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Confidence - it is one of the key elements to achieve the desired goals in life. In turn, when you achieve what you want, you feel more confident and feel even more confidence.
It is a process that begins with the awareness of self. And often, when people are just beginning to any business, they do not feel confident, and this can cause difficulties.
Because when you do not feel confident in yourself, others easily break you the slightest criticism in your address or the fact that you are doing. Then, without a strong self-confidence, you can easily start to agree with them, and to give his views instead of objectively consider any criticism as an opinion about your behavior, not as a criticism of you personally.
The advantage of an objective view of things is that you can turn any criticism of the ability to change and grow, if you consider fair criticism, or not pay attention to it as to the statement with which you disagree, if you think the criticism unfair. When you do not have an inner sense of self-esteem, you will also find yourself a prisoner of perception you other people, and you can easily allow you to suppress those views.
In turn, this can cause many negative effects, for example, you will not get what you want to achieve at work. Then, too, if you do not feel confident in their merits, you will evaluate yourself below and will also receive less money, less profit, less prestige, less power, least of all anything in all spheres of life.
Conversely, when you direct your mind the possibility of force to build self-confidence and self-esteem, you'll not only feel better, but also much more likely to get what you want.
You will achieve this, you'll feel like you deserve it, and other people also agree. You will pass your position such thoughts, and when other people will catch your thoughts, they will have no choice but to agree.
HOW TO CHANGE YOUR IMAGE IN ORDER TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
I know many people who have been able to radically change his life and succeed in their chosen careers, starting with a change of position. At first they felt insecure, but gained confidence.
By concentrating on their good qualities, they are mentally seen that they have achieved success, prosperity and recognition by others of their efforts and achievements. The reason for the effectiveness of this approach is that if you believe in his greatness - you are great!
And above all, you should start with this faith, because this faith helps you to gain practical experience confirms this belief. For example, if you are confident that you will get a specific job or a promotion, you will radiate an aura of confidence and act as if you have the job, and then people will represent you in this role.
In addition, having this faith, you will be convinced that you can do all that is required, and you can do it. And soon you will discover that you have this job because you create a reality that reflects your belief.
Of course, external circumstances, and the opportunity to be successful in the right place at the right time can help you gain confidence in yourself. But if you lack this inner sense of self-confidence, any luck and favorable circumstances will not give you that feeling of their own strength, which you need to make the necessary circumstances to make you turn.
Think of the many people who received a promotion at work in the new position. They then discovered that they can not bear the additional responsibility. In fact, the following principle is valid, and it is that people are promoted as long as they do not reach the level at which they are incompetent.
However, the reasons for this principle of operation - it's old position, which some transferred to a new position. Consciously or unconsciously, they still see themselves in their old role, and they do not feel this confidence, to raise the level of the functions performed. They think they do not deserve a promotion, they are not worthy, and so on. D.
As a result, they are, after all, are untenable, and can be lowered to the position in which they feel relaxed. Conversely, when you feel an inner confidence, you think, 'I can do it, no matter how difficult it may appear "and you are ready to assume new tasks, responsibilities and ready to grow.
Do you believe that you can do it, so you can do it. Thus, everything is based on faith. You must believe that you have the power to achieve the desired success, then this faith will give you strength that you need to do this, as described in the following examples. As Svetlana translate their dreams into reality.
Svetlana worked as a secretary, although it is and depressing. She had a lot of creative ideas and a strong desire for freedom, but she was afraid to act. What she really wanted was to organize the business of designing clothes. But she kept thinking about the many obstacles that stand in its way - that she did not have enough money, no experience and did not have the equipment and staff to start.
All her thoughts on the obstacles were caused by the fear that it does not have the ability to do what she wants. Thus, for several years she continued to work as a secretary, but she felt dissatisfied and constantly harassed her desire to quit work.
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