What a fool I was, and what was the smart ...

What a fool I was, how smart I was the ...

Remembering the "wasted" years or months at a man who, after his departure left in your heart, only fragments of the former love, hurt the heart that hurts every time "movement of the soul", you constantly repeat to myself, "What a fool I was! .."

And, in fact, a fool? And how clever you have become now? ..

Candor

Dura

What have you been sincere! I talk about their feelings, about how to love Him as crazy with the smell that you want to be with him, never to be separated and to be together for life! You loved to make plans. I recognize that your dream has come true, because you finally met your other half - His ...

Clever

We are taught from childhood not to lie, to be sincere. But life shows that our sincerity useless. I do not need it, and him. It does not require a relationship of sincerity, and most of this fine game, which has its own rules .   Psychologists teach us not a declaration of love (otherwise he will lose interest in you as to the already extracted trophies), not to build aloud plans (men are afraid to be once and for all "caught"), not to call loved the second half (and suddenly it is you alone I do not believe, and does not intend to stop there?). Sincerity in our time taken to identify with naivety and stupidity. They say that only fools say aloud whatever they think ...

While

Dura

You spent a lot of time on it! Squandering precious free time to bake some pies for unimaginable found online recipe whole evening waited until he comes, he spared no time on his (not his!) Hobby. Of course, then you enjoy the simple fact that there was next to the favorite. It does not matter where - his friends on a fishing trip or in the country with his parents.

Clever

But now you know how much time is spent for nothing! Pies can be purchased in the cafe instead of his hobby (in fact delivers you a very dubious pleasure) could enjoy your and especially not to spend the weekend at the cottage of his parents (in fact the village you do not like a child) ...

Cash

Dura

When you love, do not regret for a loved one. You did not seem to notice that become waste for household needs two times more than when no one met. You buy products every day scoring the refrigerator products (after all, men need to eat well!), You give him pretty T-shirts and aftershaves. You're glad that you could smell that she chose for it ... Afraid to offend anyone, you do not propose to share the cost of products "at least in half." You pay for everything in silence itself ...

Clever

Now, you know, he just enjoyed your kindness. Products to buy rare and mostly those that he loves. I use all your things. During your relationship only once proposed to divide the payment for public ... and on vacation where he decided to completely change clothes (and spent almost all its money with), you had to at their own expense to buy products to pay for a joint excursion to the mountains, to buy souvenirs for him and his friends and family ...

The victims

Dura

When a person is in love, he willingly goes to make concessions, even sacrifices. Here and there ... you did not fly with her sister Julia on vacation because holiday of him this year was not at all (because of the change of place of work). You do not like to cook and feed on semi-finished products, but for him to do the impossible: kudesnichala on complex dishes. In addition, I get up 40 minutes earlier than usual (despite the fact that you - an owl!) To cook him breakfast ...

Clever

Now you really do not know, how could (despite themselves and their interests!) To make such sacrifices. And who these victims actually needed? Your refusal to leave he took for granted (as opposed to say, "Fly, my dear, you need rest"), culinary delights not appreciated (just eaten, as any other dinner), and in the morning only, and said that " Here you can also get up so early! I could not! "And if we remember that because you have a date with him began to pass courses in English and then (because of the backlog), you had to get away from them, it is so bitter!

Girlfriends

Dura

Alas, love relationships are almost always detrimental to friendship! First of all, because the focus is on one, favorite, man. Girlfriends themselves sidelined. Time is running out on them less. Therefore, you rarely meet, calls up "lunch" and begin to be less and less in the know each other ...

Clever

And what happened to your friendship! Device is busy personal life, you so rarely called her friends! So rare that when you after the break finally called them all start talking employed exclusively reproaches: - Elka! Where are you?! Absolutely no conscience! We are here with the girls think, guess where you go away ?! Completely forgotten friends! - Mess - do you think. - Love goes, but friendship always remains ... Girlfriends should not be forgotten.

It turns out that in love - it's always a "fool." "Fool" sincere, compliant, self-sacrificing, generous ...

A "smart" - a selfish egoist who never goes against himself. However, "smart" we go only if nobody loved. Therefore, keep your "mind" not for long - before the new infatuation ...

Men's greed, the greed of men

Women are sometimes faced with the greed of men, and some women observe this fact quite often, almost every day. So why men are greedy, and greed manifest than men.

From beginning we consider the most well-known situations in which men show male greed.

1. The first meeting. Your little bride that comes without a bouquet of flowers leads you to a cheap cafe and orders a cup of coffee, only two, so also hints that you would do well to pay half of the order - men's greed.

2. Do you live together for a few months or even a year. And in all that time a man gave you flowers only twice: on the day of birth and the eighth of March. Subtle hints ("I love flowers!", Etc.), he does not understand. Or pretends not to understand.

3. In preparing for the wedding, vacation, repair and similar activities require major investments of money, your man seeks to save on all possible details. And not just little things.

Greed men:

Do you want an expensive wedding ring, and in response to hear: "Why spend a small fortune on jewelery? ". You want to go to faraway exotic country - "What's the point? In Turkey, no worse. " Do you like expensive wallpaper - "Yes, this money can be three apartments pasted normal wallpaper! "

Such a list of men's greed is endless - each of us there is a certain number of such examples.

What is the cause of male greed?

In fact, several of them.

In the first of the above cases (that is, when a man knows you briefly) - it may be a manifestation of distrust and suspicion. "I do not know, I liked it, and you tell me whether our relationship will develop, and consequently, is not going to spend your money" - think of such a man. The approach can be, and smart, but some kind of trouble ...

In the second situation, there are several possible options. For example, a husband is not susceptible to subtle hints and you need to tell him directly that you want to receive bouquets often. Or maybe he thinks the flowers a waste of money, but often you are happy with chocolates and other pleasant things?

The third situation says that man - the frugal and thrifty by nature. It is the quality is not even greed as such (unless you reach the necessary economies of things). Moreover - this change is unlikely to be a man.

Therefore, if you are absolutely not satisfied with the display of frugality in your man - it is better to part amicably. Otherwise, the whole life you will quarrel with you, he - due to unexpected and - in his view - unnecessary purchases, you're with him - because of saving every penny.

Men love to blame the women in self-interest, pettiness and commercialism. Only in this way do not consider that a couple of times when faced with men's greed, women usually begin to appreciate not greedy men.

And it is not because they want to take away from men with hard-earned money. Just a man who does not spare 100 hryvnia for his favorite woman, pleasant to communicate.