We already know that the good guys always remain with the nose. And what about the good girls? In his book "Why Men prefer stinkers" Sherry Argo disclose the reasons why men are opting for "self-confident and persistent" women (this interpretation it gives the word "bitch")
and those who are willing to give her man a dominant position, left with nothing. Argo conducted a survey among men who have told about what influenced their decision to continue or terminate a relationship with a particular woman.
It turned out that in the eyes of man a woman looks more attractive if she has a personal life, and they have their own plans from time to time does not allow a man to gain the upper hand over.
And who then say that being a "bitch" - is that bad? Obviously not these guys. Female Internet portal iVillage has published 10 arguments in favor of men, "bitch", trapped in the book of Sherry Argo.
"The worst thing a woman can do - is to meet with the man every night. So, it would be his girlfriend to have fun and get into it" reserve list ".
He will come at nine o'clock to leave at half past nine. Later, if a man is confident that he always gets what he needs from the woman, he did not lift a finger to somehow stay in touch. "
"Men love to compete. When a man buys a car, which appeared in a limited number, he feels that he has got something special. Why is it sometimes guys are satisfied with street racing, bet on the machine? Because they want to win, to win the victory and leave the machine failure. Similarly, So it is with women.
A woman that is easy to win, he will not cause "competitive itch." The moment when a woman ceases to express his opinion and starts agreeing with everything the man says, he starts to feel a sense of unutterable boredom. "
"A woman should never look for a man, combing the three bars, where he intended to spend the evening. If a man says to you that will be there is something there, then, no need to look for him. That he should have to look for - only this case, you can count on his consistency. "
"My fiancee was the first woman in my life, which has put me in my place. It always reminds me:" Hey, no one will hold. "If I am crazy, trying to get out, she just says," Let me save your time and effort. I do not need to hang noodles on the ears. I do not buy. "I know that if she caught me cheating, I'll get on the head with a frying pan. And I respect her more than all the other women I have ever known."
"If he wanted to express his opinion in a word of a woman who to rely on a man, that word would be" boring. "
"Self-confidence - this is when you do not try to interpret or to think out loud about all that you see. This trait helps the relationship developed on the thumb track. For example, every time I give her a woman flowers, she reminds me that her former at some point ceased to do so.
So she tries to find out whether I will continue to give her flowers. In fact, I have a feeling that she did not like the color or what she disliked the fact that I give to them. "
"A woman should not say," You so rarely calling me "or" You never told me you love me. "You have to understand that one of the best character traits of women - its unpredictability. The man should not be able to predict your actions .
If a man can always predict what you will do at some point, he will be lost to you as a partner for the long-term relationship. He will look for another woman who is a mystery to him, and he will not be able to control. "
"If it is something sure, then it has an inner core. This is the woman whom he respects, but not brittle biscuits, ready to break at the slightest push."
"Men need to feel that you do not give him all of herself with the words:" Here I am. Take me. "Men want to speculate. How should break down.
If even a man goes to the movies, he hopes that this will be a film from the start view which he would sit on the edge of the seat. If the film or who do not tear off an arm or leg, or anyone not shoot and not a single building does not blow up, he decides that he just threw on the cost of the ticket. "
"A woman should not even joking on the subject of marriage. One day I was on my second date with a girl who, like me, was a native of Ireland. In this country there is a saying:" If you kiss me, you'll have to marry me. "
If you really want to get married, I never tell a man about it. To do so - is like to give him instructions for your operation and tell how best to play on your weaknesses using the bait. "
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