How to make the right decision in a difficult situation

There is no person who has never in his life had to make an important decision. Sometimes it is a good decision it turned out, and life changed for the better. Sometimes the selection rushil all plans and led to further complicate a difficult situation, for "razrulivaniya" which is an important decision and accept.

How not to be mistaken? How not to "commit follies" and take the same, the only correct decision in difficult and complex situations in business or in your personal life?

How can you learn to make the right decisions in life

The first thing to do - take the time (of course, if the situation allows)

There is a good old saying "sleep on it" Some understand it literally, absolutely right considering that the bad news you need to sleep, that is, to endure the night and in the morning with a fresh mind is still a good time to weigh and consider. Somehow it turns out that in the morning light any trouble, any difficulty do not seem so terrible as at the end of the day.

But this wise saying you can understand and in a figurative sense - namely, to make important decisions need to give yourself time. So it is not "chop off the shoulder," not "blow up bridges" and remember, that haste is needed in many situations, but not in this.

The second rule is to play in the mind of different options

Usually before making important decisions in mind there are several options for further developments. Therefore, the second rule is thorough, down to the smallest detail in mind, play options, as well as what happens after you have made the choice, to estimate the material and moral costs, compare them with the expected benefits to take into account all of its allies and potential enemies and so on.

Of course, in reality, something can go wrong, but this approach will significantly reduce the risk of failure.

The third rule complements the second.

It involves an awareness. What does it mean? Before taking certain decisions, for example on business, you need to thoroughly examine all that relates to the area in which the decision is taken. Here you can explore the information on the internet, ask around "experienced", ask the news media offered.

You can also contact the experts (not fortune-tellers!) Involved in business development. It is better to invest in information than in the case of losing the invested funds. So much for the right decisions in business.

But when taking important decisions in other spheres of human life need to do so, that is, try to find out everything possible about the subject of your thinking, and then make a choice. Sources of information may be different, but they must be genuine.

The fourth rule helps to make the right decision and is in the field of esotericism.

Someone spits on them, while others religiously observed. This is a landmark tips that are sure to have in any case, but that not everyone is able to understand correctly. It may be prophetic dreams, premonitions, in some cases, predictions. Believe it or not, everyone chooses, but sometimes they are an invaluable aid in making decisions.

There is another old, a little frivolous, but still worthwhile esoteric method.

However, it is better not to use global solutions, and the most that neither is home. For example, you go to an important rendezvous, which could result in you getting a good job. Think about it mentally and roll 2 regular dice, called "bones"

If both fell to the same number of points, the rendezvous will likely take place successfully. If not the same, throw again. The more attempts, the more you stand by your success. When you learn to feel good energy environment around you, and your cast of the bones and is the result of this connection, it will be possible to use this method, and in more serious situations, in business or in your personal life.

But even in domestic matters some, this method starts to work immediately. It depends not on the bone and not on the nature of the process and of the characteristics of individual energy of each of us.

And finally, the last rule.

It is what you need before making a decision to think, how to behave and what to do in case of failure. If you will know that there is nothing irreparable, then it will be easier to make a decision.

And to make it easier to transfer failed, you can remember about the losses you might incur, choose another solution. Since they did not happen, then your decision was not so bad. Not for nothing do they say: "Everything that happens - for the better."

How to determine - whether or not you are a shopaholic

Shopogolizm epidemic in the world - the advantage of the female population of the planet.

Agree, not every man passed showcases fashion boutiques, will wipe the drool from his chin, if he sees there couture chic shirt or pants fashion at discounted prices.

But women are more prone to this state of trance, when you forget about everything for a single Louis Vuitton handbag, say psychologists.

It seems that 100% of the fair sex in the world - shopaholic, but for some reason, researchers do not agree. Please note that today, even school teenagers tend to dress like the stars of Hollywood.

On the one hand, it is certainly not bad. If the girls develop a sense of style, which is skillfully combined with a reasonable estimate of the cost and quality - this is perfect.

But if an early age young beauty instead require game rooms and amusement leads to shows pretaporte - safely prepared for the fact that when she grows up, she will spend more than earn.

Psychologists have come to the conclusion that the extremes in regards to clothes and brands, there are women for several reasons: if at the tender age baby often denied purchases most beautiful dresses on the grounds of lack of money, and if, on the contrary, encourage the pursuit of Princess buy her everything to show that the little finger.

"Golden mean" in this case, almost did not suffer, and therefore those who are in this category shopogolizm not threatened.

Painful love shopping

How, though the difference between a pathological addiction to shopping and the common desire to treat yourself to new clothes for the holiday?

Experts have identified several states experienced a shopaholic.

First, even the unnecessary purchase of a lady becomes the meaning of life. One hundred and first shirt of the same style and color for the shopaholic is "dose" as a drug addict.

About money magazinozavisimye think rare, especially about what to eat for the next month, if you spend all the money for the purchase of another fashion. Assents and encourage shoppers credit card debts which have accrued over the years then.

Shop maniac stress is removed only in the trendy boutique, friend and advisor they do not need. And depression in these women over the years begins to emerge from the fact that there is no money on yet another pair of shoes.

Another sign of a painful love for shopping, experts say - this is when the house has not unpacked bags with new things.

But if you make a nice gift, at least once a month, allowing the highlight of the family budget a small amount on a new dress for the holiday - this is normal, calm psychologists.

And it is natural, if you are from the heart will rejoice on this occasion. Although, if the financial opportunities allow you to make purchases more frequently, but this, too, there is nothing reprehensible.

The main thing that you bought things were really needed, and do not lie on the shelves of cabinets for years.

How to determine - whether or not you are a shopaholic

Shopogolizm epidemic in the world - the advantage of the female population of the planet.

Agree, not every man passed showcases fashion boutiques, will wipe the drool from his chin, if he sees there couture chic shirt or pants fashion at discounted prices.

But women are more prone to this state of trance, when you forget about everything for a single Louis Vuitton handbag, say psychologists.

It seems that 100% of the fair sex in the world - shopaholic, but for some reason, researchers do not agree. Please note that today, even school teenagers tend to dress like the stars of Hollywood.

On the one hand, it is certainly not bad. If the girls develop a sense of style, which is skillfully combined with a reasonable estimate of the cost and quality - this is perfect.

But if an early age young beauty instead require game rooms and amusement leads to shows pretaporte - safely prepared for the fact that when she grows up, she will spend more than earn.

Psychologists have come to the conclusion that the extremes in regards to clothes and brands, there are women for several reasons: if at the tender age baby often denied purchases most beautiful dresses on the grounds of lack of money, and if, on the contrary, encourage the pursuit of Princess buy her everything to show that the little finger.

"Golden mean" in this case, almost did not suffer, and therefore those who are in this category shopogolizm not threatened.

Painful love shopping

How, though the difference between a pathological addiction to shopping and the common desire to treat yourself to new clothes for the holiday?

Experts have identified several states experienced a shopaholic.

First, even the unnecessary purchase of a lady becomes the meaning of life. One hundred and first shirt of the same style and color for the shopaholic is "dose" as a drug addict.

About money magazinozavisimye think rare, especially about what to eat for the next month, if you spend all the money for the purchase of another fashion. Assents and encourage shoppers credit card debts which have accrued over the years then.

Shop maniac stress is removed only in the trendy boutique, friend and advisor they do not need. And depression in these women over the years begins to emerge from the fact that there is no money on yet another pair of shoes.

Another sign of a painful love for shopping, experts say - this is when the house has not unpacked bags with new things.

But if you make a nice gift, at least once a month, allowing the highlight of the family budget a small amount on a new dress for the holiday - this is normal, calm psychologists.

And it is natural, if you are from the heart will rejoice on this occasion. Although, if the financial opportunities allow you to make purchases more frequently, but this, too, there is nothing reprehensible.

The main thing that you bought things were really needed, and do not lie on the shelves of cabinets for years.