life, bring to light a new man.

Wedding night Honeymoon

People of different nationalities celebrate the birth of a new family of their own way, sticking to traditional rules. It is a kind of ritual, basically remain unchanged, but the addition of time. However, the meaning of the current event one - it's always fun rollicking celebration.

In our country, marriage is first registered in a registry office and then happy couple, their parents and invited guests have fun and celebrate. It does not matter if the guests at the wedding drink alcohol, but this should not come into the marital relationship. As a rule, planning childbirth occurs after the conclusion of the marital relationship. Raise a glass of wine, clink glasses, sip a little drink - and more! This is all that is allowed to make a charge prospective parents.

Intimacy men and women

The bride and groom should spend intimate life in sobriety. Only natural, emotional and physiological reckless desire to merge will make the sexual act of two loving people a real pleasure, happy and joyous event.

If the newlyweds influenced by the feeling of love, caresses and kisses was not only full physiological, and emotional and mental maturation, and sexual intercourse became a need, an intimate relationship will be free, easy, harmonious, pleasant.

The groom usually actively and aggressively seeks to sexual love, but the bride, because of her maiden modesty, experiencing feelings of embarrassment, fear, which can result in some embarrassment.

In such a situation it will tactful, intelligent behavior of the young man. Therefore it is not necessarily on their wedding night to have intercourse. You can admire, caress each other, and the bride becomes his wife a few days later.

Beginning sexual activity in men

Even strong love - not an excuse for unbridled passion and brutality. A man should be considered with the ambiguous mood of women, and the desire - just to get the maximum pleasure - should be able to keep. That is why alcohol intoxication is dangerous in this situation. This reduces the control.

The very act of roughly conducted, can become painful for the woman. But there is another problem: if this happens drunken night conceiving a child, there is no guarantee that he will be born healthy, and any other harm - it is nothing compared with the fruits drunk creativity.

Beginning sexual activity in girls

At first, the family life, two have for each other, study, produced at the same liberties and limitations of intimate relationships, erotic acceptability. From being initiated sexual activity, some women experience with the sensation it depends awakening and development of her sexual feelings. At the beginning of married life it can be obscure and only eventually becomes full and bright.

It was conducted successfully and without conflict first experience of intimacy opens the way to a joyous sexual harmony when the marriage becomes happy and bright.