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In the heat of the first days of love, the worst thing - the idea that everything is always naturally ends ... No, not that!
It can not end our wonderful passion, our eternal love! We will overcome the difficulties together, we will turn the fragile sprout tender feelings in the mighty baobab family life! ..
We look for examples of the eternal memory of feelings, remember Penelope, roemsya in the biographies of famous pairs of long-lived. We find evidence, and triumphantly looking at the skeptics say, and so will we! It's about us saying half!
And it's not just words, and not just a dream: we are together, yet love each other ... And then, maybe soon, maybe by the year knocking consciousness little thought: is there life out there ... on the other , the dark side? Where there is no my love, could be on the light?
Love goes unnoticed ... Silently, on tiptoe, on soft paws, secretly as a thief. No wonder, because she carries undeniable value - the fullness of happiness, instead of slipping memories.
We dream to be together always, always, until the end of days, until death do us part! And then in a frenzy divide refrigerator, visit the children on Sunday, I have almost clean and the phone memory ... girlfriend, looked at photos, calmly replied: "This? And, I met with him two or three years ago. "
Someone goes to the door and looks the favorite, with bated breath, the windows - a sudden flash of her shadow? Someone tore pictures and destroys all the things that remind of past feelings ... Someone indifferent vzdernet eyebrows and go ahead and forget a couple of months of the past. Someone to forget, make tremendous efforts ...
Love is gone, what is left?
Olya:
"We broke up, and all ... no talking, no meetings. What for? Soul poison? Irritating? What's the point of this? Time can be spent more effectively ... "complete break - a very common scenario. Until recently, the closest people apart, so as not to feel each other ever. It's frightening ... And it's very sad.
It turns out that the relationship was a mistake, and so bitter and painful, and that remember them do not want to? Not a breath of gratitude, no pity, no compassion, no sweet tremor, nothing? Or it was all but lost? Mired in everyday life, it broke about incontinence, sank under the blows of shameless lies and outright rudeness ... It was love or not? There was, of course.
Just ... she died a long, painful, before his death turned into a vicious monster that his poison poisoned a spring around the world. Oddly enough, but completely and permanently sever relations prefer to couples who have gone through a lot together. Why is that?
That's because a lot of ... spoken words and undercurrents, torn and sewn back plans, trampled and washed hopes. Not appreciated not cherished - what now? Do not Cry? And do not cry ... It turns out, a clean break - a sign that all is not fully understood? Or, on the contrary, because it is clear that has nothing to figure out.
Maria:
"Just so it was that I fell in love with the other ... That's all. He? Perhaps even I loved ... for a while. And then it is gone. After all, love is inherently finite. " Feelings do not always leave a few at a time. It may be (and very often the case) that one partner comes to polustanochke, and the other - for years the mourners once common sense.
The bitterness of such a state it is difficult to describe. And the Council is not here and can not be. What can I say: forget Razlyubi? How? So it just - gradually, day after day, to kill a feeling? It's not unrequited love, it's much worse - like a man who has recently reciprocated ...
And then - again! and all ... I do not like more, and you live as you wish! And, if you think about what right I have to condemn a man who has left for a new love? Does he have to stay beside unnecessary partner? And what can he do - comfort? as? "I do not love you, but you do not worry, and you will take?"
Or lie - peering into the pupil of the best ... you know, in this particular way, when the eyes look, but do not see? Smile, but sober capture every unloved black dot on the face, hairs in the wrong place, annoying wrinkle ... with every clumsy sob, to hate and despise the proximity once loved, because he is so weak that it can not be left alone?
Alexey:
"We decided to break up, because they realized that no longer love each other ... Of course, it's hard, but you need to live on. I got married some time later, Katie is also a permanent relationship. Yes, and we had - great friends. " It's amazing, I can not believe that it happens ... How can you be friends with the former or the former?
Well, if it was a flower-shape or kissing teenage relationships. And if there were serious, adult passion - with all the pros and cons? After all, as in the heat of frustration I want to tell a dirty tricks, to make a painful! How can one then look in the eye? And even if they do not want to kill this native alien - still insoluble precipitate ...
You say there was no disappointment? Let not believe it! Even if it is a peaceful separation disappointment there. It simply can not be ... some time trample down together. Best memories, reflections and incomprehensibility. Reticence - because they are in all, even the most honest, partnerships, relationships. But it with one hand. And, if you look at the other, a retrospective change ...
Who knows me better than my ex? The man with whom I slept in the same bed, eat at the same table ... We kept her underwear in a drawer! He bought me a napkin! I know how and what he likes! He cried when he died White Bim and still keep my notes from the hospital! This man knows almost all of my intimate secrets, and I studied his weaknesses and enthusiasm.
We stopped loving each other as sexual partners, as husband and wife. But it's not all that can be in life! I appreciate his sincerity, crystal honesty in our relationship, I respect his passion and envy naivety ...
He, too, sees something in me. We both understand ... Then, when they host the hysterical temperament. Relationships built on trust, gradually move into the next phase. After living together can be friends ... I guess?
Irina:
"I made a nonsense. When he said: "Let's be friends" ... I took it too literally. I thought, if I'm his friend, I can restore our relationship ... He understands that he can not without me. " The basis of any friendship - mutual understanding, trust and support. The basis of such a pseudo-friendship - manipulation.
I impress upon you that you can not without me ... you obey, you will do as I want ... You'll be mine, because I need to be with you. By and large, I want to deceive you. I do not want not! the success of my lies just depends on the integrity of my existence ... This is - the logic of parasitic organisms.
And there is no justification for this, no passion (and even more, concern about their own well-being) does not explain the desire to eat someone else's life.
Love leaves. Of course, not always, in all cases, one hundred percent. But most of all the leaves. What remains after that? After it is life.
With all the attendant hopes and disappointments, with faith and hatred, excruciating pain and exquisite pleasure. And with the next love ... Do not believe me? It will just wait.
Author: Natalia Rudenko
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