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About love and sex, of male and female in vivo
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What a pity that with what was for me
your existence, did not
my existence for you.
... Once again the old waste ground
I run a wire in space
a copper penny, topped with a coat of arms,
in a desperate attempt to magnify
Connection time ... Alas,
Besides, who can not be replaced
the whole world, usually remains
dented twist the phone drive,
as a table at a seance,
as long as the ghost does not answer echo
final buzzer cries in the night.
Joseph Brodsky, 1967
in vivo (Lat.) - personally, live
Due to the high honored me poet Joseph Brodsky for his wonderful sonnet allegory which, I hope, allow the reader to clarify my position on the issue of love and sex. How much noise is created it is now television, radio and film around these eternal themes. Forgotten ancient truths, outdated morals and ethics.
The audience turned to agony permissiveness. Multiply all sorts of diseases, from cancer to sexually transmitted. Sheer raskompleksovannost and the loss of human values and, of course, the personal "I". The woman's body does not remain a mystery and beauty, as the tabloids, magazines and books presented it only as an object of lust.
It is not of interest to the world of women. A similar standard is maintained with regard to the perception of a man a woman. As a result, we all sigh in unison: obmelchali men disappeared women ... Gone love, sex and left a void in the soul, and heaviness in the body ...
Life goes on? ... To doubt let me ...
Reader! My friend!
I do not accidentally chosen as an epigraph sonnet Joseph Brodsky. Read it carefully and hold on the words "... in a desperate attempt to glorify the moment of connection ..." Now listen ... Is sex just sex without love, which you probably admit in his life, was not yet a desperate attempt?
Is it not seemed to you at such moments a combination that here it is - the essence of life, the mystery of mysteries, the height of the heights, the song of the songs? And where flies, floats away everything when ecstasy passed and reality once again back to you? ... What to do? - Empty and undivided feeling, the feeling of loneliness, but perhaps release.
And you, for sure, in some moments, caught the idea that sex is not a set of techniques to achieve pleasure that sexual intercourse intended nature and is himself the most subtle and true understanding of the world - the harmony, if it has a desire to merge the two autonomous "I" into a single, unforgettable feeling - Love!
I once met an apt description of harmony the philosopher Ortega y Gasset: "Only when we" cover "the ecstasy of love and disappears boundary that separates us from the beloved, or rather, when I - that I, and my love, our appearance ... finds true expression of happiness. "
But this type of sexual activity is not available to most people: it is beyond reason and beyond the senses. This - a burst of energy, the dissolution of the universe, which in response sends the cosmic energy flow. Man and woman at a given compound are getting more than they give.
In the absence of love in sex initially present lies - at the level of reason, or at the level of feelings.
Failure to stop the flow of your thoughts, substituting a real partner of the imaginary and the real world - imaginary world, preventing the opening of the energy accumulated in "the rational" partner and mating ends shudder at which energy is irretrievably lost, the new return is not received.
"Sensual" ("Animals") partner, surrendering completely connection gets real satisfaction. After losing power, it becomes sweet sensation, but the unity of two autonomous 'I', he also does not reach, as well as "rational" partner. The body hears a lie at all levels and accumulating it engenders a disease - the most different kind, but, above all, the spirit of the disease. Our genetics, our body does not tolerate lies.
But we do not take seriously, and therefore sex often seek the truth, unfortunately just as in life - only affecting our curiosity. It's easier and easier, like as. Love and sex also requires us to complete penetration into the world of another, which is achieved by the voltage of the soul.
Love does not accept falsehood. Nikolaeva in his interesting book "The Gift" justifies the harm and inadmissibility of change: "Now I understand why you can not" commit adultery. "On the physical level, mixed for a short time very different and unique fields, and therefore strays astral code growing chaos.
Husband and wife, if they live long there, build the same energy, ie, their souls are similar to each other. "They loved each other and died in one day" - that's when I start to understand A. Green ... When you treat people - you are one with it. So you can love and be united? "[63, P.38].
Yes, you can, but only if the identity of the height of the spirit, which Tsvetaeva described in these words:
In a world where everyone hunched and lathered,
I know - I'm one equivalent.
In a world where so many hoschem,
I know - I'm one ravnomoschen.
In a world where everything - Mildew and Ivy,
I know one You - I ravnosusch.
That's when the merger of the two entities - the feminine yin and yang masculinity - leads to harmony and love. However, in this single entity (Harmony, Love) man still put on a woman. Knowledge of the wisdom of nature must serve a guiding light in the building of family relations.
Female! How much nature has invested in you and how much you expect from appointing a man to elevate the spirit, "When the house is difficult, then turning to the woman. When there is pain, it is a woman's hand removes it. When the brain and mind
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