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A very useful article for women. Let's see what it is annoying men and women.
Man annoyed that he did not like in himself, and a reminder of his own shortcomings, failures and blunders (but it is almost the same, or how to look at themselves in the mirror
and see deservedly earned a black eye). Such is the property of the human ego.
Any irritation caused discontent, dissatisfaction with oneself, and female behavior - just an excuse to release negative emotions and children's excuse for his behavior.
In order not to be annoyed at all, man must work on yourself, love yourself and change. And what woman? Me too, as I was the other person - a useless thing.
And you can start small: watch closely, as if from outside, for themselves, for their behaviors. For each model of behavior is its own subconscious behavioral program, often harmful due to their psychological causes.
Running out of every psychoanalyst too expensive. Consciously look after themselves - an effective and free method, by the way, and transforming weaknesses.
Here, dear women, your basic behaviors, according to statistics particularly annoying men.
NOTE them in himself, and track time, brake slightly, still watching, this is important. And do it not for men, but for themselves. Strange sounds? But believe me, it will be a hundred times more productive.
The manifestation of jealousy.
Jealousy - a very harmful comprehensive feeling. It destroys love, family, health. Your jealousy is sure to affect the health of not only your, but also your children (especially under 7 years), sooner or later it will attract real lover to your man, and then burst into tears and continued to worsen your life, you will say, "I I knew it! "
Jealousy has no excuse! Even if a man is looking for something on the side, that's no reason to be jealous, and the bell loud fight: it is necessary to change. And I was never too late. But it is better to avoid this, the following tracking their behaviors (if they are, of course, you are).
Criticism.
For any criticism is the desire to change, fix, adjust under its own way, under his view of the world. Critics say that his opinion is the correct one. Pride does not allow him to accept the fact that everyone has their own world, and give to the world the right to be different.
Criticism - is aggression directed outward. Critique The world does not alter, but hurt yourself - elementary. Remember the law of the Boomerang.
You criticize the important things on your mind (the behavior of her husband, children, other people, the government, etc.) or cash (poorly painted lips met a woman, badly laid out things in a shop window, etc.) - all this is a manifestation of aggression.
Anyone, feel aggression, always take a defensive position, and catch your slack, can hit hard, no matter in what form will retaliate.
Most often retaliations energy, they are not outwardly visible, but no less dangerous than the verbal and physical, and lead to your depression and your health violations. So whether it is necessary to criticize anything and anyone?
Using sex as a weapon.
This is pure manipulation. Manipulation - this violence. Those who suffer violence on themselves? Even the weakest person will sooner or later rise. Showing violence, even in the form of manipulation, you also harms itself: necessarily work law Boomerang - What goes around, comes around.
Wishes to manipulate you will certainly appear in your way. Violence is manifested towards you, and from an unexpected side.
Pretense.
Any pretense - is a fraud, and any cheating, sooner or later be revealed. For deception is the desire to receive for himself any benefit, advantage. Law of Giving is broken, and you eventually get is not what you wanted, but quite the contrary. Your cheating unconsciously recognized the man and his guards.
Obsequiously.
Your pandering subconsciously reminds man of his own weakness and provokes to prove their strength, "wipe your feet on the rag." Understand yourself, where did you get it too low sense of self worth, fix it, and not man, and will come into your life even more "fierce" teacher.
The requirement for constant (unnecessary) attention and care.
It is a manifestation of hidden manipulation with all its consequences. In addition, it is a violation of the Law of Giving. The more you give, the more you get. The size is inversely proportional to the received claims and is directly proportional to give.
And yet, everyone has the right, the physiological need to be alone, alone with himself, with his thoughts and feelings. Do not limit this right.
The manifestation of the permanent (excessive) attention and care.
Here we must bear in mind two possible reasons. The first - your control over the world, including over your man. This is very bad for you in the first place, since it leads to frustration, to disease. The world, as well as another person, do not change.
World accurately reflect your perception of it, your point of view about this most of your world. Other people have a different world, a different view of the world. It is useless to change the mirror, it will still reflect the fact that it faces.
Your concern in this case is subconsciously perceived as a man of violence. Second - you have taken on the role of the mother, giving man the role of a child. Well, what kind of relationship at the same time you expect?
Remember your behavior in your childhood, his nihilism and resistance. Help the man to be a man, stop
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