About the marriage of convenience

Moscow, like many in that sound ... City millionaires as possible here, as temptations. Here like flies on the sweet, flock seekers of easy money ... But I do not know. Remember the movie "Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears"?

Three girls - girlfriends came to conquer the city. One successfully married, the other could not decide, all looking for her prince to the rank of general, and the third - well, unspoiled girl sincerely loved and trusted loved one.

And like its sister television - Just Mary - she became a victim of his credulity. My favorite had wanted to get a wife is not someone as a professor's daughter. Very nice and instructive film. And most important - life.

Even ardent and sincere love is calculation, albeit very small. Calculation of reciprocity. We try to predict whether a marriage strong, faithful. So anyway is always something, and pretends to mind. And it is absolutely correct.

Today, as divorce and adultery, that the hair on the head begin to move. The men in our time-embracing emancipation of women began to appreciate the opposite field dedication, constancy, warmth and comfort, which radiates, unfortunately, not every woman.

There is a special kind of women who for various reasons do not marry for love .

Early marriages rarely happen on the calculation, but later, especially repeat - quite often. Why does a woman do that?

It may be afraid of a hurricane of feelings do not see very significant disadvantages, maybe she had once so burned. Can a woman do not love, this also happens. She just had never had much luck.

Finally, a woman may consciously seek to extract some benefit out of wedlock. For example, it is vital to make a career, and she's looking for a husband a man whose parents or he occupied a high position.

Another option - a woman loves comfort, expensive things, luxury life and sets itself is an end in itself. The easiest way to find a rich, but not very interesting aspect of her husband, from which you can "twist the rope."

I personally think that such a woman for all its outer veneer is very unhappy, in spite of their financial security. That's why they give birth or multiple passing acquaintance or a permanent lover.

Their soul wants to love and be loved, it requires reciprocity. Her husband, they are not capable of love, and often do not even try. So nature punishes women for this type of betrayal. Betrayal of yourself, your sensual I first.

Sometimes a marriage of convenience turns into a love marriage. This is what happens when you find a new husband special qualities that first surprise and delight, and then bewitch. Sometimes love can ignite a counter-love.

It depends on how people shower. People are hard at such reciprocity can not.

Go far for an example is not necessary. The literary character - Scarlett O'Hara, married solely on the calculation, but eventually realized that he loved her late husband - Rhett Butler. However, she realized it was too late.

If any of my readers still decided to enter into a marriage of convenience, let this union develops in the last scenario.

Then you will have everything - love, happiness and material well-being.

Marry rich. Part 2

Among women, it is widely believed that the marriage   - it is a way to solve many problems: loneliness, children, money ... I'm ashamed to say, I think so too. But a psychologist and a lawyer, a family mediator a consultation Labkovsky Mikhail claims it is a profound mistake.

"When people with problems entering into marriage, he did not only not solve, it exacerbates them. And the attempt successfully from a material point of view, to get married, as a rule, does not justify itself.

The woman thinks that leaving a rich, she will share with him not only the throes of creation, but also the earnings themselves, who become family after the wedding. A man thinks differently and usually assigns the content. And it does not mean that its earnings (as, incidentally, provides the law) - they are common property. "

To avoid this situation, to marry a woman would be nice to be initially financially independent. But in Russia this matter, things are much more complicated than in the West. Here, for example, self-satisfied with their situation falls in love with an American millionaire who offers her hand and heart.

American, of course, very happy, but still twenty times think - whether to radically change their way of life, work and social circle. And most importantly - whether she wants it. We have such a situation is virtually impossible, and thought, "Did I do that?" Comes to mind Russian woman after the event. After all, in fact, in such cases takes place, says Labkovsky, the deed of sale.

It does not matter what a man puts money - in furniture or a wife. It requires that the furniture was comfortable and not falling apart, and the wife should be here ... everyone has their own concept of what to do and how to behave perfect wife.

If a woman is by nature an obedient housewife, it is large enough, that it does not let go to work, take care of children and the need to meet her husband a hot meal.

And if it is by its nature in either a married unit does not fit, there is a conflict with a man that it "pays".

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... In 30-year-old Tatiana had a office romance. She worked as a press secretary for a large company engaged in the restaurant business, and at the festival to celebrate the opening of the next kingdom stomach first saw General - owner of the company. The office, he did not favor its appearance, since most of his time in America, where he has three restaurants.

Tatiana has always been his snickering boar and was shocked to see a charming man tightened slightly oriental appearance. She looked at him for a long time, he noted approached, introduced himself and learned who she was thanked for his work. Tatiana worked really well - and thus received. Even myself was able to buy an apartment. In the car, however, was not enough.

However, soon the car she had - every day stood at the entrance, with a personal driver. Tatiana is still at a party, having given charm superiors asked why they, the authorities, so sad. It turned out, my boss's wife died six months ago. Self-pity and a desire to console the beginning-not the rarest of love.

Roman grew rapidly. A few months later Tatiana visited all its villas, swim in the warm seas of half the globe and taste the joys of courtship millionaire. She could not imagine that there are so many beautiful places and gourmet delights: from the costumes, which are sewed for her in the House of Yves Saint Laurent, before the bath, brim full of milk.

And sex! In short, they have all been so good that the wedding has become a completely natural stage of happiness. Tatiana is very far from stupid, and have already visited once married woman found out about her husband's submission fate. Yes, he appreciates her business acumen. No, it is in any case no objection to make it work.

Just maybe not worth it to pursue a career in the same company? And somehow uncomfortable. In the meantime, you can relax a couple of months, to travel with her husband. Tatyana it seemed quite logical.

And the beginning of the trip, the meeting ... "Baby, you is not hard to take notes? Could you help to make the contract?" It took her six months to realize that no one anywhere is not going to let her go. She is very happy with her husband as a free assistant. And it is absolutely not satisfied.

And the endless parties, who adored her husband, she was insanely tired. And she would not live in five different houses, and in one. After the birth of a child to engage in the affairs of her husband Tanya stopped, settled in Moscow - and faced with another problem. She was completely alone.

Her husband appeared at home is rare and quite unable to talk was neither her nor her daughter. Old friends finally disappeared, unable to bear the charity Tatiana (it seemed to her that she should feed and clothe all, once she has a lot of money, but they have few). In short, melancholy green.

But the divorce she, like Nick does not think, though for a different reason: she loves her husband.