How to bring back the romance and tenderness in relationships

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Most go "out" and make sure that your relationship is not turned into a habit! Very often, those things that at the beginning of your relationship you enjoy doing after a couple of years, forgotten and do not play any role anymore.

But remember how wonderful it was to go before a movie together in the evening session? How do you like to walk on the evening city? Do you love to go on rides together? Remember, and you will want to do it again!

What do we call you and! Walk on the evening sessions in the movie, Kiss in the back row, and not worry about what people think about. If you are not 18 years old - it does not mean that was the end of the world, and most can not do silly things! It is in these adorable nonsense is all the romance and tenderness of your relationship.

Go for a walk together through the city, especially if you planned a -nibud interesting event, for example, the Night of Museums and literary evenings.

You can even assign each other goodbye! This will also be very useful, but still interesting. Immediately you feel 18 year old girl. And your loved one after the first date, the next time required to prepare and bring you flowers.

Make sure that your relationship is not turned into a habit!

The last point I want to remind all women that the most important thing - is to monitor the relations and noted during the time when the notorious romance begins to slowly dissipate. It all depends on us.

Do not expect that relationship will always develop themselves in a romantic way. That did not happen, and it proved a lot of couples who lived together a couple of years, fled in different directions. The relationship must be fought, it is helpful to develop a relationship, and hoped that "everything will be solved."

So the main task of every woman - is to work on their relationships with loved ones: a new spark to light, to open new horizons and keep a watchful eye to ensure that the new colors, which appeared in your relationship does not become yet another routine habit.

Lovely woman, this article really wanted to show that despair - is not an option, with a strong desire that every situation is solved and the only thing to take - is to act, to experiment. After all, the only way to try to solve the problem.

Many people may not like that the whole initiative was entrusted to the fragile female shoulders, but because if we want to get something, you need to do to take some steps.

Yes, you can wait for the first step of your men, but the question is, how long you wait, still remains open. Perhaps your spouse just does not occur to you that something is missing. But his attempts to make the romance in your relationship, you just show that the current situation does not suit you.

After you take the initiative, your partner will be tightened for you and will also be a pleasure to pamper you with their attention, care and love.

The main thing to remember that "inaction always generates action."

Author Zinaida Nikolankova

What irritates men in women

to be his mother. All responsibility - man, you - the role of assistant and adviser, and your advice should be based on your intuition rather than logic and examples from life.

Asking verification or enigmatic questions.

Women love to check men trying to fish out their true feelings or intentions, asking questions such as "what do you think? "" What would you do if ...? "," What are you going to do when I die? ". On a non-verbal level, your cunning man is understood and met a hostile reception.

Asking "stupid" questions, and excessive chatter.

You have to understand that the mind is a man different from the female mind, what clever for a woman, it will seem silly to men. In order to "stupidity" was not irritated, you really have to worry about, interested in the question asked, whatever it was.

It is felt, and every man, if he does not block, be happy to answer. Conversely, if the questions are asked in order to stir up a man or because bored, waiting for you at best a contemptuous silence. All this applies to the "chatter."

If you have something genuinely cares or worries, even the fact that you yourself are not very clear, do not understand the causes of your anxiety or anxiety - say at any time and for as long as necessary.

The man on the importance of non-verbal level feel, hear and be sure to include your analytical mind to break it down and get to the bottom. Actually so do real women instead of "Nurse" and not "litter".

The general rule for all: if you want to listen to you, learn to listen to yourself.

Manifestation of excessive emotion, enthusiasm, naivete.

The man is not a woman, it is not worse and not better, it's different. What a tragedy for you (no lipstick in a purse or a broken nail), for him nothing. He can get in your position once, but for a long time to endure your wailing will not.

He will not understand a long and violent manifestation of your emotions, all the same, they are positive or negative, and regardless of the reason. To tell the truth, if emotions are tightened, they are heated intentions, far from the initial causes. It feels taken for attempted manipulation and there is resistance.

If a man does not sympathize with you right away, no your emotions will not help. Excessive enthusiasm and naivete is perceived by many men, almost like folly. For these men, it is important that the woman seemed a little sillier than him, but not too much, otherwise it is inconvenient to your friends.

But most importantly, remember: the suppression and excessive display of emotions harm in the first place your health.

Coercion.

Forcing a man to do what he does not want to (go with you to shop, to visit mother in law, go to the theater, etc.), women often resort to all sorts of tricks.

First tricks - this manipulation, they also violence (violence mentioned above).

Secondly, it is forgotten that man - the other, their interests are different from your own and it is not your thing, to drag him along.

Forcing a man perceived as an attack on their freedom, hence the response, negative response, followed immediately whether or imposed after the event. Gradually this will lead to the fact that the man in the peak you will reject any your offer, even if it is, it will be interesting.

Allow me to himself and the man to be free. Let the man go for football or drink beer with friends, or to tinker in the garage, and myself - to come back to him without a mom or go haberdashery, or chat with a friend.

Only in this case it is really common interests and will expand even further strengthen and improve your relationships.

Have a nice life, woman, your man!

Do not forget only that nobody's fault - neither you nor he is. Both got what they deserved. And do not rush to change the flea.

Only one way out: I do, and if your man is also required to change. Which direction? The one in which you are going to change.

Good luck!

Beach passions, indulging in love

Poses

You can not have sex unnoticed by others. Therefore, it is hardly appropriate to tickle the nerves themselves and the people who come to the sea is not to contemplate your love of the game. It is better to opt for a solitary lovemaking "wild" beach.

Mermaid.

In fact, it's almost traditional pose, but with a slight twist - hair swaying underwater excite many men. The woman lies on her back, legs spread and bent their knees. The man, leaning on his hands, falls from above. The rhythm of frictions - free, that is more just like a couple.

During intercourse the man is not advisable to touch a woman hands caressing her, expressing his passion and gratitude only kisses. The woman, on the contrary in every way a man caresses wet hands, which brings an additional piquancy and excitement.

Face to face.

The man sits down, leaning on his hands and bent his legs, pelvis resting on the leg. A woman sits on top, leaning on hands. The rhythm of frictions asks the woman, allowing her to adjust the time of sexual intercourse.

3. In water

Accident prevention

Day do not forget about sun protection: the existence of a hat you just need if you do not want to become a victim of sunstroke and spend the rest of vacation in bed.

Remember that in the water, your skin tans, too - the sun's rays penetrate well through the water. Therefore, be sure to use waterproof sunscreen. Water should not cover your shoulders and, ideally, can go only up to the chest, or in a fit of passion, you run the risk of drowning.

Contraception and hygiene

Sex in the water - a very problematic activity, because almost all the grease is washed off. All that we can recommend - bring a "sail" artificial lubricant. In terms of hygiene, things are really bad, what you yourself are well aware. Well, if the prospect of various diseases you do not mind ...

Poses

The best part Sex in the water that the bodies are virtually weightless, so even the owner of magnificent forms can feel like a light, like a feather, enjoying sex in standing poses. And the rest - if, of course, do not swim in dangerous proximity from your own - do not notice the love games.

Water swing.

The man puts his feet shoulder width apart, the woman wraps legs around his hips, arms - shoulders. Special piquancy gives something that is not just a couple of sets the rhythm of frictions - the waves in their own corrective movement couple, forcing the partners not only in the power given to each other, but also to comply with the elements.

Swaying on the waves.

The man puts his feet shoulder width, a woman encircled his waist with one leg, and the second is based on the seabed, while leaning back, reclining on the waves. A man supported his partner's waist. This partner should not passively hang on the man, and literally "beating of the waves" - is extremely turned on by a partner, and the woman brings indescribable pleasure.

4. Underwater

More and more extreme in an effort to try everything and at any price, chooses on holiday sex under water - this kind of sex is now at the peak of fashion.

For teaching this complex process, there are special instructors who look not only at how a couple learned the technique of underwater sex, but also designed to find out how sexual partners trust each other and are responsible for what is happening with your partner.

Under water - a body in the tank and one oxygen cylinder for two. Of course, in fact possible to use two cylinders, but couples often prefer one that is quite safe, but, nevertheless, is very popular.

The process of getting rid of the suit under the water - whole saga, as well as his putting. In general, sex under water in general - employment for the hardy and patient, newcomers in the underwater world is usually brings a solid disappointment.

Independently, without equipment and instructors to engage in amorous games underwater breath-hold is hardly worth it - this is extremely dangerous.

Olga Mikhailova