Opportunities to communicate online in the Internet are vast. Among the thematic forums, chat rooms and simply beloved ICQ sure you can find a very pleasant companion. For interesting phrases and fun emoticons do not notice how time passes, and the source is becoming more attractive.
And then we begin to make the most important mistake - invent "Him." It quickly becomes a companion for us courageous, cheerful, resourceful and beautiful. In another simply can not be. Can someone else to say it, to joke and to understand you? At such moments, you do not think that all this is a mirage and his own imagination.
Each woman creates ideal of man and believes he is somewhere there.
During the conversation online is easy to convince yourself that it is "he." The more that believe in a better way ... We want to communicate and believe inventing itself and giving the illusion of our interlocutor best qualities. Very quickly, this communication can lead to a stable opinion that you're in love.
With this very often occurs even when the sides not seen photo each other. So how can you not fall in love with an illusion created by your own imagination? First of all, communicating on the Internet, remember that at the other end is a living person. It can be anything - as a handsome and not quite.
Ask your buddy picture. If he does not send it, it will serve as a beacon that not all as smoothly as you want to present. Of course, beauty - it's not the most important thing, but the deception and the desire to cheat is already doing a portrait of your virtual acquaintance not be so ideal. And do not look for excuses to him. Believe only the facts, not their contrived explanations of what is happening.
Very often, when the virtual acquaintances there is a risk that you are deceived.
It is very easy to send someone else's photo, throw a couple of short years in age (or subtract) and write a couple of heroic events of his biography. Women tend to believe a lot, and sometimes all that they say men. If you have caught myself on the fact that it happened to you, you start thinking. Analyze the facts, compare them and ask your friend that any of the details.
Cheating is easy to open, we need only ask the right questions. And their women can come up with, you only think. Once you've seen photos and heard the details of the biography of the beloved companion, you can judge it more objectively. Now he has not come up with an illusion, and it is a real person.
It now is the time for more resolute action when it is time to translate into real life dating.
The sooner you do, the better. Acquainted already in the light of the sun or a romantic candlelight, you can find answers to many questions. But the longer the communication in the network, the more we begin to idealize and fall in love with an illusion.
The more you communicate online, the harder it is to meet later in life.
Fear of appearing "is not the same as the network" is stronger. And such a relationship, albeit virtual, it seems to exhaust itself. Not many after 5-6 months of communication is solved at a meeting of the Internet.
Although there are cases where it was after that meeting, the pair immediately go to the registrar. This means that online communication is not only the negative aspects, but also positive. If you do not give in to emotions, to listen to reason and facts, which are opened, you can avoid mental anguish.
Why are women so often fall in love with their virtual friends?
Because they see in their ideal. It's hard not to succumb to emotions and feelings, but it must be done in a relationship with a virtual man. Otherwise, things can be very sad.
The Perfect Man - the dream of every woman
Often, thinking "Who is he: the perfect man? "
there is an image in the mind pumped tanned macho tall, with blond hair, green eyes and a two-day stubble. This image is a strong stereotype entered our consciousness.
And deep down we realize that is not the main thing in a person's appearance, but still in the phrase "the perfect man" in my head pops aggressively handsome image above.
But if you think about it, the perfect man - is not one that through narrowed eyes looking at you from the cover of a glossy magazine.
And, perhaps, the one that is the defender and a reliable support for his girlfriend, wife, children, who all his virility directs exclusively for the benefit of the family.
For a woman, the husband should be, above all, a friend who will be able to understand it.
Women though and consider themselves independent, but the support of a strong half of them still need, ie a man should be, among other things, a good adviser and assistant to his woman.
And, perhaps, the perfect man - one of whose shoulders lady feels like a stone wall.
In the case of an emergency situation he immediately orient on the spot resolve the situation and will do everything possible to ensure that its companion is always comfortable and happy. Arguing about how to be the perfect man, think about it: is not very often you ladies think about men in general?
The following thought: whether they deserve it? I wonder whether most men think about women as often as women about them?
And if you think, what is it? Every time he went out into the street, a woman looks in the mirror, correct makeup, do her hair. For whom? "Of course, for myself" - confidently answers most of the girls, but, certainly, there is a share of guile.
In the subconscious of any girl / woman's inherent desire to please men.
Therefore, leaving the street, the ladies are trying for them too. I'd love to men trying to look good for the ladies.
To do this, it does not need to wear fashionable clothes exclusively or fill jeans into the boots to match the latest fashion.
Probably, just look carefully monitor their appearance. It is certainly part of the image of the ideal man. In general, it is difficult to argue about taste.
Someone like glamorous guys. Their way is rather like than men, and women, but for someone just such a man - an ideal.
Someone is crazy about pumped, muscular, strong guys - and this is also for someone considered to be ideal. Well, someone quite calm, reliable, is not glamorous and brawny family man.
Every girl has their own unique ideal, and it should be good not to individual dignity of men: strong hands, beautiful face, fashionable clothes. It has to be seen in his chosen current personality and be happy with him.
Still, nothing quite perfect does not happen. That is correct. Otherwise, if it were only an ideal, it would be boring to live. For example, it is the perfect man: and a hard worker and a family man, and an athlete, and utterly accurate.
Probably, it is a normal woman will soon begin to irritate. And plus to all, for such a clever pospeesh not, you will always be in his shadow. And even worse, you begin to feel close to him unworthy of his wife.
So it is always better to be a balance and adhere to the golden mean.
Holiday romance in winter
The Winter's Tale: a holiday romance in the snow.
Before the summer adventures still good one hundred and fifty days, your charms are hidden under the skin and hides others' animals, frost nipping at your nose and had to wear on the car winter tires. The air smells of frost and fir trees, shops hysterically preparing for the sale,
girlfriend discussing the menu Christmas table. Winter in general. And in nature, and on the personal front.
Yes, in the summer - well, in the summer - the sun, the birds are singing, the beach running. In summer, the little white sand beaches and distant ocean on a fine shingle sea close - freedom of choice. I mean, you looked at anyone, just want to choose.
But what about winter? People bundled up her chilly body in warm clothes, completely devoid of eroticism.
Love and flirt - heat-loving plant, the cold take root poorly. But there are situations where this rule does not work - prevent circumstances.
And such circumstances conducive to light entertainment, folded, of course, in the resorts. But in the winter resorts - ski.
1. Coach. Roman coach certainly hit of the season. And in general: every self-respecting woman is simply obliged to tighten the hot (well, at least to thaw, that is) a holiday romance with a tall, handsome, blond and tanned in the sun Alpine skier who taught her to stand on skis.
Cons: coach commonly "leads" of several novels simultaneously. We'll have to follow the schedule. Pros: Well, but the photos are great! Her friends turn green with envy. You handsome and tanned! Wow!
2. A neighbor of the hotel. Well, a very pragmatic choice! What the neighbors on the floor not the people, or what? Cons: not enough passion, spontaneity and romance. Pros: comfortable - again! (in the cold do not need to run on a date). Profitable - two! (who will pay the bill in a restaurant?). Finally, comfortable - three! (at your disposal - two comfortable rooms).
3. jaded tycoon. If all guards cordoned off the plateau in the same ski suits if the roof of your hotel to urgently construct a helipad and dripped to the steps of a transatlantic submarine channel - so waiting for the guest. A very special guest - a very rich and very modest, in common parlance - oligarch.
Incidentally, the tycoon will not necessarily be a short, plump and bald. A significant part of the credit and the money bags - young, good-looking and follow the fashion. And many of them are periodically completely alone in this cold, cold world ...
Cons: Do you remember the situation with the girls in Courchevel and the oligarchs? That's all gone, but the sediment remained. Pros: the image of the oligarchs - lavish gifts. It captures the essence?
4. Santa Claus, he is Santa Claus, also known as Yolopukki (depending on country of residence). Cons: The novel is likely to be platonic. Pros: the feeling of a fairy tale, the magic of Christmas and the mountain of teddy bears provided.
5. The attending physician. Acclimatization - a terrible thing. Two or three days with low grade fever and a runny nose you provided. And in this case, the patient comes to the doctor. Sometimes the disease can be and pretend. Cons: sick - bad and unpleasant. While others conquer the route, have to sit in a room and watch the telly. German, French or English. It depends, again, on the place of residence. Pros: the common cold you just get rid of as soon as possible.
6. Tour Operator. I do not mean the organization, and that nice young man who met you at the airport, drove up to the hotel, has issued the documents and brought a cup of cold cappuccino. Cons: not prestigious, and is not suitable for class. We'll have to hide. Pros: the freshness and novelty of sensations.
7. The operator lift. Lonely strong men, sitting in the cold dushegreykah booths and providing comfort to all those who raised the track ... Cons: it is a perversion. And cold. Pros: what, this also has its own romance - if you search.
8. Japanese. The Japanese, they are like cockroaches - have always and everywhere. Even in European ski resorts. Cons: The way to understand the fine Japanese soul is through Kogal (which must be distinguished from Gangur), sento (the door of which hung with Noren) and a hikikomori (which can be attributed to both an individual and a social phenomenon). Pros: This is the interpenetration of cultures.
And indeed: the holiday novel there are no barriers. Neither cultural nor racial, no.
