Divorce can who was in a similar situation and managed to find a way out?

As much as I wanted someone to help my sister to get rid of fear of divorce!

It seems already decided to divorce ...

But then her daughter went to the first class - and there is, accordingly, a lot of expenses. And sister said 'if I divorce, it can not provide their children with what they now have. "

We are growing up in a poor family, and we know how terrible it is - hunger, wearing rags. And I felt my mother looking at us? It is terrible to imagine. Any woman who has children will understand it.

They live in a small town in Uzbekistan where it is impossible to find at least some work, especially without a higher education. You can not even get a clerk, because everywhere there are only Uzbeks and take only 'their'. If earlier it was still possible to get a factory (where her husband worked), today it is impossible.

And they have two children, my sister loved him very much. He hated her, humiliated, beaten in front of children. And she has nowhere to go, the apartment is written to his mother.

But how can you live with someone who does not love, does not respect, cripple physically and spiritually ?!

Girl, 7 years, their daughter, has taken over a model of the behavior of the father - if a man beats, then, as it should be. She beat the boys in the class, and she does not even talk about it any teacher, nor, most importantly, my mother! When my sister asked her, 'Why did not you tell me? '.

The child replied hopelessly 'they will still beat'. A?! It's awful, the girl of 7 years, and it has already come to terms with the fact that it beat the boy because his father beat his mother!

When my sister was determined to divorce, I actively supported her in this decision, telling her that we too hungry, but that is all grown up! So it would be with the children lasted for child support, we would have been able to help than. And the housing would be found.

But a woman who is so in itself indecisive, asocial, and here and for 8 years was beaten her husband, who in her life, first love, and the only man. I feel like she was afraid to start a new life at 34 with 2 children.

And she's scared to death, he will take away her son. He told her and said 'You've got no money, but I have to bribe someone and take away her son. " Afraid that he would not pay child support.

Of course, afraid of gossip that would laugh at her, would point the finger and the little town.

If only I had enough financial opportunities! I have it right there with the children taken away from this monster. He mutilated her soul.

She is very afraid of him and at the same time had grown accustomed to it, to the life that he lives. And he kills her physically and mentally. Divorce - this salvation, new life. And at the same time on one alimony and 2 children is impossible to live.

Maybe someone has been in a similar situation and managed to find a way out?

Anya

I am 26 years old and I do not want to live. I'm tired

No, I do not mean suicide, because I am afraid of death and did not want to cause pain and unnecessary problems to their relatives who already own problems.

But I wish that I did not have that I do not appear on this light.

I am one of those about whom they say 'not of this world'. I am completely asocial, feel like the outsider, I can not get along in any women's team - so, I can not find a permanent job.

And I am absolutely accommodating people do not like to gossip and 'rumor-mongering', which usually takes place in the women's team.

I introvert. And people do not like freaky. As a result, I 4 years as a housewife, but I understand that we must make and the fear of thinking about my future colleagues.

Maybe for some it will seem ridiculous, but it is impossible to work where everybody is against you.

My husband loves me, but does not want children. I do not feel happy in marriage. My life is meaningless and useless.

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