How to cope with irritability

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How to cope with irritability
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We go out of ourselves for coffee and lack of air

And why do we always quarrel over trifles ... Perhaps something in the atmosphere soars.

Most unexpected causes irritability [test]

Rips on trifles, growl and rush to close? It turns out that the basis of this behavior may not only be harmful nature, but also the most unexpected things - from contraceptives to smoked sausage ...

Character or illness?

There are people for whom irritability - an innate property of the person. But they are few - no more than one percent of the population.

In other cases, it is a sign of some health problems.

The reason may be:

chronic pain or discomfort (in diseases of the joints, kidneys, exacerbation of chronic cystitis, prostatitis, inflammation of the ovaries);

exhaustion of the nervous system with fatigue, depression, epilepsy; posttraumatic reactions (ie protracted experience after some heavy events);

30% of the blame for the "syndrome of the inner burnout." With him on the background of stress, a sense of "assembly line" of life weaken psychological defense mechanisms, and the person gradually loses control of his emotions.

It makes a person irritable patient thyroid. Specialists in psychosomatic point out that the lack of her hormones - hypothyroidism - is a tearful weakness and excess - hyperthyroidism - irritability, aggressive notes.

Irritability with a depressive tone, mood swings produce disease connected with infringement of production of sex hormones, such as uterine fibroids, breast.

Men adenoma and congestive prostatitis often accompanied by aggression, anger and depression.

Heart problems, asthma often cause anxiety, fears, general anxiety. So do not be surprised if the psychologist, after listening to your family problems and wishes of relatives to buy you a muzzle, will direct you to be examined by a cardiologist or endocrinologist.

When analginum becomes "ozverin"

Remember, in a cartoon about Leopold good kotyara, swallowing "ozverina" suddenly lost tolerance to mice?

Well, and "the truth" some drugs can produce side effects in the form of irritability.

These include:

heart - nitroglycerin, verapamil, isosorbide and derivatives thereof; hormones - corticosteroids (prednisone, hydrocortisone) and estrogens, which are part of contraceptive drugs and hormone replacement therapy during menopause;

pressure - captopril (Capoten), metoprolol, nifedipine;

NSAIDs - diclofenac (Voltaren), ibuprofen, indomethacin, naproxen.

If you feel the connection between the start of medication and the appearance of irritability, it is necessary to tell your doctor.

IMPORTANT!

To cope with increased irritability, need a comprehensive approach:

a change of scenery or activity;

active, most different from everyday life;

an increase of physical activity (they also serve as a moral unloading);

normalization of sleep;

psychotherapy aimed at correcting the behavior, the construction of psychological protection and reducing aggression;

drugs, sedatives, relieves anxiety and resulting in the order of the autonomic nervous system;

development of techniques for relaxation, good as qigong, martial arts and yoga.

Paradoxically, the headache itself makes a person irritable, but the more you swallow painkillers, the greater the risk that they will cause new tantrums.

With frequent use of analgesics inhibit the body's production of "happiness hormones" - endorphins and enkephalins, - because of what man becomes more difficult to contain negative emotions.

I do not own after coffee and sausage ...

Powerful stimuli can become the most familiar products. One such - coffee. The alkaloid caffeine stimulates the nervous system. And if we decide in the fevered state of "calm down" some coffee, you can get the opposite effect.

Irritability often provokes a food additive - sodium glutamate. It is added to enhance flavor in bouillon cubes, soups and condiments. Some people are prone to food allergies, become irritable ... of sausage.

Sausages, smoked meats contain nitrite, which gives them a nice pink color (after all, simply cooked meat unattractive shade of gray). Nitrite in sensitive people can cause headaches and dysphoria (irritable, moody mood).

Team: the air!

At the office all the flies upside down? Maybe you just do not have enough oxygen.

Noticed this: come to work in good spirits, the day is normal, with no one to quarrel, and after a few hours you as a substitute - the mood is spoiled, I want to someone to snap, and colleagues around do not seem so nice. And the cause is not your bad temper, and "banal" hypoxia, that is the lack of oxygen in the air with an excess of carbon dioxide.

Office syndrome. By the way, the higher are your apartment and office, the less oxygen in the air. It is believed that hypoxic manifestations constantly observed those who live and work above the sixth floor of the standard.


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How to get rid of the inferiority complex

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One of the most common systems is shyness that prevents us to behave with ease in communicating with other people. Shyness is based on our internal sense of discomfort,

caused by a particular feature of our nature, more often - far-fetched.

The manifestation of shyness means that some of his characteristics, we do not tend to take entirely, and it makes us to believe that perceive and surrounding them with the same finality.

And it is also only a flimsy performance. When we are in harmony, we feel quite comfortable and interacting with other people. Many will be found, and friends, in an interview with whom we feel looseness and informality.

But we at the same time remain: all the same, the same, not changing during the transition to dialogue with others. What is it that is changing?

Only our self-image!

So stop paying attention to their flimsy inferiority complexes; Treat yourself to peace and quiet in the soul, which in turn will give you a looseness and fun when dealing with anyone!

Now look at yourself as a little girl sitting on a chair next to you. Look at her features. What does she look like? What shall we wear? What are her shoes? We feel at the sight of this child?

Overwhelms you emotions can range from feelings of deep sympathy to outright hostility or resentment about the inherent traits of this child. In any case, all this is quite a natural reaction.

But let's try to look at things differently. Try to understand their feelings towards the girl.

Now imagine that this child depends on your life. The girl is too young to be aware of the impression produced on the others.

It is possible some traits of her character really deserve our disapproval, but ... it is still a nice kid, is not it? And that is what we initially attacked at her? ... Come on, podzovite to his girl.

Tell her the words that were so important to hear from you. In the end, it is not such a bad kid.

All that is good in your life, it has become possible only thanks to her efforts.

She did a great job and deserves to make you proud of it. Tell her that you love her and never left alone.

Take her up and push themselves to the stronger. Let her into your heart. Let it always be with you.

The knowledge that this child - you are, is still the same tiny, defenseless baby who continues to live in your heart, sometimes allow her to speak, to communicate.

Take her to the beach, let her do what she could not do when you were little, thereby to experience a lot of good feelings and experiences, cherishing his "self-child" with the tenderness, which it no one but you not be able to donate. Buy her a balloon!

Follow her most cherished desire - and you will see what your needs are an adult will also be largely met.

I hope that old helped you realize that the most important person in your life - is you.

And how many more new and nice things for yourself you will discover that you will like the idea that you - delicious!

... You can only heartily envy!





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