About love and sex, of male and female in vivo

What a pity that with what was for me

your existence, did not

my existence for you.

... Once again the old waste ground

I run a wire in space

a copper penny, topped with a coat of arms,

in a desperate attempt to magnify

Connection time ... Alas,

Besides, who can not be replaced

the whole world, usually remains

dented twist the phone drive,

as a table at a seance,

as long as the ghost does not answer echo

final buzzer cries in the night.

Joseph Brodsky, 1967

in vivo (Lat.) - personally, live

Due to the high honored me poet Joseph Brodsky for his wonderful sonnet allegory which, I hope, allow the reader to clarify my position on the issue of love and sex. How much noise is created it is now television, radio and film around these eternal themes. Forgotten ancient truths, outdated morals and ethics.

The audience turned to agony permissiveness. Multiply all sorts of diseases, from cancer to sexually transmitted. Sheer raskompleksovannost and the loss of human values ​​and, of course, the personal "I". The woman's body does not remain a mystery and beauty, as the tabloids, magazines and books presented it only as an object of lust.

It is not of interest to the world of women. A similar standard is maintained with regard to the perception of a man a woman. As a result, we all sigh in unison: obmelchali men disappeared women ... Gone love, sex and left a void in the soul, and heaviness in the body ...

Life goes on? ... To doubt let me ...

Reader! My friend!

I do not accidentally chosen as an epigraph sonnet Joseph Brodsky. Read it carefully and hold on the words "... in a desperate attempt to glorify the moment of connection ..." Now listen ... Is sex just sex without love, which you probably admit in his life, was not yet a desperate attempt?

Is it not seemed to you at such moments a combination that here it is - the essence of life, the mystery of mysteries, the height of the heights, the song of the songs? And where flies, floats away everything when ecstasy passed and reality once again back to you? ... What to do? - Empty and undivided feeling, the feeling of loneliness, but perhaps release.

And you, for sure, in some moments, caught the idea that sex is not a set of techniques to achieve pleasure that sexual intercourse intended nature and is himself the most subtle and true understanding of the world - the harmony, if it has a desire to merge the two autonomous "I" into a single, unforgettable feeling - Love!

I once met an apt description of harmony the philosopher Ortega y Gasset: "Only when we" cover "the ecstasy of love and disappears boundary that separates us from the beloved, or rather, when I - that I, and my love, our appearance ... finds true expression of happiness. "

But this type of sexual activity is not available to most people: it is beyond reason and beyond the senses. This - a burst of energy, the dissolution of the universe, which in response sends the cosmic energy flow. Man and woman at a given compound are getting more than they give.

In the absence of love in sex initially present lies - at the level of reason, or at the level of feelings.

Failure to stop the flow of your thoughts, substituting a real partner of the imaginary and the real world - imaginary world, preventing the opening of the energy accumulated in "the rational" partner and mating ends shudder at which energy is irretrievably lost, the new return is not received.

"Sensual" ("Animals") partner, surrendering completely connection gets real satisfaction. After losing power, it becomes sweet sensation, but the unity of two autonomous 'I', he also does not reach, as well as "rational" partner. The body hears a lie at all levels and accumulating it engenders a disease - the most different kind, but, above all, the spirit of the disease. Our genetics, our body does not tolerate lies.

But we do not take seriously, and therefore sex often seek the truth, unfortunately just as in life - only affecting our curiosity. It's easier and easier, like as. Love and sex also requires us to complete penetration into the world of another, which is achieved by the voltage of the soul.

Love does not accept falsehood. Nikolaeva in his interesting book "The Gift" justifies the harm and inadmissibility of change: "Now I understand why you can not" commit adultery. "On the physical level, mixed for a short time very different and unique fields, and therefore strays astral code growing chaos.

Husband and wife, if they live long there, build the same energy, ie, their souls are similar to each other. "They loved each other and died in one day" - that's when I start to understand A. Green ... When you treat people - you are one with it. So you can love and be united? "[63, P.38].

Yes, you can, but only if the identity of the height of the spirit, which Tsvetaeva described in these words:

In a world where everyone hunched and lathered,

I know - I'm one equivalent.

In a world where so many hoschem,

I know - I'm one ravnomoschen.

In a world where everything - Mildew and Ivy,

I know one You - I ravnosusch.

That's when the merger of the two entities - the feminine yin and yang masculinity - leads to harmony and love. However, in this single entity (Harmony, Love) man still put on a woman. Knowledge of the wisdom of nature must serve a guiding light in the building of family relations.

Female! How much nature has invested in you and how much you expect from appointing a man to elevate the spirit, "When the house is difficult, then turning to the woman. When there is pain, it is a woman's hand removes it. When the brain and mind

Health as a vigilant consciousness

A complex problem - to philosophize about the man, his life and values. But this does not mean that you will not see the approaches to its solution ...

Some philosophers believe that human life revolves around the three great "dominant" - death, food and money. Others claim that the most important thing for a man - and the spirit of creativity, then - health and only in third place - wealth.

Leo Tolstoy wrote: "Once again, thank you for your good location and I wish you all the best: a spiritual life in which you do not even desire and happiness, and health," [111]. L. Ron Hubbard is of the view that the purpose of all life is infinite survival [96].

Man, as a life form in all actions subject to the sole command, "Survive!" Methods of survival are reduced to nutrition security (defense and attack) and reproduction. Moreover, no one survives alone.

Even Mahogany - "Sequoia," is very high and spreading trees, in the shade of which can not normally be no other trees. Although it seems that it achieves huge success, existing alone, in fact, it depends on other organisms, and they depend on it. Man, like the redwoods must be in affinity with other people in order to survive.

The term "affinity" refers to the force of attraction between two people or between human beings and other living organisms ... In the spirit of affinity formulate one definition of health, which caught my attention: "Health - is the ability to live in harmony with yourself and the world around them." The preamble of the Constitution of the World Health Organization defines health as "a state of complete physical, mental and social well being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity ...

The term "health of the individual," ... it is impossible to determine with sufficient accuracy, since it is associated with a great breadth of oscillation most important indicators of human activity, the state of the adaptive capacity of the organism. Although health is the opposite of the disease, it may be due to her state of so-called pre-disease, when the disease yet, but protective and adaptive body's overstretched or severely weakened and harmful factors, which in normal circumstances would not cause disease, can it cause.

In addition, the state of health does not exclude the presence in the body has not yet manifested pathogenic beginning, fluctuations in the state of health of the person or certain deviations from what is considered as a physiological norm. Thus, developing with age in all people atherosclerotic changes of blood vessels are certainly pathological process, however a person's health can not be violated if these changes are expressed slightly.

In this regard, there was the concept of "practically healthy person": this implies that observed in the body, some deviations from the norm, not substantially affecting the well-being and human health, can not yet be regarded as a disease. However, the absence of visible signs of ill health are not yet indicative of overall health because the disease, for example, in the hidden (latent) period, may not have external manifestations.

Thus, the state of health can be established on the basis of personal (subjective) experiences a specific person together with the data of the clinical examination, taking into account gender, age, and social, climatic, geographical and meteorological conditions in which lives or is temporarily people.

For example, the health of the people is absolutely plain, hitting high in the mountains, some time will feel bad, until the whole body does not adapt to low oxygen in the inspired air and low atmospheric pressure, common to the highlands. In the period of adaptation person may feel unwell and adaptability of the organism may be overstretched, but his health is not usually broken "[112 S.220-221].

Dictionary of Russian language offers two options for the definition of health:

"1. The right, normal activities of the body, his complete physical and mental well-being.

2. The condition of the body or other "[113, p.232].

An interesting interpretation of health as a sustainable balance of spirit and body, this famous Dr. Papus:

"In humans, body and spirit are two substances of the opposite nature, is an intermediate link (life, the plastic mediator, the astral body) connects these two opposites in a balanced whole - a living organism.

That's what defines his balance and stability is what we call health both physical and mental. In addition to the balance of the spirit with the body, which had just dealt with in a healthy organism must be in equilibrium all the centers and their manifestations (instincts, feelings, thoughts) "[114, p.49].

Also known as the wording of the health of the functional state of the human body, providing longevity, physiological and mental fitness, well-being and reproductive function of healthy offspring [28, C.5]. The above definition of "health" fix health outcomes, superficial grasp his side: the state, welfare activities, a stable equilibrium. But they do not call immanent feature a mechanism that leads to health (one might even say - gives health) do not reflect how it is achieved.

The human body - sverhdinamicheskaya system, in which the high-speed changes every second. And so it was healthy life in every second, obviously must be a mechanism that tracking these changes could correct undesirable deviations. That "mechanism" is an expanded consciousness, capable of infinite focus.

Then health can be defined as the vigilance of consciousness, its readiness to respond immediately to any interference. Of course, we are talking about the mind, free from the bustle and chaos of the mental, vital and physical - conscious befallen the silence of the mind, peace in the soul and stiffness in the body. The disease also will be a lack of awareness.

The disease occurs when the mind begins to notice (to accept) its existence. "It's not the body is sick, it is weakening consciousness ... If the seeker is conscious, he can live in the center of the epidemic, to drink all the filth of the Ganges, if he so desire, nothing touches it .. When we cleaned, transparent, no viruses in the world will not be able to do anything with us, because our inner strength of their powerful forces, or in other words, because the intensity of the vibration of our being is so great that no lower vibrations can not penetrate us "[79 S.111-112] .

Paying tribute to the diagnosis, we should not forget about its relativity: any appliances (whether hand, eye doctor or ultrasound machines, etc.) Only allow to get the imprint (even in motion, but the imprint!) Of the organism "patient" at a time . Make the diagnosis, the doctor crystallizes disease, and specifies its aggravating circumstances. Given the same hypnotic power over his physical mind of the patient, given to them in pursuance of a sentence of diagnosis of disease clogs the mind (and body) "patient" in the iron shell for many years, if not forever ...

But in the body, "patient", as well as in the entire universe, everything flows, everything changes ... It is no coincidence often "sick" perplexed yesterday was a specialist-iridodiagnosta and identified at some diseases, but today other iridodiagnost found that those diseases, but there are others. A third expert, it is possible to say that nothing like this - "sick" ... quite well! ...

All this is not surprising, to note that the survey "patient" were conducted at different times. The body does not always sick ... Even the most neglected body knows the ups consciousness, enlightenment and joy of life perception. Do not turn off to him all sorts of names of diseases is necessary, and nurture the growth of the shaken spirit extinct consciousness, which we hardly see our doctors today. How many transactions need no longer be if doctors were attentive to the individual "sick"!

How often, going to the doctor's office, we are experiencing an animal fear, or feel a wall, fence off it from us ... This division is not conducive to the spirit of take-off, but on the contrary, it degrades. If there was a device that would allow to see our aura, we could see that it represents at this moment the crumpled flower ...

But if all the same, in spite of the disease, we are somewhere hear (deep in himself, in met us on the way humans or in the environment) bell Teplyaev not yet extinct desire to recover, you can be sure that everything will be in order: doctor will be satisfied - he cured a disease! ...

In everyday life, we do not give a report that his irritation, fatigue, laziness and fears, thoughts and actions create our own or another illness (and then asked, "Where did they come from?") And, even more so, define the nature of his own death .

And we should know that the stimulation produced poison called Empire, it is deposited on the walls of nerve channels and thus spread throughout the body. In addition, imperil exhaled by irritated people, operates at far distances and can affect the subtle bodies of other people, Originating in their physical ailments ...

But people usually do not bother to notice his irritation. If this irritation any notices and requests to calm down, they proudly exclaim: "And we are! You have not redo!" Suffer from the empire may be advisable (for his own use) to avoid the saturated effects of quarrels and all