Lovelace you my friend?

Did you at least once in a lifetime feeling that your relationship with a young man too good to be true ?! He - a wonderful, handsome, smart, helpful, and also such a romantic! Just - the dream of every girl!

Often, returning to the real world, we realize that these relations were good only at first glance, because even at the secondary examination and analysis becomes evident that the young man just loves to meet new girls, but serious and long-term perspective it is not yet building.

How to see a young person usually Lovelace?

Take a closer look closely to the behavior and mannerisms of your new friend, watch out for him.

Lovelace issued the following features:

Self confidence

As a rule, all Lovelace people are not timid. They love to play and do it with confidence. They easily meet on the street, in a cafe, a bar, a restaurant, a disco with a stranger. When meeting immediately struck by their courtesy and ability to hold on, while all this is done without any timidity, shyness.

In the male half of which can not be attributed to the ladies' man, always feel some stiffness and mild excitement when meeting with strangers.

Lovelace did not wait long to make a compliment to the girl, they immediately join the battle to win her attention. They will try to quickly fall in love with you in them in the short time you have to arrange them in the end, will seek to wriggle into your confidence.

On the tricks of wonderful compliments often come across women who do not believe in yourself, who are not doing well in the relations formed with the young man. Remember that a strong and trusting relationship actually take time, they can not make such a short period of time.

Lovelace happy to create a romantic atmosphere, make cute gifts, you are surrounded by excessive attention. It is, in fact, part of their game to win an increasing number of girls.

They are happy to invite you to a cozy restaurant to have dinner with you by candlelight, happy to please you with a luxurious bouquet of flowers, willingly invited to the city in a beautiful place, etc.

They are too much romanticism that is so like the girls. Of course, there is the romanticism and the rest of the male population, which can not be attributed to the ladies' man, but the romance is very difficult to call too much!

Lovelace - as a lone wolf. On the one hand - a lot of friends, on the other hand, - isolation, lack of close friends. These are not people with whom you can talk openly, to share something intimate. In other words, the relationships that build Lovelace with others, can be called superficial.

Lovelace never have enough "drive" in life. They - lovers to ride at high speed, jump with a parachute, snowboarding, etc. Lovelace adore the risk of pulling the unknown.

Your man and his friends

Socializing your man with his friends - an amazing phenomenon to observe that it would be very interesting if at times it does not affect your interests. How to minimize the damage from the effects of the male herd instinct on your relationship?

Many women who have recently married or just started to live together with his chosen one, complain that their man puts too high an opinion of friends. In other words, if you tell him one thing, and friends - the other, he just does not listen to you.

Sometimes it comes to the absurd, and we wonder: How can you be so stupid? But in fact, the reason is not in man's stupidity, and that your partner is likely misses his bachelor life.

No, it does not mean that it is bad to you. But if earlier he and his friends were "free bird" and only listened to the views of each other, but now he is forced to compare their plans with yours, ask for your opinion and listen (at least nominally) to your advice.

Therefore, each case when it takes a decision based on the opinion of his friends, not your - this is for him a balm for the soul, a proof that he can still be independent. It should be noted that this behavior is not specific to all men.

Strong (I mean inner strength, of course), confident representatives of the stronger sex are rarely guided by such motives. On the contrary - they are a pleasure to consult with their wives - it's once again proves the unity of the family.

Those men, who often listen to the advice of friends, ignoring your likely to have psychological problems or are too vulnerable to outside influence. In the first case - most likely a man brought up in single-parent or an unhappy family.

His father told him how his "sawing" the mother, or he watched parents "dismantling". Since then, and I am sure that listen to the woman - an unworthy occupation peculiar to henpecked.

What if your man is thinking this way?

You can take him to a psychologist, but you can work on most of its complexes, trying to convince him that the family - a single organism, where all important decisions are made jointly.

In the second case - a man is not able to resist the herd mentality so characteristic of adolescents. Rather, he (and, apparently, his friends) has simply grown up.

As a youth, many of us tend to consider the opinion of friends last resort, but most people, growing up, getting used to rely more on their own judgment.

In men, this process can take more time (we all know that the young man is psychologically mature more slowly than girls). Maybe your partner has just not reached the same level of maturity that you do?

In this case, you can wait a little: what if a year or two he will change.

But on the other hand, it is worth it to spend the best years of waiting?

Stereotypes of women's honor

1. Ladies are not the first to call.

The point is not who first went on contact and thus supposedly expressed an interest object. More importantly, how and when to take this step. Definitely, do not rush, and the next day after the exchange of contacts to attack.

It is necessary to give a person mature and only cast a fishing rod. The silence of the men, of course, may be perceived as lack of interest in your person, but it is not a fact. All you have to do in this case, just to show him that about him remembered.

You can walk past the man, and without giving him an opportunity to say "yes" or "no." But how can you know what the answer would not make an attempt? Only you can decide whether to be the mistress of her fate and to take a step, even if the risk of breakup or go with the flow, and then just be with nothing ... or him.

2. The young ladies are required to be late for a date.

You can be late if it is not on purpose. Especially as to calculate how much you need to leave later that "ideally" be late - silly and illogical. What do you want to show your boyfriend artificial punctuality? The number of its shortcomings, you try to hide the three hours spent in front of the mirror? Or that you are so busy, not available at all prices and you do not have as good? So show it's more dignified way. What? But on this issue, and you can meditate, instead of thinking about the strategy of delay.

3. Women are not recognized in the senses first.

They recognize and perfectly itself with the feel. It is not necessarily just to open fire from large-caliber machine "Love". Moreover - not desirable even if the gun is in strong male hands.

Before firing the target of such a serious need to prepare a soft and gentle weapon with a silencer, so as not to scare and drive them into a stupor. A rather diverse arsenal, thanks for the generosity of the native language.

From the words "with you so well" to "I love you" should be at least 10 steps and a sufficient time interval. Everything is as it was written. So girls, be talented in expressing their feelings, then it is possible that the fatal shot pripadёt deciding on his turn.

Much better to go without love holes in the heart, than to get it at the beginning of the battle and lose the desire to continue the game. Everything has its time, and this rule is universal for all genders.

4. This lady should always behave like a lady.

It is doubtful. Who are interested in the person who always behaves in a certain way? Even if this behavior is dictated by the amazingly thin and perfectly honed manners, it ceases to impress as soon as it becomes familiar and predictable.

To do always directives, even if it is spelled out most respected socialite, as unnatural as the exquisite shoes shoe hiking with friends. If you want to be a successful player, do not follow the rules, and configure them in the course of action.

Moreover, constantly new, depending on the circumstances and the situation. "Rules are created in the course of the game - this is our main rule" - just to point said talented contemporary writer Evgeny Klyuev.

5. The main thing - do not smoke on an empty stomach, drink coffee and eat after 18:00 and do not reduce the degree.

Guys, we have long ceased to live in the "scoop" and the knowledge of these things must be broader and deeper range of the root. If you smoke, do so with full awareness that it is harmful not only on an empty stomach, but in principle. And even if we are not going to throw in the near future, then at least have a plan for it, and the courage to admit his addiction.

As for coffee, it can be drunk during the day as much as your body is able to digest the day without suffering the exciting action of caffeine in the morning, "in the red". If you woke up, you feel defeated before accepting another cup of doping, then you have the global overdose.

There are talented people, manage to absorb as much coffee per day, that his action will not stop until the next morning. Eat after 18:00 is possible and even necessary. The only question constituting dinner. I think everyone knows the difference between light and heavy food, simple and complex carbohydrates.

That's just a combination of lightness and complexity - is ideal for the daily diet, and as for the evening meal, it is best to focus on proteins, too, preferably without weighting. The degree to lower, of course, not desirable.

But much more important not to mix alcohol at all. And so it is not necessary zanyuhivat his chips, eating something more valuable and significant. Worst of all - do not comply with the rule "eat after 18:00," and at the same time indulge in alcoholic gatherings at the same time.

6. Red and mini skirt - looks exciting.

Firstly, we must be able to wear the red and he goes not for everyone. Bloody nails, according to the most men, no spark exciting in itself does not carry. They can simply complement a certain image. Red bright lipstick looks nice on the units.

And it looks as kissing lips, pomaded so poisonous color, dare not everyone. Clothing bright red flowers in itself, so the girl in it becomes more noticeable. But man, if sometimes an animal, not a bull, which is sufficient to excite the wave a red flag in front of his nose.

The same applies to mini skirts. Excited do not wear, and how it emphasizes feminine charms. The mini - clearly visible legs and hips. That they and excite, with the proviso that in good shape.

But the girl with beautiful legs can look like a million, even jeans. So, down with the color mini-prejudice and jogging to the gym!