Invalid husband what to do next

 Invalid husband what to do next
Adulterer

Cheating husband, cheating, the situation is very common and many acquaintances. There have always been wrong in finding husbands diversity have always been hunters on someone else's happiness.

When you hear a story about how your friend's husband is cheating on her, you give her some advice, trying as much as possible, to support her, angry with her husband,

but you have no idea - how hurt and offended if he did not feel changed!

And your advice may be reasonable, but they do not apply it in power because the mind does not hear, and his heart, as if in a vise squeeze. And like on the street it is a normal day, as the sun shines, the wind blows, and your world is falling apart, and there's nothing you can change.

You teshish the hope that he will understand how wrong, come back and everything will be as before. Play the role of a happy family in front of the couple, thought the pope trip for children, time is running out and it only gets worse.

If at first he was hiding, fearing that his expose, now on the contrary they walk arm in arm in front of everyone, and nothing to hide.

You call "benevolent" friend and was surprised to say that your husband saw the other, and you barely restraining himself not to cry out in pain, still hide behind it and say they oboznalis.

From loving husband, you become a domestic partner, who hated each other. Because of their cowardice and weakness, he can not dare to go, and so hard trying to get to and that you have decided for him.

In the end, the wife and children are just an obstacle on the way to his "happiness." And this torture can last for years. And the result is usually one - sooner or later he will go anyway!

The most important is our mistake that we dissolve them. We love so much that they are ready to forgive and believe in any story they invented.

We forget that we must first love yourself!

Because if you do not love yourself, how can you love others? It is not afraid to admit it, we are allowing to us so accessed. That is, they treat us the way we allow to yourself a treat!

Of course, the recipe for happiness is not, and has a proven fact that the feeling of love lasts only three years. But love comes to replace the other senses, and they are not inferior to them in strength. Yes, on our shoulders fell the proportion of light is not, it depends on us happiness and peace of the family hearth.

But is that the only easy task that fell on our shoulders? We all know that man, no matter how big it was not visually, in the soul of a little boy who needs advice, protection and care. But in the upbringing of the child, "baby" is not worth too much to indulge!

You must be their friends, their interests, or after a few years, besides the weather, diapers and common relatives, you have nothing else to talk about. It should always be the person to generate interest in others, and of course have her own husband.

A man should reach his wife, but not too much, otherwise it will fall, and rising, he will give his hand a different woman!

So, the main thing - love yourself!

You must be looking in the mirror, admiring himself. There is only one life. So live not only for others but also for yourself. For 50 years, looking back, you would have something to remember, in addition to diapers, dishes and plates!

How to recognize a lie, a lie signs

 How to recognize a lie, a lie signs

It is very difficult to live, doubting the honesty of the man. But it's easy to check ...

Body language and gestures works on a subconscious level and will definitely detect lies. Basic gestures - signs of lying, which can determine that a person is deceiving:

1. If a person touches the face of his hands scratching the nose, eyebrow, covers her mouth.

2. If a person is marking time, shifting from foot to foot, or make a small step back.

3. If the head is tilted down interlocutor or back - it is probably also the desire to close.

4. If a person compresses, bites or chews his lips, sucks them in, know - he is cheating.

5. The cross their arms or legs, unconsciously fenced off, deceiving interlocutor.

6. The third outer corners of the eye forefinger. It is very difficult to tell a lie, looking into his eyes. Using this little trick, the man looks away.

7. Rubs ear or nose. While deception in human blood rushes to the face, causing itching and tingling in the ears and nose.

8. If a man holding the breath when speaking. A person experiencing tension and excitement, trying to hide something.

9. The interviewer will cover or close your eyes completely, his head slightly inclined forward - it shows a sense of guilt.

10. Keep track of speech. If the interviewee coughs, trying to clear his throat, abruptly changes tone of voice, normal speech at a faster or slower, it means that the other person is worried and nervous, probably cheating.

11. Confirm the lie may also be a bad or slow response interlocutor. This means that people now busy with his own thoughts, emotions and bad shows poorly supported conversation.

12. It is also evidenced by the violent reaction of the deception. If a person starts to cry, or, on the contrary, starts talking too polite, it means that the person is trying to hide their real feelings.

The signs of a lie also includes:

Avoid direct eye contact,

Frequent blinking eyes,

Flushed face and the tip of the nose,

Hands hidden in his pockets,

Insincere smile and unnatural friendliness.

But remember, experienced liars usually do not submit such evidence of lies and catch them much more difficult.

Especially if they lie frequently and shamelessly, they are easily and simply stand straight look, do not worry, do not hide your hands, do not touch your face and smile naturally.

Love on the side, the basic rules of female infidelity

 Love on the side, female infidelity

In life there are many different situations that are difficult and serious situation. And love is the greatest gift, which is to accept it or not, you decide.

All women and girls, especially if they dare to commit adultery, it is recommended mandatory to read, remember and respect the basic rules of female infidelity.

Changes easier to get on a simple intuition husband, multiplied by one, even the slightest of your mistake, will lead to the fact that every secret in a moment become clear. Lull intuition you are unlikely to succeed, but the annoying failures can be very easy to avoid.

Men's fragrance.

Good sense of smell is closely not only women but also men. So either ask your nice not to use perfume or gave him the same brand, which uses your spouse. The latter option is, however, permissible only in the case if they match the taste.

Do not wait for the future ... that are going to give.

Correct to perform it today. Of course, if your spouse will show the wonders of Treasure Hunting and will find a hidden gift, you can immediately evade that, well, this is for you, dear. But what then if the taste and size, in the case of clothing, your men are completely different?

Do not cheat.

The smallest lie, as is known, gives rise to a suspicion. In the event that your memory is not perfect, and you know for a habit to be confused in detail, will minimize the amount of lies issued by her husband. In composing about where you were at that moment, when basking in the caresses of your new lover in the nuances suggested not to go - there is a risk to get confused. Especially since you will more excited.

Generally, as paradoxical as it may sound, it is necessary to reduce the number of lies to a minimum. A more convenient to come up with a reliable and fully pretext under which you will be able to go home in the evening. For example, sewing classes, yoga, because the skills learned there is no specialized training is to test - this time, your peace and radiant appearance is not difficult to completely write off the effects of the use of meditative practices - that's two.

Do not flinch at every call.

Even if he calls it, even if the clock - midnight. In that case, if your spouse poorly imagine your friendly staff, no problem calling him by his first name and patronymic (convenient it right and be written in a notebook), replied: "Yes, yes, I knew nothing serious, of course, tomorrow, right from the morning .... ".

And without doubt tell her husband that she is - your boss, and he had just learned that tomorrow morning you will come to check. If the spouse is immersed in your business so that he knows all the names in your business center, a man generally more convenient than writing in a notebook, and his unexpected call to answer: "You have the wrong number." And generally speaking. Train yourself to turn off the mobile home. Or switch to a mode of "Silent." Would be correct and without vibration, too.

Do not leave extra to worry about.

In that case, if you rent an apartment, staying at a hotel, get gifts and generally perform any act related to the monetary costs, have paid strictly in cash. No credit, credit cards, no money transfers Yandex and other Web-mani. Checks from the present or to give more reliable with the gift, if it is equipment or any items that are able to break down during the warranty period, or immediately disposed of at the exit from the store.

Emails and SMS delete after reading.

In that case, if you and your friend has a bad habit of thirty-three times a day to write each other sms, messages on popular sites, exchange love letters through personal or corporate e-mail, remember one basic rule: read - prowess. Do not risk it - to pick up in our time password to your mail or resource is not so expensive. If you letters to each road as a memory, take you under a different name entirely new mailbox in the service that you have never used.

Just read the letters suggested somewhere in Internet cafes, as on a home computer (especially if you have one for the whole family) has not been canceled viewing feature of recently visited sites. With SMSkami, unfortunately, it will be required to take leave at once. Definitely. To have an extra SIM card or another phone "just for him" - option is very suspicious. What if the husband would see it all? Think about how problems and issues arise in one fell swoop. You are one hundred percent sure that they are ready to answer them?

The meeting place will change.

Almost in many cities is available a significant number of hotels and inns, which are house trained team is on the case under the roof of the reception couples occurring in secret. They saw you, a professional will never let you know. That is impossible to say exactly when you're dealing with a private landlady. Who knows, maybe, meet unexpectedly with you hand in hand with her husband, she came into our heads to speak, and then specify how there feeling dearest Mr. X?

The bed of love.

The bed is of course, the space is actually enchanted - it could embroil it reconciles, she is able to give out the fact of treason. If you have suddenly changed the habits and addictions to sex, in that case, if you start at all times to refuse sex spouse, citing a headache - ever he starts to suspect his understudy. And if you divorce your plans are not included, it is to be true to their sexual habits. And by the way, always keep in mind the quality of contraception. I think no need to explain why it's pretty important.

In that case, if you are caught - deny everything.

Even if you are caught almost by the hand. Do not succumb to any provocations of this kind: "You tell me the truth and I'll forgive you." Lovely woman, never, under any circumstances, would not start with the bad idea of ​​repentance: "That is until, I would say that more than for anything else - and he will forgive me."

Perhaps forgive, history remembers such cases. But really one hundred percent will never forget. This is the moment when you want to lie to the last. You have time to repent in the confessional, and injure the partner so that the effects of the injury may be the most unknown.

And by the way, one more time on filling. In that case, if your friend for you - no more than just a passing option, a single game would be better if he did not know about you anything extra - no jobs, no address. Just fire case.

Good luck to you in love and in relationships with men!





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