What I can never say beloved, boyfriend

As the saying goes, a woman without speaking - that the yard without a fence. Really, all we girls are talkers, which sometimes do not notice how blurted out too much. And often it is "unnecessary" falls on the male half of humanity ...

What I can never say beloved, boy.

So, what are phrases in the most repulsive man?

1. "You're acting like a child! "

Not once, during an argument, you say the words. However, I do not always think about the fact that at this moment feel your man. He absolutely like you, stubbornly defended their views on a particular issue, and you compare it with a little stubborn child.

And all because he did not agree with you. You mean, is that correct? Try to be more gentle and patient, then you can easily come to a consensus.

2. "What I'm fat / ugly ..."

- Honey, why I'm so fat ?! - No, you! You are looking beautiful! - You're lying! You say that because you love! Common situation? It looks like you're trying to convince a man in his faults! Why are you doing it?! You want him to think about it and treated you more critical?

Men always perceive our words more literally, they are not looking subtexts that we encrypted. I understand that you are waiting for rebuttal on his part, but will understand if this is your favorite?

3. "And what do you think? "

Women most stupid phrase! He can answer or anything, either of you. While it's obvious you have to persevere to ask him this question.

4. "Our feelings are not the same as before."

The phrase, thrown into a fit of emotion. You're trying to hurt her man, and you got it. However, after a while you forget about it, and you think it will be remembered for a long time favorite, even if you made it up. Likewise, you questioned your love, can not be done under any circumstances.

5. "You do not love me anymore"

Not what a woman is not trying to impress her man. "But he has not called me this morning, but has never forgotten about it, and at the meeting did not even ask how are you my mother! "- You will say.

Of course, I understand that for any lovers fly inflated to the size of an elephant, but still try to pull myself together, and especially do not throw around phrases like. Suddenly, in a "perfect" day you convince him?

In general, girl, you and I should be guided by the proverb "silence - Gold", because man is not a sparrow - run away, you will not catch.

Author Lyudmila Abramovskaya

How to bring back the romance and tenderness in relationships

It's no secret that after several years of relationships, romance and tenderness somewhere to disappear. And it seems that the feelings were dim, and the relationship has run its course. But not so!

Do not expect a gift of fate, and turn yourself in balmy time - we bring you 10 original ways to bring back the romance and affection in your relationship, how to return the love and passion Man, man, man, how to develop a relationship.

A couple of years ago, you could spend hours looking at each other, to flinch at every kiss, ran on a date like crazy, forget everything else and happy instead of just the little things, and nothing in the world could not make you break away from each other.

But over the years the situation has radically changed: no longer that spark in his eyes, no longer happy just a bouquet of flowers for a holiday, and in the evening you spend each of your computer, and then tired wanders sleep And in the morning it all starts on the new - each running on its work, night computer, watching TV after dinner and sleep.

Many women often complain of a similar situation in the family of his friends or girlfriends by misfortune female Internet forums, but did not dare to take up the issue seriously, and often even waving her hand or shift all the responsibility for what happened to his soul mate and are waiting for it first steps, and they, in turn, pass the buck back to the girl, and expect it to solve the problem.

And a vicious circle, where no one is to blame, and neither side wants to seriously take to solve your problem.

In such a situation, we women need to understand that no matter who is first to act. What is important is only the final result - take the updated your relationship with your beloved.

Therefore it is always necessary to take destiny into their own hands and start experimenting on how to regain a passion. And your young man, for a time, he slowly lured into the game "the right attitude romance" and also begin to look for all sorts of ways to show you love.

To facilitate your task, we found 10 interesting ways of how to re-awaken in your relationship love, romance and, of course, a passion for Man, a man or a husband, how to develop a relationship. Do not spare the time for it, believe me, sometimes it is worth spending a couple of hours, so that your relationship began to play with new colors.

So, back to the 10 ways your relationships romance and tenderness. Let's start with those that are easy to implement, so as not to frighten all those who still dare to change:

How can often arrange a romantic dinner!

Remember the phrase "all brilliant - just," and you immediately come to a head very simple, but at the same time and the most effective ways to "warm up" your relationship, such as a romantic dinner. Of course, we could not ignore the age-old way to bring back the romance and tenderness. There are a few simple rules that must be followed to the evening is really a success.

Try not to make dinner at home, because, - first, a familiar environment will not allow you and your partner to tune in a romantic mood, and secondly, that the mountain of dishes that will remain after dinner, as well as the arrangements for its preparation, again hardly please you. Yes, and scurrying to and fro children will not contribute to the romantic atmosphere and will not allow you to fully devote themselves to each other.

Book a table at the restaurant, along, but in any case did not warn her man. Suppose that for him it will be a pleasant surprise.

Of course, we are not talking about how to go to restaurants every day, but once a month is quite possible to highlight a couple of hours and spend an evening just for you two.

Needless to dinner at a restaurant is not an axiom. It is quite possible to arrange at home, especially if cooking is your hobby, and my grandmother happy help you out and take this time to children. And if the children in your family has not yet appeared, then you have every chance of a successful romantic dinner at home. In this case, do not forget the required attributes of a romantic evening - candles and music. Needless evening dress and makeup, too, has not been canceled.

Romantic dinner - this is perhaps the one method which will not require you a lot of effort and a lot of time, so it has always been and will be the most popular method to return to your relationship a little romance.

How to mend relations with her beloved husband, boyfriend

The man under the delicate sauce or how to establish a relationship with her beloved husband, boyfriend, how to establish family relationships, family relationships

You quarrel several times a day, and you start to think that he is not ready for a serious relationship? Yes, you just picked the wrong sauce! After all, every man has his own.

Modern psychologists have long divided all men into types and painted techniques of manipulation.

You just have to get accustomed to his partner ... and ahead in the battle!

Man System

With strangers, he is polite and compliant, but should go with him at close range - and away we go. This man used to that everything has to be exactly the way he wants. Or rather, as recorded in its ideal system of the universe. He expressed his desire directly, without any ethical practices. And any disobedience threatens storm of showdowns and this authoritarianism.

It requires you to be at home to exactly 19, and by 19:30 had cooked him dinner. And yet ... this cute creative glove box in your closet for some reason, takes it to the white-hot! And you promised a thousand times to leave him alone with a whim, but ... with him so well and quietly, like a stone wall. His devotion knows no bounds ... and in general - he is the real man, which told your grandmother.

What to do?

I never dreamed of career as an actress? Like, scene floodlights and total viewers, and you pretend to be a bizarre love with Ophelia? Even if you do not dream - now is the time to become her. Whether it is emotional to the limit. Theatre laugh when he can hurt you. And often puts him in an awkward situation.

Systems analyst from such catch the real thrill! The main thing is to go out of an awkward situation after a couple of minutes you showed itself. Arrange tantrums, you can even lose consciousness several times. Remember Hamlet's "To be or not to be? ". So, in addition to all, can progudet his ears all the talk about the meaning of life - and syschesh true respect.

The best sauce for systems analyst - emotions flavored philosophy!

Spoil the dish

Well, if you are not hungry, and took it to their whims? In that case, psychologists stashed another recipe. To begin with - litter all over the apartment. Put three cups on the table, put a few books, spices and cosmetics brew notebooks. And even if a person's heart of desperate tremble, and it will take to restore order on their own, do not take the position!

Immediately return all full circle - that is, in a state of total, unconditional anarchy. And yet - always late, better than 40 minutes of commercials, forget about their promises and constantly smiling. And most importantly, a good Train in the morning. When the nerves of your Blessed will fail, you will have to retire from the marathon speed.

Lyric dreamer

It seems more beautiful and less adapted to the creation of life could not be found in the universe. He was just charming. And what his sense of humor! Dressed, though not very neat, but tasteful. And this treasure lies on the couch in the form of treasure, but nothing to do manipulates your emotions. It is worth it just to say a couple of sentences, and you're ready to do what he had planned.

What to do, how to improve relations in the family?

Of course, war. Just do not stand at attention in front of him, and declare that from this day he will listen to you and only you. Yes, the dreamer need to lead, but to do it flexibly. Pretend that it is ready to go for it to make any concessions. And when it's time for action - take the initiative in their hands. You'll see how fast it will obey you and recognizes your vsevladychitsey.

Sauce for the dreamer - Will rigid and flexible mind.

Spoil the dish

Well, it could not stand idleness and prudently decided to break into small pieces. Well, well, only without the blood! Dreamer is possible to get much easier. Begins to demand from him an immediate and active action. Why did he have football, right now if you want to load the laundry in the washing machine?

And you can smoke when the house all the taps are flowing? You can easily ascertain the truth in his face: yes, he is lazy and bezynitsiativen. However, what kind of adorable! .. In other matters, the last better to remain silent.

Scattered nerd

Socks already hanging from the chandelier, all the doors opened, and from somewhere in the balcony heard Bach's music? So he is at home, and just tunes in a philosophical mood. Geniuses in fact soft and accommodating. And besides, even crazy "advanced".

Interested in everything - from higher mathematics to a Papuan tribe Chiu-Chua. But painfully sharp. Someone who, but they know how to cut the truth in the face and ruin any, even the strongest relationship. After all, what to play up and play the hypocrite, if the whole universe is already stretched to meet him a hug ?!

What to do?

Do not be afraid to show that you hurt his sharpness. But in any case, neither read morality, better Scorch sad mine, pop the door, let the tears. And to top it ... Take care of him. Look what he is skinny and miserable. This is where you come in handy recipe for my mother's soup with meatballs. And teach you finally listen! The theory of relativity is not so boring as it seemed at the university.

They taste best clever sauce affectionate care.

Spoil the dish

Yes, he is wrong. So do not talk to him. Best of the week. Such as it should be brought up. And do not even think "razrulit" situation for Sunday. The result should be an educational moment cautionary long tirade on the subject: morality, society and scattered nerd. And what nonsense it is the city? The whole world knows that this simply can not be! Ah, but perhaps he has already gone?