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And there is immediately a question: Why flirt with her husband? As something completely unnatural it looks that it eyes to build something? Yes, if the behavior is unnatural, of course, do not have to. But what is flirting, and how is it expressed? Coquetry - it
non-verbal, non-verbal, non-verbal signals, informs the partner that you like and that you would like to get his attention.
Agree, a pleasant man's attention. You've probably noticed that the flirtatious women men love.
Coquetry expressed in a particular inclination of the head, when you listen to a partner in a closer and closer look, to pose in your movements, repetitive movements synchronized partner.
You like to dance the dance with him, but at the same time movement barely visible to the eye. Look your expressed interest and admiration. Partner is very nice. Do not deprive the husband of such a pleasure - to feel like an interesting man.
If you do not satisfy his need for attention, this need will not disappear, but simply will search other women who will be able to satisfy the need for `. Can I organize my nonverbal (nonverbal) behavior so that it looked flirty?
Here are leaning forward, listening to her husband, I'll stare at him, and even the head will turn to the side, as do dogs. Like, all right, but only the husband something scared and wondered if I was ill. Thus, it is impossible to be coquettish.
Our body itself is organized and adequately express the feelings that we experience, but because the main thing - to have these feelings. Feel interest to her husband to try it to see something new, to look into it to solve, like crossword, and thus please him.
Sometimes you have to watch the young wife did not coquetry and affectation, unpleasant, unwise affectation. Mistress makes herself small Ljalju, inflate lips, whimsical meows, in general, a nightmare. Maybe you, too, is met? Outsiders are uncomfortable, and her husband all this rather quickly bored. God has saved you from that.
So what, you say, all the while flirting, it's ridiculous. Absurd as unnatural as if organically, and to place it charming. Coquetry involves a small theater for one spectator. In each of us a lot of women.
Do not keep them locked up, give them a chance to appear not get stuck in one role, it's boring. Be different. In fact you live and the little girl, and socialite, sometimes prevails sensible mother, sometimes you're a good friend, and even pal.
You can in fact my husband and I have a drink and talk on equal terms. And it is possible at some evening to become a nun-touchy. Invent, and yes, even no need to invent, it's all you have, just let yourself, let be different.
Men like variety. This, unfortunately, is one of the reasons for change. And, to some extent, we are now talking about the prevention of cheating. Coquetry, of course, it involves a creative approach to its external appearance. What a discreet but accurate cosmetics. What modest graceful ornaments.
At home you look as attractive as on the street. But, paying much attention to the visual attractiveness of the content of communication with her husband is not always thought through. The young wife a lot of energy and talent invested in the preparation of dinner, but on the spiritual food for the evening and does not think.
How often we hear the complaint `women that her husband prefers any, the most uninteresting transfer conversation with her. And all this is said reproachfully, where the subtext is: `It is bad, it is with me neinteresno`.
Maybe interesting for some other reason? Or maybe after work you need time to switch, to recover. This is indicated by almost all men engaged in serious work, `I would leave me alone for an hour, I would have a little rest, and oklemalsya would become a different person. Not because, as you come immediately falls on me some pile of information, I am required to participate, understanding, and I just do not have it sil`.
We are different, men and women. And if for a woman to experience - it means to utter, the man is in a difficult situation it is better to keep silent, to recover. Therefore it is better for a while not annoying, but you can talk over dinner.
Not always right man to inquire what had happened today, and why he has a bad mood. Sometimes it is simply not ready to talk about their affairs, it may be wise to divert his small talk, then have a conversation about anything. Why it is considered in the family does not fit?
If you say, then certainly about the problems that the money is never enough and that husbands girlfriends better. If you prepare for the arrival of her husband not only dinner, but the topic of conversation? Not life itself eats love, how can he eat it? And our relationship that we are doing everyday, mundane.
It is not known how much is acceptable for us, but very nice western tradition to dress for dinner. At the elegant suits and we are transformed spiritually. Not very much want to, or simply will not work `gavkat`, if you beautifully dressed, her hair and the next posture. Not to mention that the cutlery and napkins not only help there, but also set the tone of the conversation.
Maybe you feel it is a trifle, but you make sure. ' The habit is given to us from above, replacing Fortunately it '. The author of this statement, you know. Understandably, the genius of Pushkin. But is it worth the happiness of communication to replace the habit? Do not get used to her husband, looking at him as if he barely familiar to you, surprised, stared, his attempt to unravel.
Update your relationship. We are updating your wardrobe, otherwise we simply become bored. So in a relationship. Do not get used to her husband, and do not let him get used to him, be every day a new and, of course, flirty.
If you decide that it's all too, so much work, and for what? That is your right, and will respect this right: to think differently, live differently. However, any payment for the joy of intimacy small. Anyone can be happy only when he works.
`Wanting is not enough, we must act! `- JW Goethe.
`It is never great things without great trudnostey` - Voltaire.
Especially you need to be pretty and flirty ... Do you think, in bed? Oh no, in the scandal!
If a woman is sexy in a quarrel is the aerobatics! Act out the mirror, rehearse a scene, and then arranging the scene, and you will behave on stage. If you see in the mirror distorted with rage face, hear the shrill voice, it means that you still have a long workout.
This ability, the ability to quarrel, you would be worked out to automaticity. In order not to cause aversion vile habits marketplace grandmother, watch a side. This woman in any circumstances, be able to save face.
Flirted with her husband,
When you are alone, flirt with him when you are at a party, but beware as openly flirt with him with other men.
Now concentrate, give up all thoughts and concerns, read the last sentence of this chapter. Then close your eyes and repeat it. Open your eyes and say it aloud.
Memorize this phrase by heart: A man happy with a woman, that calls attention and admiration of all, but the admiration and attention that belongs only to him!
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