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"It's all in our genes - a man or a leader by nature, or vice versa.
I have always been a leader "(Yelena Baturina). If you ask men how they imagine the perfect woman, the majority of them recognized that he sees in imagination the image of the ephemeral, surrounded by lace and flavors ...
Someone does not understand a woman in a different role than the food processor. Exalted poet exclaims: "Muse" - and remember his wife in a bathrobe and with a broom in his hand. But so it is easier. They have an amazing imagination, where the broom easily turned into a bouquet of fragrant prairie ... accidentally wandered into our century knights say that a woman - a lovely lady, the queen, the goddess ...
But few recognized that dreams of becoming a husband businesswoman. And actually, why? I do not accidentally as the epigraph quoted Yelena Baturina. You can somehow relate to itself: not to love her, to speak evil on her account - but it is hard not to recognize that this woman has made herself. And leadership is not dependent on gender.
We know a lot of highly motivated, energetic, strong-willed women and a large number of gentle and not strong men. By the way, if a man is not born a leader and does not want to build from a macho, why something every drunk and nedotёpa considers it his duty to show his superiority towards him.
These wild vestiges of the past, called public opinion, not the fate of the broken one beautiful, talented, noble, but mild man. By law, the mountains, although most of us live on the plains in the metropolitan areas of stone, man is forbidden to cry. But why? On what basis? And anyway, what is more important in marriage: pumped up muscles, animal strength, or the ability to care, to love, to show affection?
Strong woman and the average man can be a happy family if to sweep debris from the head of both.
Making a woman with business acumen to sit at home, tossing embers in the hearth, and shaking the next cradle - the same thing that break off the wings of a bird. It is blasphemous and immoral. Similarly, as demand from every man to earn countless money on fur coats, diamonds and villas. Times are changing faster than the human mind.
In an age of sophisticated technologies time to allow everyone to be so, as he is by nature, without forcing him to break his psychological type and temperament. The man has the right to be weak, impressionable, emotional, and a woman, if she had been born a leader, can be strong.
In fact, science has recognized that man is stronger women only in the physical plane. In addition, women's emotions often no more than "costs" of education. For example, in one of the African tribes, researchers have brought toys in the form of dolls and weapons. Imagine their surprise when the boys became interested in puppets, while the girls eagerly pounced on the toy gun.
Everything fell into place when scientists learned that hunting in this tribe are engaged girls and women, and men are raising children and housekeeping. So, the whole thing in education and stereotypes. Remember the wonderful books of former times and romance? They are girls and only did what they were suffering from love and indulged in fantasies. But, in the previous century, a woman had no other classes!
Imprisoned in a tower of young men and see that they just focus only on love experiences. "Being determines consciousness." Classic rights. Examples of women who had gone headlong into politics, business, art and demonstrate that they can cope with any responsibilities.
Success usually reach women who do not copy the behavior of men. Often, some psychologists write that the female psyche is not suited to the large loads that a woman - being fragile. It's certainly interesting, if you do not remember how often our country hit by a variety of ills in the form of wars and revolutions, leading men of the families. And it is on women's shoulders lay all the hardships. Both women survived.
And this unforgettable movie about shpaloukladchits! One gets the impression that the work is physically weaker woman is helpful and mentally - no, no! Interestingly in this case, about someone well-being and comfort are concerned representatives of the male? It seems to me that on his own. Unfortunately, more often found men who became ill near the smart successful woman.
Remember Freud's assertion that every woman dreams of a penis? I think that no mental health of women about it on his own body is not dreaming and dreaming. Woman dreamed of freedom, the possibility of realizing their creative and personal potential. And one more thing, to put it mildly, strange statement - a successful woman can not be happy in marriage. Really?
Among the successful women have a lot of ladies who have strong family, a loving husband and happy children. I do not need a long time to look around, to see thousands of women who do not make a career, giving the care of her husband and children, and that old age do not have a loving spouse or caring children and live on a mere penny.
Unfortunately, many young women and who, relying on the strong man's shoulder, were single mothers with a tiny salary.
In today's world every girl from childhood need to understand that no one will take responsibility for solving its problems, nobody will provide its cloudless existence. Only she can create for themselves a future, what kind of dreams. And for this you need to study and work.
To be able to own decisions and take responsibility for yourself and loved ones. It will take not too much time, and a new generation of men will give preference to women's autonomy, which can be entered into partnership marriage. Already, the proportion of men who are ready and able to support his wife, is a tiny percentage.
And then, to feel financially independent so sweet! It is worth a try at least once, and did not want to wait for the money from the hands of men. In the near future, most likely, in our country, as in other civilized countries, the spouse will be able to fund all of the family par acquisition and needs. And on the agenda will not be a question - who makes money and who fry patties.
The happy family is now a husband and wife do everything together. As unforgettable Matroskin, "joint work ennobles and unites people! "
And still gives conjugal love - big and real.
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