Your man and his friends

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Socializing your man with his friends - an amazing phenomenon to observe that it would be very interesting if at times it does not affect your interests. How to minimize the damage from the effects of the male herd instinct on your relationship?

Many women who have recently married or just moved in together with his chosen one, complain that their man puts too high an opinion of friends. In other words, if you tell him one thing, and friends - the other, he just does not listen to you.

Sometimes it comes to the absurd, and we wonder: How can you be so stupid? But in fact, the reason is not in man's stupidity, and that your partner is likely misses his bachelor life.

No, it does not mean that it is bad to you. But if earlier he and his friends were "free bird" and only listened to the views of each other, but now he is forced to compare their plans with yours, ask for your opinion and listen (at least nominally) to your advice.

Therefore, each case when it takes a decision based on the opinion of his friends, not your - this is for him a balm for the soul, a proof that he can still be independent. It should be noted that this behavior is not specific to all men.

Strong (I mean inner strength, of course), confident representatives of the stronger sex are rarely guided by such motives. On the contrary - they are a pleasure to consult with their wives - it's once again proves the unity of the family.

Those men, who often listen to the advice of friends, ignoring your likely to have psychological problems or are too vulnerable to outside influence. In the first case - most likely a man brought up in single-parent or an unhappy family.

His father told him how his "sawing" the mother, or he watched parents "dismantling". Since then, and I am sure that listen to the woman - an unworthy occupation peculiar to henpecked.

What if your man is thinking this way?

You can take him to a psychologist, but you can work on most of its complexes, trying to convince him that the family - a single organism, where all important decisions are made jointly.

In the second case - a man is not able to resist the herd mentality so characteristic of adolescents. Rather, he (and, apparently, his friends) has simply grown up.

As a youth, many of us tend to consider the opinion of friends last resort, but most people, growing up, getting used to rely more on their own judgment.

In men, this process can take more time (we all know that the young man is psychologically mature more slowly than girls). Maybe your partner has just not reached the same level of maturity that you do?

In this case, you can wait a little: what if a year or two he will change.

But on the other hand, it is worth it to spend the best years of waiting?

Internet dating, and I want to ...

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Sooner or later, a single woman begins to gently passing glance at the past, passing, running through men. Dreams become -Pornographic erotic character. A thought like a boomerang back to one.

"I want sex! "- Yells something below the navel. "I want to caress! "- Aching chest. "I want to kiss" - begging lips. "I want to love" - ​​moans heart. They all want the same time, and to appease the cries can only meet someone who will make them shut up. Togo, who will satisfy all requests simultaneously.

After all, no matter how tried to deceive himself a woman, one sex is impossible to appease the desire to love and platonic love to replace a good lover. Having reached a certain age, you want quality, and only him.

Where in our time to find a partner in life, or in extreme cases a man to body and soul?

You can, of course, to become a regular at the nightclub, but tried but steadily getting drunk companies, but stoned young people, there is my happiness is not found.

Cafes and restaurants.

Honestly, the budget can considerably be forsaken, and the stomach to twist from drinking coffee and tea.

Dating websites.

Now - this is the most popular place to look for lovers, husbands, friends and just spend time millions of people. After the meet and communicate in the internet, go on a date, so if you know the person a week or even a month.

In general, if you do not delve globally - obvious advantages and the lack of negative aspects.

At the time, I could not resist and was registered on the site, which is home to the lonely, and far from lonely hearts.

Wheel of Internet dating twirled.

The first stream of letters diminished my enthusiasm and brought to light the state of depression. Corny, stereotyped and uniformity. Maybe I'm wrong and I filled the form write solid imbeciles, or vice versa, those who imagined himself as second only to God?

Without regret remove your previous account and create a new one. Nothing has changed. 30% of those same men wrote again. The standard is definitely sent all the letters hint or even a direct invitation to meet on neutral territory for sex.

On Saturday and Sunday most often wrote bachelors, working days were connected married, who wanted to emerge from the routine bustle filled days, vivid sensations, expectations rendezvous and adrenaline. I do not want anything. Hands went down.

After a month "stay" on the site, completely disappointed, though honestly answered all of whose letters seemed more or less interesting. But in the third, and then the second letter the man wanted to quit sending any and all candidates for appointment to the "blacklist."

I even classify themselves men visiting a dating site.

 

1. Horny.

It is proposed to kiss feet, lick "pussy", three orgasms in a row. Men of this type of claim that they want and can several times a day. Hateful sex machines, which is full of free time for sexual pleasures. When they manage to work, eat, sleep - is unclear.

2. Married.

They do not hide their status, but always hide the face. Modestly offer to send a photo to the "Mail". After so modestly interested, they say, are you ready for an intimate meeting twice a week during office hours preferably on your site, but if much of infusion, take off the apartment.

3. Married.

About Legally married silent, although the objectives are similar to those of married paragraph 2. However, those with the time to be made aware that married "for the kind of" do not get divorced just because it is a pity the children and sleep with their wives in different rooms. However, they wince when calling a spouse and run on demand home.

4. Bachelors requests.

Give them: beautiful, intelligent, security, no housing problems. In general, the one that he borrowed the maximum possible and not spend a dime.

5. Bachelors with serious intentions.

Look for his wife and the mother of his future children. The presence of other people's children are put into a stupor and immediately causes irritation. They are constantly in search, sorted, examined under a magnifying glass and go further, because there is no limit to perfection.

6. Virtualization.

Want to virtual sex with your help, asking them to write obscenities like "I release myself from elegant linen and stroking himself on the chest elegant fifth the size ...". Virtualization sure that all just waiting when they announced such a proposal.

7. Ordinary guys.

They just want to spend time with the girl. Like - meeting again. I do not like it - in the garden and on to search.

8. Sponsors.

Ready to buy your restaurant, dinner, gifts, if you do not mind to fulfill their desires. Sponsors are most interested in girls. Many people do not mind having some fun "on the ball", even if it will have to open your legs.

The list could go on, but the point?

Internet is really like a bunch of everything and everyone. Naham? With ease. Send ...? No problem. Called ...? Case one second. Having been refused? What upset about plenty of other, more compliant.

Here you can be yourself. You can show your "I" almost immediately, especially if the person does not meet the demands, or do not sootvetstvuesh his wishes.

Men easily showed the worst hand, do not hesitate, do not worry about someone else's opinion and not worrying. Most of them appeared in the likeness concerned Kozlov and near to Baranov. No more no less. Finally, patience is exhausted.

I easily removed the profile and sighed with relief.

Undoubtedly, the story told, this is only my negative experience. In no case do not claim that he met on the Internet - is unrealistic.

On the contrary! It is here that many find their destiny. Therefore, we must try to seek, write and communicate.

The main thing is not to give up, and among the many tinsel, you will definitely meet your people.

Pleasant and real dating.





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