How to manage a man that a woman should do

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How to manage a man that a woman should do
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For many women the question is: how to make a man do all the things that we want to buy from another gown, ending weekends spent at Tiffany. To achieve the desired, it is not necessary to arrange a tantrum and shed tears.

There are other ways to achieve the desired, which are just six simple rules.

Manage anyone (including man) is not a simple exercise. The above tantrums and tears produce the opposite effect, they do not help to control the man, but rather the contrary, infuriated him.

Despite the fact that we want to get away from the men, whether buying shoes or a ban on his Saturday meeting with friends, important thing to remember about the specific rules of its taming. But first consider the basic mistakes that often allow the fair sex. And so, what you should not do?

1. Do not blackmailing him

There are different kinds of intimidation: for example, if we manipulate his feelings: "If you love me, then ..." infringes its status, "a real man not have done to" blackmailing her emotions: "If you do not, I will be badly".

Similar phrases never let you control the man rather cause a backlash. According to psychologists, this behavior will not bring positive results, but on the contrary he may appear such habits as lying, suspicion, secrecy and so on.

2. Do not compare him with other men

It belittles his dignity and causes negative feelings and emotions. In response to such comparison, a man can simply just go in search of a woman, for which he will be the best.

3. Not satisfied with tantrums

Most of the ladies are convinced that this is the most effective technique to achieve the desired result.

In some situations, it is possible and it is one of the ways to manipulate men, but not always, rather it works in the beginning of the relationship. In the later stages of such behavior in men causes negative emotions, such as irritation.

4. Do not try to speak their language

There are situations when you want something to convince the man, but we women do it far more difficult, if it did another man. Language of men and women - are two completely different things. It is not necessary to go into its own language, it is better to be a woman in the fullest sense of the word.

5. Do not commanded man

Try as little as possible to use verbs in the imperative when dealing with a man, or better yet, do not use them. According to psychologists on self-sufficient men such communication does not work, and even if they bring some results, it is clearly not the ones to which you want.

And now I come to the main point: what should a woman do a man to do everything she wants?

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How to part with a man

One of the most complex and pressing issues for women is "How to throw a guy? ". Do any of them there is a reason: someone is in love with another guy, someone does not feel enough love from the current satellite, well, someone fed up too intrusive attention and prohibitions.

The problem here is one: to leave is always quite difficult, especially when the relationship has lasted long enough.

So everything has been decided, all the consequences of thought, you decide to talk to your man about to finally leave. Ways to end the relationship a lot, but you need to choose the worthy.

First you need to understand how you should not do:

• To leave should be in person. It is not necessary to terminate the relationship by phone or SMS. During a private conversation a person can see your eyes, hear the tone of voice, and understand that you are determined. But when communicating via SMS or via the Internet is something left unsaid.

• You can not hide the true reason for which you want to break up. Openness and honesty - the best way out. Yes, it can be painful to learn about it, because it can be any habits or lifestyle. But it's better than if the person remains in the dark, and will try to understand the true reasons.

• Keep calm. No need to aggravate the situation. One should not blame the man, it will inevitably lead to the scandal.

• If a man is rude to you, and cruel, the best option would be to tell him about it over the phone.

Step by Step How to part with a man:

1. It is necessary to think in advance what you will say, to weigh the "pros" and "cons". In a personal meeting, you must be clear that tell him. It is advisable to consider the possible reactions that it can respond to your words, and come up with possible answers.

2. Invite your partner to a personal meeting. The place where you will meet, should be comfortable for both of you. This will reduce the stress, and the conversation will take place more easily.

3. Immediately at the meeting to warn the man that you have to it there is a serious conversation. It will help a person tune in to listen to.

4. The most important point - express your opinion, which is why you wanted to leave. Man must clearly hear and understand the cause. Offers and words should be well thought out. Show that you know what you want, so that he did not doubt your intentions.

5. Ask for his opinion, and listen carefully, but without forgetting his. His opinion can affect you, despite the fact that you have decided to end the relationship.

6. Do not give in to persuasion. To come back to the relationship after a breakup does not make sense. After all, there is some reason why you broke up. And the likelihood that a man has changed in a short period of time is very small.