Love Triangle 2

Love triangle - a complex figure: She OH + + It

Painfully common case: the traditional at our latitudes monogamous family wedged third party. And it is fine for a short period of time.

No, sometimes the relationship lasts for years, decades. Wraps a thin crust of pain all three, it destroys and distorts.

It seems, and no strength to endure, and leave the rut ... there is no way this family dilemma called triangle - not because the three parties, but because three acute angle. The law is. Not geometry - love. Sooner or later it happens. Why is that?

Painted with a ton of white and not much paper erased to the ground thousands of keyboards, hoarse debaters and blown fuses, and the answer is still unknown. Psychologists and psychiatrists, interrupting each other, classify and explain the direction (according to Freud, or, in extreme cases, in Bern) consequences. What for?

The reasons for love triangles are many, many.

Why does a man gets almost a second family? What he lacks in the first?

The first reason: the mistress put on staff. It holdovers from the Soviet era. The roots probably go into our subconscious Asiatic: where the number of wives a man - a measure of its success. Mistress of the state the plant successfully, rich and tired.

Yes, it is usually much younger than the principal wife, often - it is much more beautiful, more often - worshiping someone else's husband. After all, she had seen him only so - polished, proud, confident.

It is not divided in half a packet of biscuits to hungry college years without washing diapers in cold water at a joint hostel kitchen, do not humiliate before the tax authorities and not flattered competitors. She knows him only success. And it is for this and appreciates it. But man will never leave his wife - from the nobility of self-respect, of gratitude.

A mistress, despite all its advantages, will leave as soon as she will be forgotten, and dare to say a word against his wife. Aggravate the situation if the mistress gives birth to the child and to be so clever, do not try to tie this man.

Then the possible attack of generosity on his part: children from his first marriage grew, his first wife, he leaves and adequately provide unexpected raise offspring.

The second reason: the wife sick. Sometimes, a lack of development and education, to conceited and successful attacks star fever. Then begins to pursue the idea that his wife was somehow "looks outdated next to me." And she is not the size of the one and the suit is not in fashion this season, and has his own opinion, and there is no proper reverence in his eyes ...

This case started husband, likely will go to a new woman. But after the revaluation of values ​​will return. This better tear at divorce as sticky. And do not let the back - a more expensive. And the location - right in the sweet feeling of exposure.

Reason Three: fell. Love is like a disease - do not wait, do not want, enhances immunity, and it comes. And nothing can be done here. Remember how good you connects with her husband: memories, children, joint laceration.

He began to have the closest person in the world. And you're ready to deprive him of happiness and love just because it can not overcome the instincts of private property? It is unworthy of a woman. Let him go and try to find their meaning.

Reason Four: sex and nothing more. In some American movie hero once he explained why he could not carry out their sexual fantasies with his wife: "She then those lips kissing my children! ". This - the basis for the emergence of a mistress to "gender" soil.

Also in the piggy bank can be added: the fading attraction and cooled down the marital bed, a thirst for new sensations and the intention to try something new, part of the "migraine" his wife, complexes and delusions.

The situation is unpleasant, because men tend to have sex, "sit down," almost like a drug. And then, after the next orgasm, your husband may just confuse sexual attraction and love.

Reason Five: prolonged accident. Well, sometime, somehow, after something ... In general, there were two loneliness. Like it to anyone and do not need to on a regular basis, but the years pass and the path to the apartment of his mistress for some reason, the grass does not grow.

The reason for the fifth smoothly flows into the cause first. And the consequences may be the same. So better to put out the flames of passion early.

Love triangle

Love triangle - a complex figure: She OH + + OH

Here, dear women, we are constantly talking, that is not true of men, that they are constantly changing, which have mistresses. And we say, are all of a clean home crying into my pillow.

Let's look more closely to its own log in the eye and honestly and openly say: yes, we also change our men.

Women's infidelity always bite and irritate men. Hence, the medieval "chastity belt", and an abundance of guards in harems and treacherous murder izmenschitsa. In the twentieth century sexologists rushed to calm the stronger sex, saying that change, only 26% of women.

But recently I made a sensational discovery of a group of British scientists led by Robin Baker. After studying 5,000 married Englishwomen in age from 30 to 40 years, they found that 11% of children (every ninth child) were not born from a legal father. Insight?

Most unfaithful husbands said their marriage is quite successful, while most unfaithful wives find it unfortunate - this suggests a different attitude towards their own treachery.

Therefore, the causes of a triangle - infidelity, lingering on the year - are different in men and women.

The first reason is love and pigeons.

Most women are looking for adultery feelings and friendship: first they tend to become attached emotionally, not physically. After all, it is no secret that for us, ladies, feeling more important than sex. So, losing feeling in the family nest, many of us become convinced that it is necessary to get that feeling on the side. And this is far from easy.

The protracted affair "with love" on the side able to break the marriage, even if you're not for anything in the world do not want to get divorced.

Firstly, the status of the cuckold husband could survive, but the status of her husband she did not love, which changes with the beloved - is unlikely. So divorce and division of property is provided to you.

Secondly, a man with whom you meet, if you like, for a long time to endure your marriage will not be, and if you do not like - why do you love him?

The second reason: sex, as it is banal.

Yet sex - an important reason, and a good orgasm is to deceive her husband. So says nearly a quarter of all izmenschitsa, and who knows, maybe they're right. About any feelings can be no question ... Until a certain time.

After a while, a woman, meet the physical, psychological satisfaction will begin to look for (not from a big well and anxious love for her husband, she rushed into the change). And, most of all, falls in love with her lover. So that the relationship "sex" is better or not to delay or be prepared for a rush of passion.

Reason Three: manipulation.

  Communication on the side is used exclusively to achieve certain benefits: it can help make a career, make a fortune. For example, a woman sleeps with the boss, for which he received a promotion or a big salary, but she does not see the relationship as a married competition, considering their betrayal of forced payment for career growth. Communication with the boss (a colleague) may last for years and even be older than marriage.

Reason Four: quarreled.

For many reasons quarrel after quarrel - weight cruel desire: to avenge the insult done to spite or just hurt. For example, after learning about the change, pious wife paid in the same coin, and they are stacked with a heart attack in a hospital bed. According to experts in the field of family relations, the stronger sex is experiencing infidelity lawful wives much more painful than the weak.

That is why some of the ladies and give birth to an affair on the side. And what is very convenient: a fight with half - there is an outlet where you can bile on the spouse and pour. And hubby can be compressed: it better, he understands me, he helped me. And just that scare, that "go to him, he appreciates me."

Reason Five: boredom. They say, this did not exist before, and now it's on the loose morals. Of course, much the same - before! At half past five in the morning to get up to replace it, the plant to go - there is no place of debauchery, it is a fact.

Now everything is different: the TV, and tired, and friends - fools and clothes are not encouraging, and wherever only a finger on the globe tkni was, and there is no matter what forces, and there is no desire.

Maybe have a lover? Yes, this extraordinary entertainment will please, but not for long. Then it's back to the usual routine will be delayed. Only instead of a single source of boredom will be two: the family and lover.

So, ladies, betrayal - a difficult thing. The reasons that push it too complicated. And the consequences ... Oh, this and not want to remember.