If I were 10 years ago, I was asked: "Where did you meet your husband? "I would never have thought that we bring together a dating site ...
But let's start from the beginning.
In my 37 years, I came to the sad conclusion that the time is still arrange a personal life did not work, then continue to wait for happiness nowhere: up to 35 years was strongly keen on learning, work, career, and after that - though was the hard work in this regard with horror realized that, to put it mildly, was "illiquid goods" in a small town. Normal men my age (± 5 years) got by the time his wife and children. And with the bachelors, who came across on my way, my life I did not want to associate.
So clearly I set a goal - to find a husband on the Internet (using social networks, dating sites, etc., the benefit of their now missing). I registered on the website 7brides.ru and started an active correspondence with several men. I stayed on the site for about a year, but seriously no one liked me. There were men in the correspondence, but either themselves disappeared, or some time later, we parted friends: do not find a common language, common interests, and the desire to get to know, too, have arisen.
But there was one man in my correspondence, which for most of the time very strenuously sought my attention. I thought he was interesting pure as the source and the person who owns and German, and Russian (10 years ago he moved from Russia to Germany and spoke excellent in both languages). I perfected them German, who taught at the school, could always clarify the meaning of words in Russian, so misunderstandings in communication did not arise, in general - has found a perfect home tutor. He longed to find a Russian wife. I dislike him not feel so at his suggestion to meet in the Turkish resort of perceived positively. In my smoldering I hope that in person can flash a spark feelings, and in fact he had a chance to become that.
Ticket to Antalya, I paid for herself, so she decided to take her in such a way that, after his departure, I was still 5 days left - to relax and meditate alone. Franz arrived, we had a good time, but the very chemistry I do not feel it. After his departure, I felt so lonely, I decided on a little adventure. On the Internet I read a lot of stories about loving Turks and decided to find a beau for the remaining rest. I went once again to 7brides.ru, hammered in the search for the men and looked at the Antalya "candidates".
My eyes immediately fell on a fair-haired man who clearly stands out from the entire eastern brethren. And the name of the man was Russian - Vladimir. I once wrote to him, he is very much interested me. It turned out that he had come on vacation with her family (in the sense of bringing children from his first marriage to rest as much as 21 days), and that there were no questions from the administration site for the discrepancy IP addresses have the seat of Turkey.
The same evening we had arranged to meet in a cafe in the center. Dinner and talked. He was 41 years old, married, has two children - 15 and 13 years old, lives in St. Petersburg. The next day he introduced me to his children, presented as an old friend. And so it spun my love affair with the most wonderful man in the world. Our attitude is rapidly getting ready to grow into something much larger (we solve the problem with housing and employment and are preparing to live together). Let it turned out to be not an alien, but a very decent, hardworking man, with whom I intend to link their fate.
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What I can never say beloved, boyfriend
As the saying goes, a woman without speaking - that the yard without a fence. Really, all we girls are talkers, which sometimes do not notice how blurted out too much. And often it is "unnecessary" falls on the male half of humanity ...
What I can never say beloved, boy.
So, what are phrases in the most repulsive man?
1. "You're acting like a child! "
Not once, during an argument, you say the words. However, I do not always think about the fact that at this moment feel your man. He absolutely like you, stubbornly defended their views on a particular issue, and you compare it with a little stubborn child.
And all because he did not agree with you. You mean, is that correct? Try to be more gentle and patient, then you can easily come to a consensus.
2. "What I'm fat / ugly ..."
- Honey, why I'm so fat ?!
- No, you! You are looking beautiful!
- You're lying! You say that because you love!
Common situation? It looks like you're trying to convince a man in his faults! Why are you doing it?! You want him to think about it and treated you more critical?
Men always perceive our words more literally, they are not looking subtexts that we encrypted. I understand that you are waiting for rebuttal on his part, but will understand if this is your favorite?
3. "And what do you think? "
Women most stupid phrase! He can answer or anything, either of you. While it's obvious you have to persevere to ask him this question.
4. "Our feelings are not the same as before."
The phrase, thrown into a fit of emotion. You're trying to hurt her man, and you got it. However, after a while you forget about it, and you think it will be remembered for a long time favorite, even if you made it up. Likewise, you questioned your love, can not be done under any circumstances.
5. "You do not love me anymore"
Not what a woman is not trying to impress her man. "But he has not called me this morning, but has never forgotten about it, and at the meeting did not even ask how are you my mother! "- You will say.
Of course, I understand that for any lovers fly inflated to the size of an elephant, but still try to pull myself together, and especially do not throw around phrases like. Suddenly, in a "perfect" day you convince him?
In general, girl, you and I should be guided by the proverb "silence - Gold", because man is not a sparrow - run away, you will not catch.
Author Lyudmila Abramovskaya
How to charm a man or a modern geisha lessons
Many women are interested in the question: is it possible to be both a great conversationalist, a wonderful lover, confident and happy woman? Is it possible to enchant a man so to be sure that he will be back? Take the road to your arms oriental subtlety and elegance, based on the female wisdom, tact and intuition. Before you open the doors to a world of harmony and satisfaction.
We just need to be reincarnated as a geisha, took a couple of lessons in seduction Japanese school, and you will become the standard of attractiveness and sensuality.
In the 17th century this craft was considered a purely male. A woman came into the profession later, giving it a special charm and aesthetics. The task of the geisha were men hanging decoration without the provision of sexual services. Enter into an intimate relationship she could only consenting adults.
Geisha were different from those of easy virtue and regarded as an aristocrat.
Positive mood, peace and lightheartedness, the ability to enjoy the beauty of the world - the basis of the geisha world. All of its actions and deeds are intended to please men, to please his vanity, to indulge weakness refined, helps to relax. And all this in order to strike up a complete understanding and harmony of a relationship based on the fusion of soul and body.
An essential attribute of a Geisha - makeup. This business card that makes an identifiable image. Bleached face high eastern hairstyle, eyebrows, crescent-shaped, dark black eyeliner, red lips and small, of course, luxurious kimono silk soft enveloping body.
The main advantages of a Geisha - harmony, perfect posture, graceful gait exciting, flowing gestures. Geisha should have a special aura. It must attract and attract. She is driven by overwhelming affection for the man, the desire to give him affection.
How to help a man feel comfortable and relaxed, tune into the right system?
To do this, create a relaxed atmosphere: subdued light, aromatic essential oils, soft pillows. Talk to the man languid, sensual voice enchants.
Geisha are paying special attention to the tools of seduction. They have been another incredible quality - the ability to understand at a glance the men and poluzhesta. True geisha knows the secret of the body and knows how to skillfully use. In the process of seduction you will receive this: exactly copy the facial expressions and gestures of men. This will help to establish contact with the invisible man. You can understand his mood, to know his preferences, to guess his desires.
Most geisha knows the art of erotic massage. It is a prelude to sex. Massage movements must be rhythmic and measured. Particular attention should be paid to the chest, back, between the shoulder blades, neck and all the intimate areas of the male body.
In addition, real geisha must know methods of obtaining mutual satisfaction and a variety of sex positions, to be able to continue intercourse stimulivat man for lasting satisfaction, as well as help to increase men's opportunities (for example, using a variety of aphrodisiacs). Special pleasure can bring a partner, clenching and relaxing your intimate muscles. This allows you to deliver a very special man satisfaction, as well as beneficial for women's health.
Geisha masterly own their lips and tongue! This, too, can learn. For training you can use a regular banana. Try to remove the peel from the fruit of the tongue and lips, do so slowly, gradually clearing banana in thin layers.
Become an experienced geisha in a short time is impossible. But with a great desire to give and receive the joy of love, to experiment, you will be able to master the subtle oriental art of temptation. After all, the soul of each of the women - a geisha!
