Love - a feeling which every girl dreams of. Any wants a relationship in which she is, they were happy and long. But not always desires become reality ...
Search on the internet through social networks in the world today are popular. C she met a guy who was 5 years older than her, corresponded with him for a long time, he was trying to arrange a meeting there. Soon she gave up and agreed.
They met in a cafe, sat, nice chat, he walked her home. Within a month, the guy took her to restaurants and cafes, gave flowers and cute little gifts.
After two months of walking, he invited her to meet. She agreed because the guy was an adult, serious, and what must be confessed provided.
New Year's holidays are celebrated together: salads, baked chicken, like all other people. The guy helped the girl in the kitchen, tried his best. In the morning he gave the girl a diamond ring.
Everything was fine, even perfect. He suffered all her tricks, suffered her friends. She would come to him at three o'clock in the night and require fry cutlets and fried it. He listened to her advice and requests. In the summer they were going to go on a trip abroad. However, the girl with him was difficult, too right, and it was boring.
During this time she worked in a coffee shop, where he worked as a security guard cute boy. He was a bit younger than her, Bezbashenny and cheerful. They began to chat.
The girl was attracted to this cheerful lad, who could tell an anecdote, to cheer her in difficult times. When she had to choose the phone, he agreed to help her, and spent half the time on it. Everything in the cafe were jealous of their fun.
She could not communicate with the two guys at the same time and make a choice. She cast a serious and long-term guy for fun ...
With him they had met 3 years. As many as 3, she put up with him partying with friends, drinking, he could not write for two or three days. She has regretted that has made such a rash act.
3 years later, she broke down and all the pain he had caused her, pulled out ... They quarreled much ... He was not going to make excuses or to ask for forgiveness ...
She was tired of waiting for the moment when it come to its senses and realize that in this world there are things more important pyanok with friends, cars or clubs ... They parted ...
A month passed, the girl had calmed down and began to live a new life, a life without him, when he showed up on her doorstep. He said he thought it over, though, and came to the conclusion that it is the best thing that could happen to him.
His main excuse was that he needed time to think and reflect on all the ...
It took him a month, a month !!! This time he spent on booze, partying, and, of course, on the other girls ... A month later, he decided to go back and walk up ... What is a girl like that?
She said it was all over and stir up the past do not need to. She realized that it is not worth wasting your time on a guy who does not appreciate it, and does not fight for her ...
No need for a moment of fun to throw the one who is ready for a man for all ...
My love story with a ten-year delay
More back in November 2003 (being a chubby, curly-klassnitsa 11), I had a dispute with his girlfriend. And the essence of the dispute was the banal to the disgrace that we have chosen the object of the dispute (of course a nice guy from a neighboring school) and decided that the winner is the one he will see off the first home.
And so it began: in a month we leveled bangs, makeup and doing battle were given hot dancing in the disco, but the proposal to make the company on the way home were reported. Moreover, we never even caught his eyes on me ..
And one night a friend of mine confessed that in fact for a long time and much in love with him, and it's sad to tears. Well, do not throw the friend is in trouble ...
That same evening I went to him with a serious face and said: "The girl you see there? Today, to accompany her go. " She said as the cut))
He began to shy away, invent a bunch of excuses, and finally said that it holds only in that case, if I go with them. And I went ...
As you may have guessed, with her he did not work .. As, however, and we in the distant 2003 -em (although on the way home, he admitted that he had long, I like me and after our evening meeting with him became daily ).
We were young, proud and ambitious, the relationship did not develop, and we have decided to remain friends. In June 2004, we jokingly agreed that if one of us does not create a family, then exactly 10 years later we're married and move out to live in the nearby town of M.
My friend became a sailor, sailed the oceans and not start a serious relationship. I am a permanent nature and, therefore, was in a long and (as I then thought) a serious relationship.
My friend was there, we talked about his past and present, he chose the future. We talked about my relationship and periodically recalled that until the end of the agreement is getting closer and closer. And always between us there was some tension in the issue relates directly to the two of us ..
Then another in love ... Seriously, there was talk of marriage, it Ta_Samaya and he finally got lucky. I sincerely wished good luck and rushed on to deal with their relationship, which at that time had finally collapsed and rescue them had no desire.
In January 2013 he wrote to me from Brazil, that relationship ended once again, it never came out of the flight. It began daily correspondence: Brazil, America, Brazil again.
The morning I start with the letter: "Hey buddy! )) I still wake up .... make coffee and leaf through avtozhurnal ... we are on the Parana River, they say there are found anaconda ... etc ", all of the letters ended with the words" I'm your friend. " We talked about work, the weather, the plans for the summer, books and filmah..I somehow happened that in April I was full of ready to meet his flight.
And rushed attitude! During friendship so well we know each other, that together we were easily and comfortably. It turned out that we both went for happiness somewhere far away, although it was necessary to simply lend a hand.
Then was our first trip as a loving couple. Ten and a half months - letters, phone calls from all over the land, Skype, Viber and all other available means of communication. Letters have already ended with the words "Your Self" and I studied all the sea terms and large port cities around the world.
Now in August 2014, we went for the second flight beyond "just friendship" and my incoming letter ends with the words "Your Husband" .. Yes, we have not invested a little in the stipulated 10 years, but this is a trifle.
"I'm happy! A truly happy! Thank you, my dear beloved husband!
Your wife"
It would not be happy or how I found my love
The history of my love began in his student years. I was 19 years old when I realized that I love. This feeling can not be confused with anything. The person to whom I felt so anxious feeling called George and he was a little younger than me.
But the age difference was noticeable. We knew each other since childhood and have lived on the same street. We had a lot in common, at least, so it seemed to me. Of course, it all started with a strong friendship: joint hobbies, walking late at night, long conversations about everything.
A lot of time we spent together. Even common friends began to perceive us as a couple, "thick as thieves." The degree of my confidence in this man could not describe. Together we talked about life, shared secrets and often laughed to tears at the jokes, the meaning of which was known only to us.
Soon the friendship grew into romance. Hugs and kisses were already, to put it mildly, not very friendly. It seemed that I was in a fairy tale.
Still - the best friend a man has become a favorite. This all pointed to the fact that my feeling was mutual.
One fine evening (of course, when the parents were not at home) we had regular gatherings with friends. It was fun, but the time has come to go home. However, the Jura that night stayed with me.
It was steeped in the spirit of romance and love: radio plays softly on an old tape recorder, a dimly burning lamp on the table was unfinished wine, and we danced, hugged each other tight and at the same time very gently. That night I will never forget - the first intimacy with a man who is boundless trust ...
It seemed that this was the beginning of wonderful changes in my life, but I was wrong. Some time after our night together Jura behavior of several variables.
No, he does not disappear, but in communication with me was the restrained and somehow alienated. The reason for this I learned from friends in common. It turned out, Jura argued with the guys that will achieve intimacy with me.
As a result of their "services", he told all our friends. Moreover, the juicy details have become an excuse for nasty jokes and rumors that have come down even to the parents. I was especially disappointing since it was my first serious relationship.
The betrayal of such magnitude made me suffer greatly. Thank God I had a lot of support when my mother, with whom I have always had a relationship of trust, fortunately.
After collecting all the will in a fist, I turned her attention to the study. Approaching spring session (end of course). We had to learn a lot of educational material that, in fact, was then for me an escape from oppressive thoughts.
During the session, Yura, I stopped all contact. And he did not seek any explanations.
Successful completion of the session, it was decided to celebrate the group. I thought it was a good chance to relax and get away from all the problems. The party was a success - we had fun with fellow students from the soul.
To raise self-esteem, that evening I let me take care of one guy from our group by the name of Alex. During two years of joint studies, I do not pay any attention to him.
Probably will not happen to me all that sad story, I could not see to their true happiness. Since I started dating Alex somehow too serious and we can say, resentment and anger.
Jura, of course, came with an apology, but it was too late to develop relationships. Eventually, I forgave him. Moreover, I am grateful to him, even to some extent.
No matter how developed my relationship with Yuri unknown, but with Alex we live in perfect harmony for the ninth year, and we have a strong and friendly family.
