Holiday romance in winter

The Winter's Tale: a holiday romance in the snow.

Before the summer adventures still good one hundred and fifty days, your charms are hidden under the skin and hides others' animals, frost nipping at your nose and had to wear on the car winter tires. The air smells of frost and fir trees, shops hysterically preparing for the sale,

girlfriend discussing the menu Christmas table. Winter in general. And in nature, and on the personal front.

Yes, in the summer - well, in the summer - the sun, the birds are singing, the beach running. In summer, the little white sand beaches and distant ocean on a fine shingle sea close - freedom of choice. I mean, you looked at anyone, just want to choose.

But what about winter? People bundled up her chilly body in warm clothes, completely devoid of eroticism.

Love and flirt - heat-loving plant, the cold take root poorly. But there are situations where this rule does not work - prevent circumstances.

And such circumstances conducive to light entertainment, folded, of course, in the resorts. But in the winter resorts - ski.

1. Coach. Roman coach certainly hit of the season. And in general: every self-respecting woman is simply obliged to tighten the hot (well, at least to thaw, that is) a holiday romance with a tall, handsome, blond and tanned in the sun Alpine skier who taught her to stand on skis.

Cons: coach commonly "leads" of several novels simultaneously. We'll have to follow the schedule. Pros: Well, but the photos are great! Her friends turn green with envy. You handsome and tanned! Wow!

2. A neighbor of the hotel. Well, a very pragmatic choice! What the neighbors on the floor not the people, or what? Cons: not enough passion, spontaneity and romance. Pros: comfortable - again! (in the cold do not need to run on a date). Profitable - two! (who will pay the bill in a restaurant?). Finally, comfortable - three! (at your disposal - two comfortable rooms).

3. jaded tycoon. If all guards cordoned off the plateau in the same ski suits if the roof of your hotel to urgently construct a helipad and dripped to the steps of a transatlantic submarine channel - so waiting for the guest. A very special guest - a very rich and very modest, in common parlance - oligarch.

Incidentally, the tycoon will not necessarily be a short, plump and bald. A significant part of the credit and the money bags - young, good-looking and follow the fashion. And many of them are periodically completely alone in this cold, cold world ...

Cons: Do you remember the situation with the girls in Courchevel and the oligarchs? That's all gone, but the sediment remained. Pros: the image of the oligarchs - lavish gifts. It captures the essence?

4. Santa Claus, he is Santa Claus, also known as Yolopukki (depending on country of residence). Cons: The novel is likely to be platonic. Pros: the feeling of a fairy tale, the magic of Christmas and the mountain of teddy bears provided.

5. The attending physician. Acclimatization - a terrible thing. Two or three days with low grade fever and a runny nose you provided. And in this case, the patient comes to the doctor. Sometimes the disease can be and pretend. Cons: sick - bad and unpleasant. While others conquer the route, have to sit in a room and watch the telly. German, French or English. It depends, again, on the place of residence. Pros: the common cold you just get rid of as soon as possible.

6. Tour Operator. I do not mean the organization, and that nice young man who met you at the airport, drove up to the hotel, has issued the documents and brought a cup of cold cappuccino. Cons: not prestigious, and is not suitable for class. We'll have to hide. Pros: the freshness and novelty of sensations.

7. The operator lift. Lonely strong men, sitting in the cold dushegreykah booths and providing comfort to all those who raised the track ... Cons: it is a perversion. And cold. Pros: what, this also has its own romance - if you search.

8. Japanese. The Japanese, they are like cockroaches - have always and everywhere. Even in European ski resorts. Cons: The way to understand the fine Japanese soul is through Kogal (which must be distinguished from Gangur), sento (the door of which hung with Noren) and a hikikomori (which can be attributed to both an individual and a social phenomenon). Pros: This is the interpenetration of cultures.

And indeed: the holiday novel there are no barriers. Neither cultural nor racial, no.

What irritates men to women? Part one, not the last.

By and large, annoying man that he does not like in himself, and a reminder of his own shortcomings and blunders (but it is almost the same, or how to look at yourself in the mirror and see deservedly earned a black eye). Such is the property of the human ego. Any irritation caused discontent, dissatisfaction with oneself,

and female behavior - just an excuse to release negative emotions and children's excuse for his behavior. In order not to be annoyed at all, man must work on yourself, love yourself and change. And what woman? Me too, as I was the other person - a useless thing.

And you can start small: watch closely, as if from outside, for themselves, for their behaviors. For each model of behavior is its own subconscious behavioral program, often harmful due to their psychological causes. Running out of every psychoanalyst too expensive.

Consciously look after themselves - an effective and free method, by the way, and transforming weaknesses.

Here, dear women, your basic behaviors, according to statistics particularly annoying men. NOTE them in himself, and track time, brake slightly, still watching, this is important. And do it not for men, but for themselves. Strange sounds? But believe me, it will be a hundred times more productive.

The manifestation of jealousy.

Jealousy - a very harmful comprehensive feeling. It destroys love, family, health. Your jealousy is sure to affect the health of not only your, but also your children (especially before age 7 years), sooner or later it will attract real lover to your man, and then burst into tears and continued to worsen your life, you will say:

"I knew it! "Jealousy has no excuse! Even if a man is looking for something on the side, that's no reason to be jealous, and the bell loud fight: it is necessary to change. And I was never too late. But it is better to avoid this, the following tracking their behaviors (if they are, of course, you are).

Using sex as a weapon.

This is pure manipulation. Manipulation - this violence. Those who suffer violence on themselves? Even the weakest person will sooner or later rise. Showing violence, even in the form of manipulation, you also harms itself: necessarily work law Boomerang - What goes around, comes around.

Wishes to manipulate you will certainly appear in your way. Violence is manifested towards you, and from an unexpected side.

The requirement for constant (unnecessary) attention and care.

It is a manifestation of hidden manipulation with all its consequences. In addition, it is a violation of the Law of Giving. The more you give, the more you get. The size is inversely proportional to the received claims and is directly proportional to give. And yet, everyone has the right, the physiological need to be alone, alone with himself, with his thoughts and feelings. Do not limit this right.

The manifestation of the permanent (excessive) attention and care.

Here we must bear in mind two possible reasons. The first - your control over the world, including over your man. This is very bad for you in the first place, since it leads to frustration, to disease. The world, as well as another person, do not change.

World accurately reflect your perception of it, your point of view about this most of your world. Other people have a different world, a different view of the world. It is useless to change the mirror, it will still reflect the fact that it faces. Your concern in this case is subconsciously perceived as a man of violence.

Second - you have taken on the role of the mother, giving man the role of a child. Well, what kind of relationship at the same time you expect? Remember your behavior in your childhood, his nihilism and resistance.

Help the man to be a man, cease to be his mother. All responsibility - man, you - the role of assistant and adviser, and your advice should be based on your intuition rather than logic and examples from life.

Obsequiously.

Your pandering subconsciously reminds man of his own weakness and provokes to prove their strength, "wipe your feet on the rag."

Understand yourself, where did you get it too low sense of self worth, fix it, and not man, and will come into your life even more "fierce" teacher.